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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 1 week ago

    I should stop.

    • Oli replied 1 week ago

      Please don’t stop @self-caring-grape, always be the kind, lovely, sweet and compassion person that you are, keep spreading joy, hope and empathy, I want to see you feeling wonderful, please know you can talk to me about absolutely anything, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • There are so many things everybody shoulp stop doing, as: not loving themselves, not being kind to each other, not enjoying life, not being themselves… If it’s something like this, yeah, you should stop @self-caring-grape. If not, keep doing what you’re doing and being such an awesome, kind, and loving person :) . You’re doing great, believe…[Read more]

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    Being around the people you know and love is a blessing. No matter how bad you feel, a real smile will come across your face when you’re with them.

    • We all deserve to be around caring, loving, kind and supportive people @self-caring-grape, you do too, always surround yourself with those who bring you empathy and compassion, keep being the incredible, inspirational and awesome person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I couldn’t agree more with you, @self-caring-grape! Our loved ones have the power to spark a bright light when we find ourselves into the darkness.

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    Am I really helping? Or have I just made the problem worse? Probably the latter.

    Mood : Afraid
    • You are truly helping people by being there for them, being a good person who listens and offers wise, compassionate, inspiring and insightful guidance and advice @self-caring-grape, you are so loving, wonderful and amazing, keep spreading love and kindness as much as you can, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

    • When helping someone, it’s natural to worry about if we are really helping them or just making it worse. That means that we do care about that person, and we truly want them to be happy. I’m sure you’re doing your best efforts to help everybody, @self-caring-grape, so never doubt about yourself. You’re there for all of us, offering advice and…[Read more]

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    You ever have a moment where you want to cry (for any reason) but you just can’t? Like, you just can’t bring yourself to?

    Mood : Numb
    • I don’t want to see you upset or feeling numb @self-caring-grape, you are such a lovely, kind and compassionate person who truly deserves to smile and feel amazing, things will work out for you and everything will be OK, you are a fighter who will win all your battles, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

    • It is frustrating, isn’t it? When you really need a good cry so you can take out of you every bad feeling, but not a single tear comes out. It can happen for many reasons: too many worries, a high level of energy in our bodies, … This numbness will eventually pass, so don’t worry about it. If you really need it, what I usually do is watch some…[Read more]

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    *smiles*

    Mood : Depressed
    • Please don’t feel depressed, alone or upset @self-caring-grape, you are such a kind, lovely and sweet person who deserves to feel positive, happy and wonderful, remember to hold your head up high and focus on all the things that put a bright smile on your face, everything will be OK, keep going forward and never give up, you can do it, always…[Read more]

    • That’s the perfect mask to hide depression: a big smile. I hope everything is alright, @self-caring-grape. You can always inbox me if you need to talk about your worries. Stay strong!

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    Friendship is the strongest force in the world, yet the most fragile.

    Mood : Alone
    • Please don’t feel alone @self-caring-grape, we all deserve loving, strong and special friendship with another person in our lives, you do too, you will meet compassionate people who will always stick by you and never leave you, please know the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, you are so loved and appreciated, stay positive…[Read more]

    • So incredibly true. Try not to feel alone, by doing things you enjoy and distracting yourself with hobbies until the feeling fades aw ay and you can find some good, long-lasting friends

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 2 weeks, 3 days ago

    Sarcastic humour… Oh how I love you

    Mood : Sarcastic
    • It’s good to have humour in our lives @self-caring-grape, it makes us laugh, smile and feel good, use comedy and humour to fight dark thoughts and keep going forward, remember you are awesome in every way, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • We should never forget to add a little spark of humour to our days. Laughter and joy are always welcomed!

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    You know what? Love. And be loved. It doesn’t matter by who.

    Mood : Peaceful
    • You are so right @self-caring-grape, we all deserve to have love and be loved in our lives, remember to always surround yourself with people who will bring you happiness, love and hope, keep being the inspirational, kind and sweet person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • We should spread more love, that would make this world a better one. It’s fantastic to read that you’re feeling peaceful, @self-caring-grape :) . I hope you’re having a nice day!

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    I think one of the worst things to ask a depressed person is; ”Why are you depressed?” Either that or ”Can you stop being so depressing?”

    Mood : Blank
    • We should all be there to support, help and comfort those who are struggling @self-caring-grape, they always should be treated with compassion, care and love, hope you are OK and things are going well for you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I know, a lot of people don’t understand what it is like to be depressed, which is good, for them; but rather troubling for those who do. Try to let people know that that is not something you want to explain as they sound like they aren’t willing to respect it, and try to think of and talk about other things. Hope you are doing alright! Happy new year!!

    • I do agree with you, @self-caring-grape. It’s difficult to understand for people who have never experienced depression, so let them know how do you feel, and how it affects to you. When people say something like ”Can you stop being so depressing?” or “Just stop beeing sad”, I like to make a comparisson with drowning, because it’s very…[Read more]

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks ago

    The new year. I’m peculiarly excited about it.

    Mood : Amazed
    • Oli replied 3 weeks ago

      Do have a great new year and always be the wonderful person that you are @self-caring-grape, smile brightly and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • I hope you start this new year with a lot of hope and happiness. Stay strong and amazing, @self-caring-grape! I wish you a year filled with more happiness, great experiences, and loving people <3

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    Someone needs that love, but you’ll never know who. So you know what? Spare of that shit to anyone. They might just need it <3

    Mood : Contented
    • We should all spread love, happiness and hope to those who need it @self-caring-grape, make everyone feel supported and cared for, the BT community will always do that for anyone and so will you, always be the incredible person that you are and keep smiling, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Yes to all of that! You never know who might be going through hard times, so just spread some love everywhere! Sometimes, a little act, as being kind to each other, can make a whole difference <3

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    Thank you so much to @oliver and @m1s1m3 for responding to my posts, and appreciating them. I’m lucky to have you two who are both so supportive. :)

    Mood : Loved
    • I will always be here for you and so will @m1s1m3, we care about you and want the best for you @self-caring-grape, remember you are awesome and amazing in every way, inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Awww, thank you so much! That put a smile on my face :) . You’ll always have @oliver’s support and mine, @self-caring-grape!! You are such a kind, wise, and compassionate person. Keep being so supportive, and sharing your fantastic advice and positive quotes. Stay strong, and don’t give up! <3

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks, 2 days ago

    Someone’s having a good day out there, why don’t you join them? :)

    Mood : Calm
    • You are so right @self-caring-grape, we all deserve to have good days filled with hope, brightness and positivity, we should always be there for each other and make each other feel wonderful, keep being the lovely and sweet person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • That’s a very bright and positive way to cheer up anyone’s day! Thank you so much for always be here for us, @self-caring-grape! I hope you had a fantastic day <3

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    Anyone find it funny/weird that the reasons why people laugh at the ”I want to kill myself” joke are always different? Some people laugh because they think it’s a false statement. Some people laugh because they’re not suicidal, but they’ve had thoughts about it. Some people laugh because they can relate.

    Mood : Mellow
    • I do agree with you, it’s a funny/weird feeling. Despite being something that could be considered serious, according to oneself circumstances, sense of humor, and way of seeing life, every person can react differently to this. It’s something interesting to think about!

    • I guess we all have different ways of dealing with pain or hurt in our lives @self-caring-grape, some people use humour and jokes to mask how they feel, but we should always reach out and be there for each other whenever we are struggling and feeling sad, hope things are OK and you are having a great day, stay awesome and never give up, inbox me…[Read more]

    • @self-caring-grape I’m the last type. To me humour is a coping skill, it makes a topic easier to talk about. So when I do make that joke (obviously only with certain people) or others do it, I always laugh because of it.
      Everyone’s different though, like you mentioned.

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    @oliver Please understand this. There are so many people out there who are caring for you. We all do. Feel free to inbox me if you need to vent, and genuinely, please take care of yourself. (Hugs)

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted a new activity comment 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update It’s hopeless Nothing will ever change for me It NEVER gets better I’m better off dead I just want to die Forever sad and alone I give up I’m sorry everyone :( View

    It does get better. Trust me. There is always something out there to live for. (hugs)

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    There are good people, fighting for what they’re worth. Fight for your own.

    Mood : Loved
    • It’s great to see you feeling loved @self-caring-grape, keep inspiring this community with your wise advice, you are so kind, wonderful and awesome, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • We are all worthy, we should never forget that. Thank you for your uplifting and wise words, @self-caring-grape :) . I hope you are having a nice day so far.

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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    Love yourself, for who you are, not how others want you to be.

    Mood : Sleepy
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    Self-Caring Fruit posted an update 3 weeks, 4 days ago

    Get off your high horse and look for those who need help getting up there with you.

    (It’s summer where I am and I’m boiling)

    Mood : Hot
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