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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update My mum just threw me out I’m not sure what to do now View

    Your mother should love, care and always be there for you @seagoatsyntax, you are a fantastic person who deserves compassionate people in your life, have you got anyone you can stay with?, friends or other relatives, hope you manage to find somewhere to go, no one deserves to be homeless, I’m always here if you need to chat, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update im not sure if im disgusted with myself or disgusted with them, maybe its both View

    Please don’t feel bad @seagoatsyntax, be kind to yourself and don’t let anything bring you down, I want to see you smiling, what’s on your mind?, everything will be OK, remember you are strong and awesome, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update i genuinely… hate my friends….. i cant even talk to them anymore with out feeling like a piece of shit View

    You are a wonderful person who deserves compassionate and lovely friends around you @seagoatsyntax, surround yourself with people who will listen and stick by you, try to stay positive and smile, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are strong and you will never be alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update friends came over yesterday for bday, barley talked to me then gave presents to my sister (???) then went to bed after i bought them smokes….. my birthdays today and ive woken up to an […] View

    You deserve to have compassionate and amazing friends who will stick by you no matter what @seagoatsyntax, I’m sure you will meet people who will treat you kindly because you are truly brilliant, do try to have a good birthday, I’m always here if you need to chat about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update police coming around today, hoping we get our phone back or at least some compensation…. View

    Hopefully you will get some compensation and all your items back @seagoatsyntax, the people who did this to you need to be caught quickly, try to relax if you can, we are all here for you (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update my birthday on Sunday, went shopping with my sister and got jumped? I’m not even sure how to write this;;;; im just really;; fucked up… there was 3 and then 5 and then 10 or more people […] View

    I’m so sorry this happened to you @seagoatsyntax, you will recover and the people who did this to you will be caught, try your best to be strong, we are all here to support you (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update English exam tomorrow! feeling really nervous not sure why tho View

    You’ll do great @seagoatsyntax, work as hard as you can and do your absolute best, I’m sure you will be successful, stay positive and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update high school has OFFICIALLY ended with muck up day… is it bad I didn’t attended? I’m not sure I’m going to the dinner thing either; honestly school gave me 3 twitches and killed my […] View

    It’s totally your choice if you want to go to the dinner @seagoatsyntax, I’m sure you will do what you feel is good for you, do look ahead towards your amazing future now that school is over, you will be successful no matter what happens, stay positive and focus on achieving all your goals, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update thoughts/rant: why is it those under stressful situations/environments/mentality that vocalise these issues are always encouraged to have this idealistic ”outlook” on life as if it will […] View

    It is difficult to be positive when things seem hard @seagoatsyntax, we need to find various ways of helping each other come through tough times, in the end, it’s about making someone feel good, upbeat and brighter about the road ahead :) (hugs)

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 7 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update thoughts/rant: why is it those under stressful situations/environments/mentality that vocalise these issues are always encouraged to have this idealistic ”outlook” on life as if it will […] View

    Good point, I agree (And well explained) @seagoatsyntax
    What i’m curious after reading this is (per my interpretation)… you did suggest listeners on what ’NOT’ to do. Would you have some thoughts on what a ’listener’ should rather do instead? That would be super helpful, thank you.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update last day of high school tomorrow, I’m glad to leave it behind, and all its stress !! thanks to everyone on blahtherapy for helping me through it !! glad to have this here with an […] View

    You will have such a bright and amazing future @seagoatsyntax, it’s good to see you positive and thankful, remember to go forward with confidence and focus on making all your dreams come true, continue being the beautiful and special person that you are, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    SigmaSuccour posted a new activity comment 7 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update this week has been so much for me…. I mean every time I think about myself or my situations, I have to hold back tears, I mean not even thinking about it I’ll want to cry, writing this […] View

    Thank you for sharing this with us.
    Ahem!…. There was a time I realized that, I wasn’t in control of my life, and that I was living a life others wanted me to live….
    The really funny thing here @seagoatsyntax is that, those people didn’t know a ______ (beep) of how to live! they were (and are) depressed, chronically stressed, miserable…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update this week has been so much for me…. I mean every time I think about myself or my situations, I have to hold back tears, I mean not even thinking about it I’ll want to cry, writing this […] View

    Please don’t let stress get you down @seagoatsyntax, work as hard as you can and I’m sure you will do great at school, your parents have no right being mean to you and they shouldn’t call you names, you deserve love, encouragement and to be told how incredible you are every-day, things will be OK and everything will go positivity, remember to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update note to self: you don’t exist for them. You deserve better than the way you were treated. You are you, and that is enough. View

    This is such a lovely and inspirational post @seagoatsyntax, keep being kind and good to yourself, you are worth it and you do matter, look after yourself and stay upbeat, we are all here to support you on Blah, feel free to message me anytime if you want to chat, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    SJayJay posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update note to self: you don’t exist for them. You deserve better than the way you were treated. You are you, and that is enough. View

    @seagoatsyntax you will always be enough. Btw I favoroted this in case I need some inspiration. Thank you♡♡♡♡

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update note to self: you don’t exist for them. You deserve better than the way you were treated. You are you, and that is enough. View

    @seagoatsyntax this was such a sweet post. I’m sure this will help alot of people, like in fact, it helped me I realise I deserve someone better in my life (in terms of romantic relationships and friends) than what I had before :D . Thank you

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update Is it okay to hate your mother? Everyone makes me feel guilty about it, but she literally encourages me to kill myself… View

    Your mother has no right saying that to you @seagoatsyntax, she should treat you with love, care and dignity, you deserve so much better sweetie, don’t let her be horrible towards you, try to focus on the things that make you happy and hold your head up high, you can do this, keep smiling, you are a survivor who never gives up, things will be OK,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 years ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update Is thin an emotion? Cause that’s what I’m feeling right now. View

    I’m here for you @seagoatsyntax, you can and will make it, never give up, keep fighting, things will get better, you are a beautiful, amazing and strong person, you are not alone, you will overcome, don’t lose hope, there is always light at the end of the tunnel, if you need to talk or need a friend, I’m always here, feel free to message me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 years ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update Really don’t want to have a break down in the middle of class. View

    If you need to talk @seagoatsyntax, I’m always here, stay strong, you are not alone, feel free to message me anytime if you want (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update UGH View

    If you need to talk @seagoatsyntax, I’m always here, stay strong, you are not alone, feel free to message me anytime if you want (hugs)

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