Your mother should love, care and always be there for you @seagoatsyntax, you are a fantastic person who deserves compassionate people in your life, have you got anyone you can stay with?, friends or other relatives, hope you manage to find somewhere to go, no one deserves to be homeless, I’m always here if you need to chat, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

thanks @oliver but my happiness has never been her priority, the moment I stopped giving her money was the moment I became nothing to her. I managed to crash at a friends but she’s told me she never wants to see me again, I’m hoping I can find another place soon… thanks for caring oli

I’m really sorry she did that to you. As someone that always had a strained relationship with their mother, I understand exactly what you’re going through. She will one day realize that she has been horrible to you and ask for your forgiveness and try to make up for lost times and it will be on you rather or not you want to. You will soon have…[Read more]

Please don’t feel bad @seagoatsyntax, be kind to yourself and don’t let anything bring you down, I want to see you smiling, what’s on your mind?, everything will be OK, remember you are strong and awesome, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone (hugs)

You are a wonderful person who deserves compassionate and lovely friends around you @seagoatsyntax, surround yourself with people who will listen and stick by you, try to stay positive and smile, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are strong and you will never be alone (hugs)

You deserve to have compassionate and amazing friends who will stick by you no matter what @seagoatsyntax, I’m sure you will meet people who will treat you kindly because you are truly brilliant, do try to have a good birthday, I’m always here if you need to chat about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

Hopefully you will get some compensation and all your items back @seagoatsyntax, the people who did this to you need to be caught quickly, try to relax if you can, we are all here for you (hugs)

from the looks of it they bashed and robbed you, don’t know what type of person or people would do this for just a bunch of phones, maybe they saw you buy the phone and waited. if i were in your shoes i’d probably be the same too… least you managed to come out alive from your ordeal :/

@yamoros12 i know !! its crazy !!! i mean… they were the scummy teens with nothing to do other than hang out in front of the shops everyday, smoking ciggis and yelling at people that walk past, i’ve seen the same people their before… but i never thought they’d start shit with us?? … i was waiting for my sis to exit the toilet and then like…[Read more]

What? Where did this happen?

like, a few hours ago by now ? its hard to say

the police took someone into tho i think? a really nice lady help us out and made a statement but other than that we have no idea whats going on im just.. shaken ?

I’m so sorry this happened to you @seagoatsyntax, you will recover and the people who did this to you will be caught, try your best to be strong, we are all here to support you (hugs)

Yeah, I mean it sure sounds strange. Sorry to hear about the loss of your mobile phone. Hope you have a nice day.

thanks for the support @Oliver @skimrish !! the only thing hurting now is my pride lol ….. im just shattered because, they just didnt stop, even when the police rolled up they kept threatening us until most of them took off… I never expected something like this to happen to us?? … u hear about it happening but i never expected…. its just super…[Read more]

goodluck!

You’ll do great @seagoatsyntax, work as hard as you can and do your absolute best, I’m sure you will be successful, stay positive and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

since this is 2 days ago…howd ya do?

@aireens aha sorry fore taking a while to reply, im a little dead tbh. The exams weren’t what I expected but still good (had english, bio, psych in a row omg). I’m just nervous cause my expected atar is 95+ and my study score sitting at like idk a 40/45? but I’m feeling like I’ve only score around 80/90 in the exam rather than… my goal…[Read more]

It’s totally your choice if you want to go to the dinner @seagoatsyntax, I’m sure you will do what you feel is good for you, do look ahead towards your amazing future now that school is over, you will be successful no matter what happens, stay positive and focus on achieving all your goals, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or…[Read more]

i’d say go since it might be the last time you’ll be able to see your friends, but up to you

Good point, I agree (And well explained) @seagoatsyntax
What i’m curious after reading this is (per my interpretation)… you did suggest listeners on what ’NOT’ to do. Would you have some thoughts on what a ’listener’ should rather do instead? That would be super helpful, thank you.

It is difficult to be positive when things seem hard @seagoatsyntax, we need to find various ways of helping each other come through tough times, in the end, it’s about making someone feel good, upbeat and brighter about the road ahead (hugs)

oh wow im guilty of doing the comparing thing sometimes :\ i also would like to know what you think is a better way to approach someone experiencing situation similar to yours?
whatever situation youre in i hope you will find a way to overcome it!

thank you @aireens @oliver @sigmasuccour for the positive comments ! I was just venting a little but I’m glad some people have been able to build off it (its wasn’t meant to be a suggestion or anything like that, just something I felt a lot of people have come across and not been able to speak about, but I’m glad some have taken an interest)…[Read more]

You will have such a bright and amazing future @seagoatsyntax, it’s good to see you positive and thankful, remember to go forward with confidence and focus on making all your dreams come true, continue being the beautiful and special person that you are, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong,…[Read more]

relax while you can, because life is only going to get harder, but you can do it

No one promised you a rose garden. Life will still be tough. However, with dedication, patience, and an Iron Will, you will get it. Master your fate, don’t let it master you.