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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 4 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update My mum just threw me out I’m not sure what to do now View

    thanks @oliver but my happiness has never been her priority, the moment I stopped giving her money was the moment I became nothing to her. I managed to crash at a friends but she’s told me she never wants to see me again, I’m hoping I can find another place soon… thanks for caring oli :)

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    Seagoat posted an update 4 years, 8 months ago

    My mum just threw me out I’m not sure what to do now

    • Your mother should love, care and always be there for you @seagoatsyntax, you are a fantastic person who deserves compassionate people in your life, have you got anyone you can stay with?, friends or other relatives, hope you manage to find somewhere to go, no one deserves to be homeless, I’m always here if you need to chat, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

    • thanks @oliver but my happiness has never been her priority, the moment I stopped giving her money was the moment I became nothing to her. I managed to crash at a friends but she’s told me she never wants to see me again, I’m hoping I can find another place soon… thanks for caring oli :)

    • I’m really sorry she did that to you. As someone that always had a strained relationship with their mother, I understand exactly what you’re going through. She will one day realize that she has been horrible to you and ask for your forgiveness and try to make up for lost times and it will be on you rather or not you want to. You will soon have…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted an update 4 years, 9 months ago

    wow i overshared a bunch, please ignore lol

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    Seagoat posted an update 4 years, 9 months ago

    im not sure if im disgusted with myself or disgusted with them, maybe its both

    Mood : Ashamed
    • Please don’t feel bad @seagoatsyntax, be kind to yourself and don’t let anything bring you down, I want to see you smiling, what’s on your mind?, everything will be OK, remember you are strong and awesome, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Seagoat posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago

    i genuinely… hate my friends….. i cant even talk to them anymore with out feeling like a piece of shit

    Mood : Ashamed
    • You are a wonderful person who deserves compassionate and lovely friends around you @seagoatsyntax, surround yourself with people who will listen and stick by you, try to stay positive and smile, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are strong and you will never be alone :) (hugs)

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    Seagoat posted an update 5 years ago

    friends came over yesterday for bday, barley talked to me then gave presents to my sister (???) then went to bed after i bought them smokes….. my birthdays today and ive woken up to an empty house….. i love my friends

    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      You deserve to have compassionate and amazing friends who will stick by you no matter what @seagoatsyntax, I’m sure you will meet people who will treat you kindly because you are truly brilliant, do try to have a good birthday, I’m always here if you need to chat about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Seagoat posted an update 5 years ago

    police coming around today, hoping we get our phone back or at least some compensation….

    Mood : Blank
    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      Hopefully you will get some compensation and all your items back @seagoatsyntax, the people who did this to you need to be caught quickly, try to relax if you can, we are all here for you (hugs)

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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 5 years ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update my birthday on Sunday, went shopping with my sister and got jumped? I’m not even sure how to write this;;;; im just really;; fucked up… there was 3 and then 5 and then 10 or more people […] View

    thanks for the support @Oliver @skimrish !! the only thing hurting now is my pride lol ….. im just shattered because, they just didnt stop, even when the police rolled up they kept threatening us until most of them took off… I never expected something like this to happen to us?? … u hear about it happening but i never expected…. its just super…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 5 years ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update im just… im not sure how to process this View

    @yamoros12 i know !! its crazy !!! i mean… they were the scummy teens with nothing to do other than hang out in front of the shops everyday, smoking ciggis and yelling at people that walk past, i’ve seen the same people their before… but i never thought they’d start shit with us?? … i was waiting for my sis to exit the toilet and then like…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 5 years ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update my birthday on Sunday, went shopping with my sister and got jumped? I’m not even sure how to write this;;;; im just really;; fucked up… there was 3 and then 5 and then 10 or more people […] View

    the police took someone into tho i think? a really nice lady help us out and made a statement but other than that we have no idea whats going on im just.. shaken ?

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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 5 years ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update my birthday on Sunday, went shopping with my sister and got jumped? I’m not even sure how to write this;;;; im just really;; fucked up… there was 3 and then 5 and then 10 or more people […] View

    like, a few hours ago by now ? its hard to say

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    Seagoat posted an update 5 years ago

    im just… im not sure how to process this

    • from the looks of it they bashed and robbed you, don’t know what type of person or people would do this for just a bunch of phones, maybe they saw you buy the phone and waited. if i were in your shoes i’d probably be the same too… least you managed to come out alive from your ordeal :/

    • @yamoros12 i know !! its crazy !!! i mean… they were the scummy teens with nothing to do other than hang out in front of the shops everyday, smoking ciggis and yelling at people that walk past, i’ve seen the same people their before… but i never thought they’d start shit with us?? … i was waiting for my sis to exit the toilet and then like…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted an update 5 years ago

    my birthday on Sunday, went shopping with my sister and got jumped? I’m not even sure how to write this;;;; im just really;; fucked up… there was 3 and then 5 and then 10 or more people gathered around me and they just started hitting, my knees are scrapped i think i was thrown ??, I’ve was clawed, my head was smashed or something i don’t…[Read more]

    • What? Where did this happen?

    • like, a few hours ago by now ? its hard to say

    • the police took someone into tho i think? a really nice lady help us out and made a statement but other than that we have no idea whats going on im just.. shaken ?

    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      I’m so sorry this happened to you @seagoatsyntax, you will recover and the people who did this to you will be caught, try your best to be strong, we are all here to support you (hugs)

    • Yeah, I mean it sure sounds strange. Sorry to hear about the loss of your mobile phone. Hope you have a nice day.

    • thanks for the support @Oliver @skimrish !! the only thing hurting now is my pride lol ….. im just shattered because, they just didnt stop, even when the police rolled up they kept threatening us until most of them took off… I never expected something like this to happen to us?? … u hear about it happening but i never expected…. its just super…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 5 years ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update English exam tomorrow! feeling really nervous not sure why tho View

    @aireens aha sorry fore taking a while to reply, im a little dead tbh. The exams weren’t what I expected but still good (had english, bio, psych in a row omg). I’m just nervous cause my expected atar is 95+ and my study score sitting at like idk a 40/45? but I’m feeling like I’ve only score around 80/90 in the exam rather than… my goal…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    English exam tomorrow! feeling really nervous not sure why tho

    Mood : Anxious
    • goodluck!

    • You’ll do great @seagoatsyntax, work as hard as you can and do your absolute best, I’m sure you will be successful, stay positive and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • since this is 2 days ago…howd ya do?

    • @aireens aha sorry fore taking a while to reply, im a little dead tbh. The exams weren’t what I expected but still good (had english, bio, psych in a row omg). I’m just nervous cause my expected atar is 95+ and my study score sitting at like idk a 40/45? but I’m feeling like I’ve only score around 80/90 in the exam rather than… my goal…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    high school has OFFICIALLY ended with muck up day… is it bad I didn’t attended? I’m not sure I’m going to the dinner thing either; honestly school gave me 3 twitches and killed my friendships… I was even told not to go today because drama :)

    Mood : Amazed
    • It’s totally your choice if you want to go to the dinner @seagoatsyntax, I’m sure you will do what you feel is good for you, do look ahead towards your amazing future now that school is over, you will be successful no matter what happens, stay positive and focus on achieving all your goals, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or…[Read more]

    • i’d say go since it might be the last time you’ll be able to see your friends, but up to you

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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 5 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Seagoat posted an update thoughts/rant: why is it those under stressful situations/environments/mentality that vocalise these issues are always encouraged to have this idealistic ”outlook” on life as if it will […] View

    thank you @aireens @oliver @sigmasuccour for the positive comments ! I was just venting a little but I’m glad some people have been able to build off it (its wasn’t meant to be a suggestion or anything like that, just something I felt a lot of people have come across and not been able to speak about, but I’m glad some have taken an interest)…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    thoughts/rant: why is it those under stressful situations/environments/mentality that vocalise these issues are always encouraged to have this idealistic “outlook” on life as if it will impact the situation itself? like, ‘hey life’s not that bad, it could always be worse’… but rewarding someone for NOT kicking you while your down is not an…[Read more]

    Mood : Exhausted
    • Good point, I agree (And well explained) @seagoatsyntax
      What i’m curious after reading this is (per my interpretation)… you did suggest listeners on what ’NOT’ to do. Would you have some thoughts on what a ’listener’ should rather do instead? That would be super helpful, thank you.

    • It is difficult to be positive when things seem hard @seagoatsyntax, we need to find various ways of helping each other come through tough times, in the end, it’s about making someone feel good, upbeat and brighter about the road ahead :) (hugs)

    • oh wow im guilty of doing the comparing thing sometimes :\ i also would like to know what you think is a better way to approach someone experiencing situation similar to yours?
      whatever situation youre in i hope you will find a way to overcome it!

    • thank you @aireens @oliver @sigmasuccour for the positive comments ! I was just venting a little but I’m glad some people have been able to build off it (its wasn’t meant to be a suggestion or anything like that, just something I felt a lot of people have come across and not been able to speak about, but I’m glad some have taken an interest)…[Read more]

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    Seagoat posted a new activity comment 5 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: longlost23 posted an update So the same person listened to my problems, then at the end of my summary of my problem, he just says ”what a loser. Get a life you faggot.” Reconnected with him cuz I still wanna vent […] View

    @longlost23 thats really sad… more disappointing actually… I’m not sure but I think theres a reporting feature ? If you connect again, try that, if not, just message me instead :)

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    Seagoat posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    last day of high school tomorrow, I’m glad to leave it behind, and all its stress !! thanks to everyone on blahtherapy for helping me through it !! glad to have this here with an understanding community

    Mood : Thankful
    • You will have such a bright and amazing future @seagoatsyntax, it’s good to see you positive and thankful, remember to go forward with confidence and focus on making all your dreams come true, continue being the beautiful and special person that you are, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong,…[Read more]

    • relax while you can, because life is only going to get harder, but you can do it :)

    • No one promised you a rose garden. Life will still be tough. However, with dedication, patience, and an Iron Will, you will get it. Master your fate, don’t let it master you.

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