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    null posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago

    i’ve got a bad reputation everywhere i go. i don’t get along well with people, and people know damn well when i don’t like em. i find it hard to connect with people, i always have, and the older i get the more frustrating this is. i get annoyed extremely easily. i leave people who aren’t worth the time of the day. i wish these assholes would just leave me alone instead of coming to me in the first place.

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    • I’m sure you are a wonderful and bright person @scrym, please don’t think badly of yourself, we all deserve a strong bond with other human-beings, you do too, stay upbeat and know you will meet compassionate and understanding people who you will be able to connect with, remember to surround yourself with empathy and positivity, everything will be OK, hold your head up high, keep going forward and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Anne replied 1 week ago

      What you need to work on is patience and how to be calm. Life can be frustrating and sometimes you just want to tell people to shut up. It’s hard, I know. Figure out things that work for you to keep your stress down. Try doing morning or afternoon runs. Maybe try some tea. Get a stress ball. Any of these things might help. Realize that people want to help you and most aren’t trying to outright annoy you. If you only take one piece of advice from me, then take this. Be polite. Simple as that. You don’t have to be all sunshine and rainbows, but you can say thank you. Help people who are struggling with a small task such as groceries. When you feel yourself losing control take a step back and maybe apologize or at least keep a steady voice. And the most obvious one is to smile more at people. Some of these thoughts might sound ridiculous or dumb but trust me, they will go far in connecting with people more.