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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    Well. It’s been quite a long time guys. I must say I like all the changes that I see have been made.

    However, I promised myself I wouldn’t return here unless something truly pushes me to rock bottom. And oh have I hit it hard.

    I’m not going to explain this whole story because there is no point. But basically my ex and her friend(s) have been…[Read more]

    Mood : Numb
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    In reply to: rayman1030 posted an update Well unfortunately the more this website grows the less appealing it is becoming to me.I mean it’s awesome that we are growing bigger but I did enjoy the small community we built up. […] View

    Haha exactly. Now that isn’t to say we can still have communities, they just might need to start being moved over to individual forums instead of us hogging the whole website to ourselves.

    It might be better to let other communities to start developing apart from the one we seem to have build up.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    Well unfortunately the more this website grows the less appealing it is becoming to me.

    I mean it’s awesome that we are growing bigger but I did enjoy the small community we built up. It’s just harder to feel connected to people when that small community starts turning into a civilization haha.

    • Haha exactly. Now that isn’t to say we can still have communities, they just might need to start being moved over to individual forums instead of us hogging the whole website to ourselves.

      It might be better to let other communities to start developing apart from the one we seem to have build up.

    • I agree. And one thing I have noticed is quite a few people are trying to get as many friends as they possibly can and it just seems pointless. You are suppose to be friends because you like talking and hearing what the other has to say.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    HAWKS BABY!!!!

    Lord Stanley’s cup, here we come.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    I try to help people but some people just make it so hard for you to do that sometimes.

    I just pray that they realize I’m here to help them and if they truly want to change they need to reflect on themselves and find it.

    That is the only way to eternal happiness.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    That awkward moment when you realize someone just unfriended you. And you know who it was.

    And you see them later and you’re just like ”I know what you’ve done”.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    So I just posted this update before, but apparently it didn’t post or something.

    But anyways, I’m thinking about talking to my ex about some questions I have regarding how our relationship ended and what she wants of us right now.

    Some reasons I have to not do it though are that I don’t want her or her friends or anyone else thinking I am…[Read more]

    • I think you should still have no contact. You are doing better and finding your happiness again. Don’t drag up the old bad feelings. I know this first hand.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    I’m currently making some damn good headway towards happiness.

    However, I still get slightly upset when I see certain things about my ex.

    I just gotta keep on goin.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    Ugg. So I actually had a pretty damn awesome night. But. For some damned reason I am not happy right now. I feel like maybe I was TOO happy then or something? I feel like there was almost something I missed that I should have picked up on.

    I have no idea how uncohesive and random that is, just a thought. I’m trying to ignore it.

    Mood : Confused
    • Absolutely not. you should never feel like you missed out on a negative thing. you always want to shove those things aside and enjoy your night just like you did tonight! maybe you just need some good rest.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    Well. I had been doing quite well. I really felt I had made some serious progress.

    And for some reason now that I have found out her actual intentions I am questioning my self-worth.

    She apparently wants things to be exactly how they were before we were in the relationship. She wants to basically forget that it happened. So I have been worrying…[Read more]

    • Sometimes it’s not what you did or didn’t do. Many times the break ups are truly about the other person and who they are and how they grow. Sometimes it’s inevitable.

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    Well. I have just been told by a mutual friend that I didn’t understand my ex’s perspective after the breakup.

    Her: “she understands that you wanted to be friends… i don’t think you understood her response/ her perspective.”

    And she says she will tell me more tomorrow. Uh. What?

    I thought I had this all figured out after 2.5 months of…[Read more]

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    So who are you, @megastar ?

    A buddy of @blahsupport perhaps?

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    rayman1030 posted an update 6 years, 3 months ago

    So yeah. I don’t know why I’m just not happy when I don’t have plans with people. It’s like I’m this social junkie who is addicted to social interaction.

    The more I get, the more I want.

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