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    ramalama posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Last night I made the upsetting realization that I have been playing Duchess Josiana towards the real life Gwynplaine. I feel so terrible…

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: ramalama posted an update Working as my family’s houskeeper for right now since I lost my job on friday. Gotta do what you gotta do. If you ask me, I make a pretty hot maid! ヽ(> ω <)ノ View

    right…thanks @oliver. you’ve said practically the same things to me before, a lot. and a whole bunch of other people here. I mean, I know your heart is in the right place but your replies feel very impersonal at this point.

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: ramalama posted an update Working as my family’s houskeeper for right now since I lost my job on friday. Gotta do what you gotta do. If you ask me, I make a pretty hot maid! ヽ(> ω <)ノ View

    Ha, thanks amigo! But my family is made up of seven different households and they all have kids and dogs. Constant cleaning means no free time, but I at least get the cash I need to keep my car and pay for medical junk! Woo!

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    ramalama posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Working as my family’s houskeeper for right now since I lost my job on friday. Gotta do what you gotta do. If you ask me, I make a pretty hot maid! ヽ(> ω <)ノ

    Mood : Determined
    • Well, try to enjoy that free time! Do things that you couldn’t because of your occupations!
      Hope you find a nice job soon!

    • Ha, thanks amigo! But my family is made up of seven different households and they all have kids and dogs. Constant cleaning means no free time, but I at least get the cash I need to keep my car and pay for medical junk! Woo!

    • It’s great to see you determined @ramalama, I’m sure you will do wonderfully in any job you get, things will be OK, be positive and keep smiling, you can do this, I’m always here if you ever need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • right…thanks @oliver. you’ve said practically the same things to me before, a lot. and a whole bunch of other people here. I mean, I know your heart is in the right place but your replies feel very impersonal at this point.

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    ramalama posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    If you love something, set it free. If it returns, burrows into your ribs, devours your heart and becomes your new heart, it was meant to be.

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    ramalama posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Constantly fighting with the people in my head makes me really tired, sure. But constantly fighting with yourself in your head has to leave you just as tired! Our brains may work differently but we both still have to deal with the issues they give us, so how different are we really? X)

    Mood : Neutral
    • Please keep fighting and don’t let anything get you down @ramalama, try to be positive, you are such a wonderful person who deserves so much joy and happiness, good things will happen to you and things will be OK, you can do this, you are a survivor and warrior who never gives up, you are truly great, believe in yourself and keep going forward,…[Read more]

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    This right here? Its great.

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    ramalama posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Therapy is great. This is great. I am great. Do you know what else is great? Cats. Cats are pretty great.

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: ramalama posted an update Hey, @hsppersonal You seem to know a ton about the inner workings of BlahTherapy and I had a question, are you BT staff? View

    Oh, alright! Thank you for clearing that up. My question was literally “are you BT staff” X)
    HSPpersonal has just been responding to my concerns as if they were staff, and that they themselves had addressed the problem even though it seems like nothing had been done about it. I was confused, cause either the staff didn’t actually do what they…[Read more]

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    ramalama posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Hey, @hsppersonal You seem to know a ton about the inner workings of BlahTherapy and I had a question, are you BT staff?

    • No, but you can contact the users blahtherapy , blhthrpy00 and blahmoderator1

    • Oh, alright! Thank you for clearing that up. My question was literally “are you BT staff” X)
      HSPpersonal has just been responding to my concerns as if they were staff, and that they themselves had addressed the problem even though it seems like nothing had been done about it. I was confused, cause either the staff didn’t actually do what they…[Read more]

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: ramalama posted an update Alright. No more Vent/Listen Chat for me. I tried once more just to see if /someone/ was actually serious about being a listener. This is what I get. http://i.imgur.com/nVKiaMJ.png I […] View

    Yes, I understand that this is how many websites are able to track abusers and potentially stop these occurrences. So what specifically was done? The website already enforced action against IP’s that were being flagged by users, so what did you do different to fix the problem as a whole? Are credentials now required to be a listener? How were all…[Read more]

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: ramalama posted an update Alright. No more Vent/Listen Chat for me. I tried once more just to see if /someone/ was actually serious about being a listener. This is what I get. http://i.imgur.com/nVKiaMJ.png I […] View

    @hsppersonal Wow, that was resolved impossibly quickly, and I mean that in the most literal sense. I haven’t even had a chance to contact staff about the issue yet. Are you on the administrative team?

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: ramalama posted an update Alright. No more Vent/Listen Chat for me. I tried once more just to see if /someone/ was actually serious about being a listener. This is what I get. http://i.imgur.com/nVKiaMJ.png I […] View

    I’m sorry, @maorst123 I didn’t mean to bite your head off X( I’m just riding the angsty train at the moment. I do appreciate your apology, and I’m also sorry that you’ve experienced the same thing ): Here’s to trying to make this website everything it can be! ^-^

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: ramalama posted an update Alright. No more Vent/Listen Chat for me. I tried once more just to see if /someone/ was actually serious about being a listener. This is what I get. http://i.imgur.com/nVKiaMJ.png I […] View

    There is no need to be sorry about this, @maorst123 I just really want to draw attention to the problem. I’m not upset about the personal jab, and maybe I’m having an unlucky streak with listeners. But still, if there is a more efficient way of detecting trolls in the chat then of course the overall quality of the help will increase. The Chat…[Read more]

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: ramalama posted an update Alright. No more Vent/Listen Chat for me. I tried once more just to see if /someone/ was actually serious about being a listener. This is what I get. http://i.imgur.com/nVKiaMJ.png I […] View

    I agree that reporting them is the right thing to do in a situation like this, but I’m not really worried about how it affected me personally. I’m more concerned about new people who are just now finding the Vent/Listen tool. When I first came here, all I knew about was the chat, and it really did help me through a personal struggle. If new…[Read more]

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    ramalama posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    Alright. No more Vent/Listen Chat for me. I tried once more just to see if /someone/ was actually serious about being a listener. This is what I get. http://i.imgur.com/nVKiaMJ.png
    I really hope that this problem gets some attention by the site. I’m not sure how it would be addressed, but I think it would be highly beneficial to get it looked into.

    Mood : Aggravated
    • I’m really sorry, I’ve found myself in that situation, and have found tons of guys that I tried to listen to and are looking mainly for girls to talk to, hoping that they are vulnerable and willing to do ”something.” I don’t know what to do, I am really sorry.

    • That was a really rude reply of that listener. If someone acts like that, report them and disconnect. Try to move on to the next listener and eventually you’ll find one who won’t be like that. If you’d like someone to vent to, you can always message me. The vent/listen doesn’t always go so well, personally I’d advise venters to reach out to…[Read more]

    • I agree that reporting them is the right thing to do in a situation like this, but I’m not really worried about how it affected me personally. I’m more concerned about new people who are just now finding the Vent/Listen tool. When I first came here, all I knew about was the chat, and it really did help me through a personal struggle. If new…[Read more]

    • There is no need to be sorry about this, @maorst123 I just really want to draw attention to the problem. I’m not upset about the personal jab, and maybe I’m having an unlucky streak with listeners. But still, if there is a more efficient way of detecting trolls in the chat then of course the overall quality of the help will increase. The Chat…[Read more]

    • You do have a valuable point. It would be quite off-putting for those who are already vulnerable as it is. It also creates a wrong image of this community. When it comes to the vent/listen chat, I personally find that 7 cups has a better system. 7 cups does get more streaming from venters/listeners than blah does. Here on blah, anyone could click…[Read more]

    • I understand your frustration, and my apology was more or less an acknowledgment of that frustration, because I can relate to how you feel and can see that you are passionate about this. I really do wish that there was a more efficient way to report this, as well.

    • I’m sorry, @maorst123 I didn’t mean to bite your head off X( I’m just riding the angsty train at the moment. I do appreciate your apology, and I’m also sorry that you’ve experienced the same thing ): Here’s to trying to make this website everything it can be! ^-^

    • And that’s great that you are taking this, the extra step, to make this the site it can be, all it can be and more than it already is for all of us. You have a good sense of leadership in times of need. And do not worry, I am not taking it personal, I completely understand, we’re well :) almost as well as friends would be.

    • @hsppersonal Wow, that was resolved impossibly quickly, and I mean that in the most literal sense. I haven’t even had a chance to contact staff about the issue yet. Are you on the administrative team?

    • Yes, I understand that this is how many websites are able to track abusers and potentially stop these occurrences. So what specifically was done? The website already enforced action against IP’s that were being flagged by users, so what did you do different to fix the problem as a whole? Are credentials now required to be a listener? How were all…[Read more]

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    ramalama posted a new activity comment 6 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: FluffyRee posted an update Fill my heart with song and let me sing for ever more .. You are all I long for, All I worship and adore .. In other words? Please be mine In other words? I love you View

    I don’t think Ree claimed that the quote was their own. Its nice to see someone expressing their joy through a song that fits their mood! :)

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    ramalama posted an update 6 years, 2 months ago

    I’ve been here for a while, but I don’t feel like I’ve had a chance to get to know anyone. If you would like, shoot me a message! I would love to chat or help.

    Mood : Cheerful
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