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    plus_sizedbarbie posted an update 4 years, 4 months ago

    Eight months without an update?? Let’s dive right in, then.

    So, for a couple of days now, I have been feeling moody/generally upset. For no reason.
    Is it PMS? I have no clue, but I feel like I am taking it all out on my boyfriend.
    Today, I got upset with him because he told me that he wanted to cut his hair short, and because of that, I gave him an attitude for the duration of our call. (As I am typing this, I see that I was wrong. I also realized I was wrong after we got off the phone)

    Why does everything feel like it’s gonna suck? Is it because Mercury is in retrograde and because of Mercury ruling communication, him and I aren’t seeing eye to eye?

    Or is it because I’m a sucky human who deserves to be alone (maybe with a cat or two) for the rest of her life? Somebody send help!

    Mood : Moody
    • This is our second miscommunication (me being upset with him over something small and then turning into something that it never was) and I honestly feel like if I do not get to the bottom of it, he’s gonna leave me. What should I do?

    • Please don’t feel bad or angry with yourself @qveenyoshii, try to stay calm, positive and upbeat, I would talk to your boyfriend, I would apologise to him, let him know that you love and care about him, talk to him about your feelings if you can, don’t bottle things up La’Kia, get your thoughts and emotions out in a good way so you can unburden yourself, I want to see you truly happy and making each day bright, incredible and fantastic, hold your head up high and keep being the special angel that you are, you can do it La’Kia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Thank you for always responding to these posts of mine, I truly appreciate seeing the situation from another point of view. I see now that it was an honest mistake to do that to him and to make myself feel so bad about it. We had a conversation so I could address my feelings and he completely understood where I was coming from and forgave me for being so mean to him.
      Your comments are always so nice and positive, and if you need to vent (or just to talk), you are welcome to send a message.