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Theodore
@princepossumQA rep 0 1046 Rank - Familiar Face
I feel really content where I’m at socially right now for the first time at college… I like somebody and I’m quite sure he likes me too, but he’s part of this group of people I’ve gotten to know and I don’t want to mess up everything. I never had the same groups of friends in high school, I’d just move through them when I dated someone […] View
- In reply to: Spectrolite7 posted an update i’m tired… i’m shutting down again because there’s a lot going on inside me. I’m trying to stay positive… View
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- In reply to: The Other Steve posted an update Sun is setting with a clear sky and a warm breeze. End of a long day. New chapter ahead. View
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side note: I’m pretty much never the one who wants to have sex first, in case that’s unclear…
You can just spend time with the person @princepossum, cuddle up, be there for them and get to know them so you can make your bond stronger Theodore, hope this relationship works out for you, you are a wonderful person who deserves a loving partner, smile and keep going, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, you are never alone
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yes you can.. there are many people who identify as being asexual and prefer to just cuddle… asexuality is a spectrum. I am on the spectrum, I prefer cuddling and getting to know the person.
@spectrolite7 I am familiar with asexuality, but I’m not asexual, I just wish people would slow down sometimes lol
@oliver thanks man
the goal of attraction and seduction is to end up in the bedroom. a man can sleep with a woman at the drop of a hat, whereas women take time to warm up to men and feel safe, comfortable and be able to trust him to be able to get emotionally interested in the guy and to become interested in sex with that particular guy. A woman is going to have sex…[Read more]
@javi-soliz good reply.. thanks man, it seems pretty variable, things are never just black and white haha
I think you definitely can! (: it all depends on the person you’re doing it with. Nowadays a lot of people are quick to rush everything(No shame on them, to each their own<3) but there's a bunch of people in this world I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for (:
when it comes to women, they never are. but that’s what i like about em. but thanks theodore, no problem hermano.