Im James I'm sorta shy with people I don't know but am a very loyal, and trustworthy person. I'm honest and speak my mind. I'm a poet and writer and am passionate about a lot of things. I love talking to people who need help and advice, and it makes me happy to know that I can help. Especially the things I've been through or have a lot of experience with. I'm a big lover rather than fighter, and have an affinity for girls who are in bad situations, and always have. Its really sad how often girls are abused, taken advantage of, and treated with such disrespect these days. I try to promote the idea of chivalry but its seems to be a losing battle. Anyways…Ive been through a lot, I lost my house in Hurricane Irene 2 years ago, and have to stay with my mother in a motel still. She needs help and cant walk so I make sure she is taken care of with her boyfriend who is also disabled. I'm a diabetic and lost my toes on my right foot and had my hip replaced last year, so I'm also disabled and cant work anymore. Everything kinda fell apart real quickly and we are still trying to put the pieces together. I'm an artist and poet, and love hip-hop music and the whole hip-hop culture. Ive been all alone for a few years now in terms of friends (lost many to drugs), and am self conscience about certain things like having my teeth replaced due some bad mistakes and waorse luck. I haven't been able to have a close relationship with anyone in a few years cause of my wanting to stay away from old friend who still party and would get me into trouble… I'm deeply in need of someone I can get to know and have a close relationship with so I can share my issues and problems with, as well as helping them by being the sorta person they could trust and feel connected to.