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    irrestistable trail posted an update 5 years, 5 months ago

    What is up with today’s Listeners?

    I had some issues that although not nearly life-threating did trouble me. So I came to blahtherapy to talk about it. Just let it out what bothered me. But WOW – the Listeners weren’t poised to listen!

    Nearly all of them left while I was just talking about what bothered me :o

    Also, I – as a Listener – have always refrained from judging the people I listened to or tell them off for what they did. But will you know it? The first person that actually stuck around for me to talk a bout my first problem, told me off for behaving wrong.

    I know that I was being stupid. I had already said that, it is why I was angry at myself and wanted to talk about it – you did not haxe to point it out!

    A Listener LISTENS. I have a feeling that at least today there were some people aroung who were not poised to listen at all.

    And I feel sorry for it because they are the ones that make blahtherapy a good place. Without them it’s just like … leaving blahtherapy more upset that when you came here. What a shame…

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I’m so sorry that you had a bad experience on the chat @pinefresh, please know that there are so many more compassionate and helpful members of BT who are willing to support and be here for you, this is a kind community filled with lovely people, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Hey, thank you very much for your offer! :) I might come back to it some time or another. Certainly good to know that there are still compassionate Listeners out there! :) Have a happy Christmas! :)