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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I’m trying to be kinder…kinder as in more compassionate, more honest, more understanding, humble–definitely more humble and more grateful. But it’s really hard, it feels almost impossible […] View

    Keep being the kind, compassionate and lovely person that you are @pepperman, always be sweet and spread hope as much as you can, smile and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 4 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I’m trying to be kinder…kinder as in more compassionate, more honest, more understanding, humble–definitely more humble and more grateful. But it’s really hard, it feels almost impossible […] View

    @pepperman that’s very sweet of you :) We need more people as kind as you

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    mariko posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I haven’t been on this site in almost two years and coming back it’s very weird. I guess when your a kid there’s alot of ways you can change. Still this website helped me immensely, blah […] View

    @pepperman Welcome back! :) I’m really happy to see you’re doing well. And thank you for the positivity, Blah sure needs it!

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I haven’t been on this site in almost two years and coming back it’s very weird. I guess when your a kid there’s alot of ways you can change. Still this website helped me immensely, blah […] View

    Your words are very encouraging @pepperman welcome back :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I haven’t been on this site in almost two years and coming back it’s very weird. I guess when your a kid there’s alot of ways you can change. Still this website helped me immensely, blah […] View

    It’s great to see you back on Blah @pepperman, you are right, this is a compassionate and amazing site filled with the most helpful people, keep being lovely and wonderful, hope you are OK, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update Ever liked someone so much it hurts? We should start a club! View

    Hopefully you will be able to build up a bond and friendship with this person @pepperman, try talking to them, start a conversation and see what happens, maybe they will respond positively, you deserve good people around you, everyone does, hold your head up high, keep going and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I think I might have borderline personality disorder-I retook the ”test” 4 times each with a similar result-I guess it makes sense…I don’t know I don’t lash out at people, I just […] View

    I would try talking to a counsellor or therapist @pepperman, you are a lovely person who deserves all the best in life, I don’t want to see you hurt or in pain, try to stay positive and focus on all the good things that will happen to you, I’m sure things will be OK, hold your head up high, keep going and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m…[Read more]

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    Friendly Lemon replied to the forum topic What do girl's look for first in a guy? in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 5 years, 8 months ago

    So long hair? And curly hair? I always thought I was cursed for having slightly long, curly hair. @pepperman that is a really detailed answer and very interesting for relating it back to me, it does make me […]

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 5 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I never feel like I can be honest and say stuff like this-because I know so many people (life) and on this website are dealing with things much bigger and I always just feel like I’m […] View

    @pepperman To some extent, acting like you feel better is proven to help a bit to actually make you feel better, that might be one reason people suggest it to you. I think ‘life sucks’ is reductive, yes there’s not much fairness or control but we would be lying if we said we never enjoy anything. We have our good moments, and to some extent, we…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I never feel like I can be honest and say stuff like this-because I know so many people (life) and on this website are dealing with things much bigger and I always just feel like I’m […] View

    Please don’t feel alone @pepperman, remember we are all here to support you on Blah, I may not know you personally but I want to see you smiling and being fantastic, things will work out for you and so many more brighter and better days will be ahead, you will do great things and you will have a fabulous future, hold your head up high and be as…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I’ve decided to no longer care what anyone else thinks. Call it a New Years Resolution, easier said then done though. Any advice would be greatly appreciated View

    Remember to do what makes you happy and comfortable in life @pepperman, stay positive and do inspire people as you go along, I’m sure things will work out for you 100%, never give up, I’m always here if you ever need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Lauren posted a new activity comment 5 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update Winter Break is my savior View

    Agreed, I really needed this. I hope you have a really fun, happy and stress free winter break! @pepperman

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    Lauren posted a new activity comment 5 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update Winter Break is my savior View

    Agreed, I really needed this. I hope you have a really fun, happy and stress free winter break! @pepperman

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    Lauren posted a new activity comment 5 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update Winter Break is my savior View

    Agreed, I really needed this. I hope you have a really fun, happy and stress free winter break! @pepperman

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update Winter Break is my savior View

    Hope you have an awesome break filled with happiness and brightness @pepperman, stay positive and keep being wonderful, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I wish life was more View

    Try to focus on all the positive and good things in life @pepperman, you are a truly special person who deserves all the best, I want to see you smiling and feeling on top of the world, keep being the incredible individual that you know you can be, believe in yourself and keep going forward, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update I got a new dog and it just makes me miss my old one more View

    That’s nice @pepperman, I would bond with your new dog while also trying to remember the good times you had with your other dog, I hope having this dog brings you so much happiness, everything will be OK, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: chloe posted an update im in a relationship with coolsoda View

    That’s fabulous @polarbear889, I wish you and @pepperman all the best :D (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update Ran into an old friend. It seems I’m never able to shake how much a loser I use to be…. View

    Please don’t think badly about yourself @pepperman, be positive and smile, try to see yourself in an uplifting and good way, be kind to yourself, things will be OK, don’t let anything get you down, focus on the things that make you truly feel happy, things will work out for you and everything will go right, you are a bright light in the world,…[Read more]

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    Madara posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: Coolsoda posted an update @madara lets be friends View

    Okay @pepperman

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