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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 2 years, 9 months ago

    I’m both physically and emotionally drained. And people I used to trust to help have abandoned me. My ”friends” lie to my face and stab me in the back. They couldn’t be bothered with me unless they need something. I’m sad and feel alone.

    Mood : Exhausted
    • Your friends have no right to treat you that way @penguinfan13, you are such a wonderful, amazing and beautiful person who deserves to be surrounded by love, compassion and positivity, anyone who treats you badly isn’t worth it, do your best to meet people who will show you kindness and empathy, remember the BT community cares about you and so do…[Read more]

    • I’m so sorry to hear that @penguinfan13, I’m dealing with something very similar and it feels devastating. Sometimes the people who love and care about us start to be more and more detached, not because they’ve stopped loving us, but because we take very different paths in life. Of course, other times they just don’t care about nothing at all.…[Read more]

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 3 years, 9 months ago

    not sure how I feel or why I feel it. Should be happy with how my life is going but seems that even the little things don’t seem to be helping. Doesn’t help that my ex seems to constantly be reminding me about the broken heart I have that still has yet to heal. And my friends don’t seem to notice or care. I’m at a loss.

    Mood : Bewildered
    • Don’t let your ex bring you down or make you upset @penguinfan13, do your best to move forward and focus on all the amazing moments that lie ahead for you, everything will be OK, surround yourself with compassion and good friends who will stick by you no matter what, know that true love and happiness will happen to you, believe in yourself, smile…[Read more]

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 4 years, 5 months ago

    Should be over the moon excited…but instead I’m down in the dumps. My fiance that swore he’d be better than my ex…is pretty much doing the same things. He’s getting everything he wants and all I get is sad and alone :-( he promised he’d be better…instead he’s just the same.

    Mood : Sad
    • He has no right treating you badly @penguinfan13, you are a special and amazing person who deserves to be loved and cared for, try to talk to him and tell him how you truly feel, let him know what you want out of the relationship, I want to see you being supported, feel free to inbox me anytime if you need to chat or vent, my inbox is always open,…[Read more]

    • @penguinfan13 When you open to someone and you tell them your bad past experiences and that person does the exact same thing, I believe is quite obvious that person either 1) didn’t take into consideration how much your past affected you and how still affects you, 2) has zero common sense,clearly showing he doesn’t care how you feel. My advice…[Read more]

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 4 years, 8 months ago

    Still have to get fully confirmed but…I’m pregnant….and kinda freaking out. I’ve been ready for almost 2 Years but now that it’s here kinda freaking out…I’m pretty sure I’m ready I just don’t know how others are going to take it.

    Mood : Worried
    • How ’others’ are going to interpret you being pregnant, is up to them. No need to fret upon what you may not have much control over. If you are happy with this, then just maintain that feeling I suggest, it will rub out on them too in time.
      Congratulations on child! @penguinfan13

    • Everything will be OK @penguinfan13, surround yourself with love and speak to people who can give you good advice, talk to your doctor and I’m sure things will work out, I wish you all the best going forward, you will be a fantastic mother to your beautiful child, feel free to message me anytime if you want to chat or vent, my inbox is always…[Read more]

    • @penguinfan13 who cares about what other think? Like you said you’ve been waiting for this for 2 years! Congrats girl! :D You have your baby inside your belly now, mummy has to be positive and happy. Happy mummy=happy baby. So focous on that little cutie and how wonderfull life will be with him/her.
      Enjoy your pregnancy, is a beautiful process.…[Read more]

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    It’s been awhile since I last wrote. Things are improving…now trying to overcome the newest hurdle.

    Mood : Good
    • Glad to see things are going wonderfully for you @penguinfan13, stay positive and keep smiling, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 5 years, 9 months ago

    still trying to get past my ex-fiancé dumping me in a letter…still hurting from it all. Trying to put myself out there but finding it quite hard…and quite scary. 9 years I’ve been off the market…and now I’ve got to do it all again. I’m not sure if I can Took me almost 5 years to find this one.

    Mood : Lonely
    • Never give up. You’ll find someone eventually, and the only way to is to keep trying.
      I believe you can do it.

    • You will find that special someone who will give you all the love, support and happiness in the world @penguinfan13, everyone deserves to find their knight in shining armour, you do too, be positive and don’t give up, a strong relationship will happen to you, believe in yourself, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    Penguinfan13 replied to the forum topic The types of venters that piss you off… in the group Group logoGeneral 5 years, 11 months ago

    as a venter I find the ones that don’t really listen or totally judge you for what you’re talking about…I had someone who asked me a question…I answered honestly and then I got…well I don’t have time for […]

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 5 years, 11 months ago

    Fiance called off the engagement 3 months ago…thought we could work through it…3 weeks ago he dumps me (pretty much) in a letter….that he didn’t even give to me in person…just left it like a coward. Now I’m struggling to deal with it…how can 9 years be over just like that??

    Mood : Stressed
    • I’m so sorry this happened to you @penguinfan13, you deserve so much better, I’m sure you will meet someone who will treat you right and who will give you unconditional love and support, anyone who leaves you isn’t worth it, you will find your knight in shining armour, a strong relationship built on trust will happen to you, you can do this, be…[Read more]

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 6 years, 1 month ago

    Still struggling with issues and seems every time I go to chat people leave mid conversation. So much for listening guess I will keep to myself since no one wants to listen.

    Mood : Depressed
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    Penguinfan13 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Penguinfan13 posted an update Fiance and I had a huge fight. He called off engagement and is barely speaking to me. We’re on a ”break” but it still feels over. He’s my world and now I feel I have nothing. I barely […] View

    We have talked and still it’s not really feeling like we are getting anywhere…he’s given me a few things I MUST do to prove I want him back…and if I do it…we MAY get back together…so I can’t help but to wonder why bother trying if it’s not gonna work out??
    Everytime we do talk it hurts me to talk to him…because it still feels like…[Read more]

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    Penguinfan13 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Penguinfan13 posted an update thinks a 10 year relationship has gone down the drain and it’s all my fault :-( View

    Because he’s pissed at some stupid messages on my phone and for several other issues I never even knew about.

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    Penguinfan13 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: HonestBoy posted an update You know what, fuck this world. How am I supposed to ”live” and be happy when nobody gives a fuck about me? I never have anybody, yet I’m always there for fucking people and I’m fucking […] View

    I know it seems hard but there are people that do care.

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 6 years, 1 month ago

    Fiance and I had a huge fight. He called off engagement and is barely speaking to me. We’re on a ”break” but it still feels over. He’s my world and now I feel I have nothing. I barely have energy to fight.

    Mood : Depressed
    • Try to talk to him and see if you can work things out with each other @penguinfan13, don’t give up, maybe you can get your relationship back on track, hopefully things will be OK, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • We have talked and still it’s not really feeling like we are getting anywhere…he’s given me a few things I MUST do to prove I want him back…and if I do it…we MAY get back together…so I can’t help but to wonder why bother trying if it’s not gonna work out??
      Everytime we do talk it hurts me to talk to him…because it still feels like…[Read more]

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    Penguinfan13 posted an update 6 years, 1 month ago

    thinks a 10 year relationship has gone down the drain and it’s all my fault :-(

    Mood : Depressed
    • It’s never one-sided…tell me why you think it’s all your fault

    • Please don’t blame yourself @penguinfan13, you never know, you may be able to work things out and get this relationship going again, be positive and keep smiling, you deserve true love and true happiness, everyone does, hopefully things will be OK, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is…[Read more]

    • Because he’s pissed at some stupid messages on my phone and for several other issues I never even knew about.

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