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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update also, getting back into the dating game is hard. I’m so… Awkward. I really need companionship I’ve noticed. I’m starting to feel rather lonely, which is no fun. I need to connect to […] View

    I know how you feel @peiyopei, I get lonely too Finnian, it can be so depressing and sad, don’t give up on finding compassionate and kind people, you will find someone to connect and bond with, go out into the world and spread your personality around, you will meet your soulmate one day Finnian, stay positive and never give up, you can do it,…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update today has been long. the past couple of months actually. my nose hurts, I got bit to shit today by a fluffy cloud dog. I can’t be mad at her though, she was scared. And seeing her tail wag […] View

    Awww, I’m sorry that you were bitten by a dog @peiyopei, do be careful when you are trying to stroke them, they are still cute though hehe, hope taking medication helps and benefits you Finnian, you are a good person who deserves happiness, positivity and joy in life, keep seeing your doctor and find ways to help you overcome the anxiety, you can…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update news update with finn ﾍ(￣▽￣*)ﾉ - My job at the vet clinic is going rather well. I’m training to be a tech assistant (No, not a promotion or anything like that) which is pretty cool. […] View

    Glad things are going well for you @peiyopei, you truly deserve all the happiness that life has to offer Finnian, keep smiling because I’m sure things will continue going awesomely for you, do surround yourself with positivity and compassion, remember you are so loved, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update wish i wasn’t so sleepy all the time. it’s getting to be… tiresome. hehe View

    Try to find ways to help yourself sleep at night so you can feel refreshed and awake in the morning @peiyopei, make a evening routine that is relaxing and soothing so you can fall asleep more easily, hope everything works out so you can rest when you need too, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 10 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update Haven’t made a status in a bit so I’ll give you a quick little update on Finn’s life: - I am officially 1 year on hormones, wowza crAZY. I remember ranting on this site about wanting to […] View

    Glad things are working out for you @peiyopei, you are such a fabulous person who deserves all the best in life, hope everything continues going well, stay positive, keep smiling because your future will be so bright and amazing, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 11 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I’m having so many bad thoughts right now is terrifying me. I feel a panick attack creeping on me and the tears don’t stop flowing. I wish I had the self esteem to put a stop at things that […] View

    @peiyopei I’m so sorry you’re going through a hard time aswell. If you ever need a friendly should I’m right here for you !
    also thank you for your lovely words, and you too @oliver , thank you so much
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 12 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update my anxiety and depression is starting to get out of hand. I’m going to see my doctor in November. I think I’m going to talk to her about these issues I’m having in hopes that maybe she can […] View

    I agree with @marikofujimoto, do talk to your doctor and see what happens @peiyopei, I’m sure you will find the right support and help for you, may it be medication, counselling or therapy, don’t let depression and anxiety get you down, remember to hold your head up high and always keep fighting because brighter days are ahead for you, stay…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 12 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update my anxiety and depression is starting to get out of hand. I’m going to see my doctor in November. I think I’m going to talk to her about these issues I’m having in hopes that maybe she can […] View

    @peiyopei is not just because she’s nice and cares, this type of medicine has HUGE side effects. I take medication for my anxiety, is called Rivotril. Yes, does the job, but I don’t wish the side effects on anyone. It triggers super bad thoughts, I’m talking about me breaking down, anger issues, suicidal thoughts.

    Depression medication can…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update i miss the sun, the warmth, the light i miss the only happiness to shine through my dreary head. now i have no energy to get out of bed — he was the only person to make me feel, now i […] View

    Please don’t give up on finding true love and happiness @peiyopei, someone special and amazing will come into your life Finnian, everyone deserves a partner who will stick by them, you do too, you will meet your soulmate, try to stay positive and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]
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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update be real with me people, i need a new job but i am scared to branch out into new fields. I’ve only ever worked retail but I’d like to be more open and try restaurant , be a waiter maybe? or […] View

    @peiyopei I say go for it. They usually train you until you get it done properly. Do as your heart desire and if it doesn’t work out, at least you can say you tried.
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update be real with me people, i need a new job but i am scared to branch out into new fields. I’ve only ever worked retail but I’d like to be more open and try restaurant , be a waiter maybe? or […] View

    Do explore as many options as you can @peiyopei, I’m sure you will find the right career and job that will make you happy and fulfilled, all your dreams will come true, go forward and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update if i wasn’t so fucked up, i’d be unstoppablei’d get of this place so fasttime is running out, i’m getting older… hmm View

    Things will be OK @peiyopei, look ahead towards your bright future and focus on all the amazing things that you will do, you are a wonderful person who will achieve all your dreams Finnian, believe in yourself and keep smiling, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 2 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update fuck whoever stole my wallet. I had a lot of money in there and i guess it’s my fault for carrying that much but all the other stuff, all my knickknacks and stuff I had in there that I can […] View

    Hope you manage to find your wallet or get your money back @peiyopei, try to stay positive and keep going, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update I am so close to getting my name legally changed, it’s exciting aaaa Now all that’s left is my gender marker and I’ll have all that shit out of way!!! No more stressing, no more dead […] View

    @peiyopei Congratulations :)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update I am so close to getting my name legally changed, it’s exciting aaaa Now all that’s left is my gender marker and I’ll have all that shit out of way!!! No more stressing, no more dead […] View

    That’s wonderful @peiyopei, be proud and love who you are and truly embrace every part of yourself, always be the amazing human-being that you know you can be, smile and keep going forward, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update part of me wishes I was still with him, I miss him sometimes and I crave to be around his presence again, I could live with him and take my cat. I could have money again, I could be away […] View

    Try to get in contact with this person @peiyopei, hopefully you can still have a bond or relationship with them, you are a lovely person who deserves someone special in your life, remember so many people care about you, smile and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 4 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update i hope my family and i can find a house soon, motel living is draining the bank quick… View

    Hope you and your family manage to find a good house to live in @peiyopei, try to stay positive and keep looking around as much as you can, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update hey hey, good stuff got my package, life is sweet! Hung out with that girl I mentioned a couple days ago, took her pup for a long walk, got dinner and then watched a movie at my house, it […] View

    @peiyopei that’s so freaking adorable! I think you will be fine and happy like you are now. Your life sounds like an amazing movie. Good luck with everything (:
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update hey hey, good stuff got my package, life is sweet! Hung out with that girl I mentioned a couple days ago, took her pup for a long walk, got dinner and then watched a movie at my house, it […] View

    That’s so sweet and cute @peiyopei, hope things continue going awesomely for both you and this girl, glad you got your package too, hope you have a great day, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 5 months ago

    In reply to: finnian posted an update I have been talking to this girl for awhile, yesterday we saw a movie and in the middle of it she texted me (weird, I know but she is very shy and awkward haha) asking if she could hold my […] View

    That’s so adorable and cute @peiyopei, hope things continue going strong for both of you :) (hugs)
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