• Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update For real though, no one is calling me shy anymore, but instead socially awkward. I can’t please these people, can I? I don’t have a lot of social experience because I was […] View

    I’m pretty shy and quiet too @orderofthehalfblood, but remember you are a wonderful person who deserves happiness, you will meet kind people who will love you for who you are, also I was bullied too, so I know how much it hurts, please don’t feel upset sweetie, find ways to build up your confidence and keep going forward, I want the best for…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update So much work to do, but not enough motivation to do it. I’m tired of working 24/7 all the time, but this is the life I’ve chosen. View

    Try to work as hard as you can but do remember to take regular breaks so you can recharge yourself when you need too @orderofthehalfblood, also do what makes you feel truly happy in life, I’m sure you will find something that gives you passion and purpose, everything will go well for you, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, I’m always…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update When you finally have your GAD undercontrolled but it turns out you may have sertonin syndrome, so you have to reduce the amount of meds you take which means your GAD has a […] View

    Do look after yourself and focus on getting yourself to a better place @orderofthehalfblood, I’m sure things will work out and you will do awesomely, try your best to stay positive and don’t let anything stand in your way, you are a fantastic person who deserves all the best that life has to offer, hold your head up high and focus on all the…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I wish I could stop feeling so inferior all the time to my peers. I sometimes want to cry because of how competent they are. I’m trying to do the best I am, but my best is […] View

    Please don’t feel bad about yourself @orderofthehalfblood, everyone has something they are good at, I’m sure you do too, remember to focus on making yourself better each day and on learning new things, do keep improving and seeing yourself in a positive light, things will go your way and I’m sure you will be so successful in life, don’t give…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Modest Butter
    Familiar Face
    5159
    QA Reputation
    112

    Modest Butter posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I wish I could stop feeling so inferior all the time to my peers. I sometimes want to cry because of how competent they are. I’m trying to do the best I am, but my best is […] View

    @orderofthehalfblood its never easy to shun envy and jealousy, its easier to ignore it, best way to beat the feeling of inferiority is to learn something new each day, if you ignore your envy, if you ignore your jealousy and focus on improving yourself, learning more and more, one day yourself talking to these people once more and you’ll find…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update It’s funny how I’m being taught to be in a profession all about promoting health and helping others get better when I have to forfeit my own health (physically, emotionally, […] View

    Do look after yourself and focus on getting yourself to a better place emotionally and mentally @orderofthehalfblood, remember to make yourself feel as good as possible while also trying to care for others, I want the best for you, stay positive, keep going and don’t give up, things will work out, you will make it, we are all here to support you…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of BlahTherapy Moderation
    Common Friend
    11169
    QA Reputation
    181

    BlahTherapy Moderation posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update It’s funny how I’m being taught to be in a profession all about promoting health and helping others get better when I have to forfeit my own health (physically, emotionally, […] View

    No. That is not “balance”. You are not balancing any cosmic justice scales by suffering while you learn to help others out of the same. You can help others learn to live well while also living well for yourself.

    You cannot neglect your personal well-being; if you do not take care of yourself, then you are therefore less-capable of caring for…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I feel sad, yet indifferent? It almost feels like I’m too ”tired” to really get upset. For an example, someone laughed at me today (more than likely not in a nice way, as I […] View

    Please don’t feel sad @orderofthehalfblood, you are a lovely person who deserves to feel awesome and on top of the world, try to focus on the things that put a smile on your face and that make you feel content, everything will be OK, smile and hold your head up high, amazing things will happen to you, be upbeat and show everyone how truly…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update My self esteem is at a point right now where when I see my reflection in my laptop’s screen I cringe. It really sucks. View

    Please don’t feel bad about yourselves @laurielizrose and @orderofthehalfblood, you are both beautiful and incredible inside and out, please love and be kind to yourselves, you both deserve to see how truly incredible you are, remember to keep being awesome, I’m always here if either of you need support, feel free to message me anytime, my inbox…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update Feel pretty anxiety ridden. I really don’t want to go back to clinical. I’ve kinda been thrown out to the wolves here, and my worst fears going into clinical have been […] View

    Please don’t let sadness get you down @orderofthehalfblood, you are such a lovely and special angel who deserves all the happiness and brightness in the world, things may seem hard but they will change for the better, hold your head up high and show everyone how truly fabulous you are, you are a warrior who never gives up, see yourself in an…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I don’t feel like living anymore. At this point my parents are the only thing that is keeping me alive. Ugh. It would hurt them too much if I died, so I guess I’ll just stay […] View

    Please don’t let your struggles get you down @orderofthehalfblood, you are such a beautiful and lovely person who deserves all the happiness, joy and brightness in the world, things may seem hard but they will change for the better, please be kind and good to yourself, great things will happen, do make all your goals and dreams come true, you are…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of SJayJay
    Familiar Face
    3039
    QA Reputation
    156

    SJayJay posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I can’t get over how lovely the Blah Therapy community is. Everyone is just so amazing, and I can’t explain how thankful I am to have come across this wonderful website. View

    Awwww. We’re thankful to have you here too @orderofthehalfblood

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update Almost done moving into my new place. :) My new roommates seem nice. I’m a bit concerned about their cleaning habits, but I’m starting to accept the fact that my cleaning […] View

    Hope you enjoy your new place and surroundings @orderofthehalfblood, I wish you all the best going forward, stay positive and keep being the lovely human-being that you are, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I can’t get over how lovely the Blah Therapy community is. Everyone is just so amazing, and I can’t explain how thankful I am to have come across this wonderful website. View

    We are all here to support and be there for you and each other @orderofthehalfblood, you are a much valued, loved and appreciated member of this community, always remember that :) (hugs)

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I’ve been trying to go to bed earlier than 12, but I’m anxiety about my clinical seems to be keeping me up until 2-3AM. :( I’m just thankful I’m on break so it doesn’t affect my […] View

    Do find a way to help you fall asleep easily @orderofthehalfblood, do relax when you can, I would try running a hot bath before bed, listening to calm sounds or having a hot drink, try to sleep early as well if you can, hope everything works out, you will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open,…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of rinseandrep
    Common Friend
    23049
    QA Reputation
    7397

    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update It sucks when you’re struggling with generalized anxiety disorder and people don’t understand what you’re going through. I’ve been given medication, and it has helped me a lot […] View

    @orderofthehalfblood I see, is your grandma someone whom you can ask to not relay negative uninformed opinions?

  • Profile picture of rinseandrep
    Common Friend
    23049
    QA Reputation
    7397

    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update It sucks when you’re struggling with generalized anxiety disorder and people don’t understand what you’re going through. I’ve been given medication, and it has helped me a lot […] View

    @orderofthehalfblood How did you come to know that they said?

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update It sucks when you’re struggling with generalized anxiety disorder and people don’t understand what you’re going through. I’ve been given medication, and it has helped me a lot […] View

    Don’t let your neighbour be horrible and mean to you @orderofthehalfblood, those around you should help, support and sympathise with you, hold your head up high and focus on getting yourself to a better place emotionally and mentally, it’s good that your parents are there for you, remember you will make it and come out so much stronger, believe…[Read more]

  • Profile picture of Hayden
    Common Friend
    13219
    QA Reputation
    1213

    Hayden posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I can’t stand my roommates anymore. I can’t believe I was matched up with these people. :/ All they do is shit talk (they are doing it as we speak), are messy, and I don’t […] View

    @orderofthehalfblood
    Sorry to hear things aren’t working out. :( At least you’ll hopefully be getting out of there soon. Good luck with everything. ^-^

  • Profile picture of Oli
    Confidant
    133997
    QA Reputation
    98

    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: OrderoftheHalfBlood posted an update I can’t stand my roommates anymore. I can’t believe I was matched up with these people. :/ All they do is shit talk (they are doing it as we speak), are messy, and I don’t […] View

    Don’t let them get you down @orderofthehalfblood, your roommates should treat you with respect and kindness, hopefully you will find new ones when you move out who will be wonderful towards you, try to stay positive and keep smiling, you can do it, I want to see you feeling good, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox…[Read more]

  • Load More