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Oli

@oliver
QA rep 98Mood : Depressed 133997 Rank - Confidant
My life holds absolutely no meaning and no purpose, I’m 32, no friends, no social life, no romantic relationship, no goals, hopes, dreams or aspirations, no hobbies or interests, nothing in my depressing life, I’m so shy, awkward, introverted, lonely and alone, I wish I knew how to communicate with people, how to talk, socialise and build […] View

  • gray beard on June 7, 2015:

    Even while dealing with his own struggles, there is always a word of encouragement and an offer to listen, and help from Oli.
    I want to thank Oli for making my visits to this site a better experience.

  • Helen Smith on August 9, 2014:

    “if you need to talk, I’m always here, feel free to message me anytime if you want :) (hugs)”

    For those kind words alone, I know that there is such a thing as a person who actually cares about the well being of others.
    You will really never know how much your words meant to me.

  • Panic!AtTheBrendon on July 5, 2014:

    I have one thing to say- Oliver is amazing.

    It seems like he’s the kind of person who would go out of their way to help someone in need- the kind of person you could strike up a meaningful conversation with on the sidewalk.

    A few months after I joined, I posted about something trivial, in my opinion. I was complaining about being sick. He replied soon after, telling me to feel better, and that I could talk to him any time I needed to.

    I was going through a rough patch in life; I had a lot of stress from school, someone I loved had passed away, and it all was making me about to self harm. There he was, telling me to not do anything to myself, and how I was amazing and had a great future ahead of me.

    Finally, just recently, I started self harming, and came to Oliver for help. He told me to not feel horrible about myself, and to try and relax. He made me realize that I should stop looking at the negative in my life and look at the positive.

    Oliver is an amazing person. He made me find hope in the worst times, and I’m sure he can help you, too. He’s the only person I haven’t been able to find any bad in. I think he’s an angel in disguise. Oliver, don’t stop believing in all of us, because we believe in you.

  • Humanist Hope on April 9, 2014:

    Let’s start off with an understatement: life is hard.

    BlahTherapy seeks to help people by giving a compassionate ear to anyone who has absolutely anything to get off their chest. Where you come from, where you’re going, what you’ve done or haven’t done is all irrelevant. When you come to BlahTherapy, you are among friends.

    Nobody encompasses this mentality and presents that atmosphere to so many people quite like you, Oliver. You relentlessly watch the activity feed and are almost always there when open up and say they are feeling rotten, and you reassure them with words of encouragement and validation.

    Your devotion to spreading a message of caring and making people feel welcome when they nervously log in has more than earned this testimonial.

    You are a very good man, Oliver. BlahTherapy would not be the same without you.

  • on April 6, 2014:

    Okay, so this is my first testimonial, and im really glad its going to you oliver, your such a caring person,
    Thanks for all your comments and for being the loving soul that you are.

    Ive only been on this site for about a week and a half, and the very first day i was on here you was the first person that i spoke to.
    I love the way most of the time i look at my homepage and i see your kind comments to people, you are always trying to help people, and make them more optimistic, and give them a bit of hope. I think the world would definately benifit if there was more people like you.
    A lot of the time i feel like giving up, but you always put on my statuses, ”not to give up” i like that, its nice and reassuring, that even we think our lives are falling apart Someone has a bitof hope in us.
    Though I do look at your profile sometimes, and its an eye opener, i mean you say all these nice things to other people and try to make them feel a bit happier but then i read your status, and i have to remember that you are sad and you are going through things as well, so if you ever want to talk my inbox is always, (i would be glad to chat with you :) ) and as you always say (hugs)… well (cyber hugs) anyway :D xx