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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Should I try to get help from a therapist or counselor or just let the damage do it’s thing and then look back on it from a dramatic, cinematic viewpoint? View

    Do talk to a counselor or therapist @invincible, I’m sure talking to someone and being able to unburden yourself will be beneficial for you beautiful Cecelia, I want to see you feeling happy and positive sweetie, don’t let all the trauma beat you Cecelia, remember you are so brave, courageous and amazing sweetheart, the BT community will always be…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update “Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.” “We were together even when we were apart.” “If you listen to the wind very carefully, you’ll be able to hear me whisper my […] View

    I’m so sorry you are missing someone who is special to you @helplessandhelpful1996, try to remember all the happy and wonderful times you spent with this person, all the good moments and memories you laughed, smiled and had fun together, I’m 100% sure that this person is missing you too, be strong, you will make it through this, try to keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I know I have said this a lot, but I am actually I need to get out of here. It’s too toxic. I will literally just die if I can’t leave. I have had enough. I have developed respect for me […] View

    I don’t want to see you feeling unsafe and stuck in a toxic environment @invincible, please try to leave when you can sweetie and find a place of safety, comfort and happiness that will put you at ease and make you smile beautiful Cecelia, you will make it through this sweetheart and please know the BT community will be here for you every step of…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update funny how 8 or so years back i was doing it just because thats what all the emo kids were supposed to do, grew out of it really quick because i just hate pain n i didnt want to have to […] View

    Please don’t harm yourself @shadrakor, you are such a fantastic, brilliant and amazing person who deserves to feel happy, positive and upbeat, we have all done bad or things we regret in life, don’t let the guilt haunt you, try to seek forgiveness and redemption where you can because you are truly a good human-being, remember to focus on making…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 1 month ago

    Life is so lonely, depressing and sad, I don’t know why I bother or try because in the end, absolutely NOTHING ever works out for me, I’m not a positive person at all, I’m hopeless and lost with no real goals or aspirations, I’m going to be 30 years old next year and have nothing to show for it except failure, I have been a recluse for so long…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • same
      at least you still try to cheer people up
      better than closing yourself down and turning into an asshole like me, least you still have something to give even if your brain cant see it that way

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update everything just fucking gets worse it never gets betterfinally came back and talked in my friends group chat- first thing i see when i log back in is my ’best friend’ accuse me of […] View

    Please don’t feel sad, tired and depressed @shadrakor, you are such a wonderful, awesome and lovely person who deserves happiness and positivity in your life, your boyfriend and friend group chat really should be there for you because we all need compassionate people in our lives, you do too, don’t let dark thoughts break you down, try to stay…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month ago

    In reply to: Savannah posted an update Things have been pretty bad where i am at with my life but i am still here if anybody wants to chat cause helping someone out can change my life around easily. View

    Please don’t let the struggles of life get you down @open-ears-101, things will get better and everything will be OK Savannah, remember to stay upbeat and make each day fantastic, awesome and wonderful, always be kind to yourself, smile and hold your head up high, you can do it Savannah, believe in yourself and never give up, feel free to inbox…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update Doctor says Bump is about 15 weeks, give or take a few days. View

    I’m so sorry @kinkymomo, I want to see you feeling safe and protected, what happened to you was so wrong Kinkymomo and you deserve so much better, please know I’ll always be here for you and so will the BT community, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update sleeping. all the time. so depressed. the only time during the day I wana be awake is to talk to my best friend for several hours @ night. that is it, that is my life. i am grateful for […] View

    I don’t want to see you struggling @invincible, you are such a beautiful, lovely and incredible angel who deserves happiness in her life wonderful Cecelia, don’t let depression break you down sweetheart, stay focused on all the things that bring you hope, purpose and optimism Cecelia, it’s nice that your best friend is there to comfort and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update i miss having friends been so hard to be okay again glad my bf spoke up about something bothering him but whyd it have to *that*??? ex told me i was ’too nice’ guess she was […] View

    Everyone deserves good friends in their lives @shadrakor, you do too, please don’t let what your ex told you upset you, being a nice person truly shows how kind and sweet you are, it makes you a wonderful person, remember to always be awesome to yourself because you do matter and you are worth it, smile, hold your head up high and keep going…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update found out today how bad my social anxiety has gotten again, had a conversation on twitter and it felt so awkward and stale and i had a breakdown about it- well im still having a breakdown […] View

    Please be kind to yourself @shadrakor, I know how you feel, I’m a shy person and find it difficult to approach, talk to and socialise with others, take time to build up your confidence and self esteem and know you will be able to have great friendships and relationships in your life, keep talking with your boyfriend and try reaching out to your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update been hard to feel okay againstarted thinking about the friend i had three years ago, she was a streamer on twitch and basically the first time id had a real interaction with a streamer, […] View

    Please don’t feel lonely @shadrakor, I know how you feel, I have had friendships in my life that have come and gone, you are a good person who deserves to have compassionate people around you who will stick by you through all the ups and downs, the bad and good times of any relationship, please don’t let hurtful memories of your past break you,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Spending my birthday relaxing and feeling gratitude. View

    Happy Birthday to a truly lovely, incredible, special and beautiful angel @invincible, it’s great to see that you are spending your birthday feeling wonderful Cecelia, this community is so thankful for having you as a member sweetheart, you have done so much for me and all of us here on BT sweetie, please know I will always be here for you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: KinkyMomo posted an update Waiting for quarantine to end so i can see a doctor about the baby bump. View

    Please do go and see a doctor when you can @kinkymomo, please try to tell them what happened to you Kinkymomo, I want you to be safe, protected and looked after Kinkymomo, please take care of yourself and know I’ll always be here for you, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk Kinkymomo, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 1 week ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update history repeats itself, it really doesi remember what my ex said.. she told me to stop complimenting her and saying i loved her all the time because it ’cheapened’ the phrase i meant it […] View

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an affectionate and loving person @shadrakor, your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend should both realize how lucky they are and were to have someone as sweet and kind as you in their lives, please don’t hate yourself, always be the wonderful and compassionate person that you are, keep spreading love and care…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update Ive been doing a lot better lately, changed up my twitter profile and made it look pretty good imo- still MIA from my friends but thats okay, I cant really afford to give any attention to […] View

    It’s great to see you feeling hopeful @shadrakor, stay positive because you are awesome, it’s wonderful to see that you are surrounded by compassion and love, keep smiling and remember to always make each day as fantastic as you can, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update was finally starting to do good again, had a thought the other day that even if I was thinking about the past it didnt hurt as much as it did before… but something happened that reminded […] View

    Please don’t let hurtful memories get you down @shadrakor, try to focus on all the things that bring you hope, happiness and positivity, surround yourself with compassion and love, remember so many people care about you and appreciate you, everything will be OK, you are amongst friends in this community, your future will be so awesome and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update even though every bit of my wants to open the flood gates and get all these thoughts off my head, Im not even sure how Id begin… I lose my train of thought the second I have to focus on […] View

    Do find good ways to get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out @shadrakor, remember we are all here to support and help you, do take time to process and work on how you are feeling so you can better understand yourself, always know that the BT community will always be here for you, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, feel…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: jporwave posted an update Im doing a bit better, my bf and I had a bit of a falling out for a second and he asked me if Id given up on us… I guess that shook me out of it and made me realize how much I didnt want […] View

    It’s good to see that you are feeling better @shadrakor, hope the relationship with your boyfriend keeps going strong, always be there for each other and make sure to communicate openly and honestly when you have any issues, I’m so sorry that your friends and family haven’t checked in on you, they really should treat you with love, care and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Mellow Mallow posted an update I’m surprised there isn’t a ’sweaty’ option in Mood View

    Hope you are OK and things are going well for you @mellow-mallow, it’s great to see you back on BT, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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