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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 8 hours ago

    In reply to: Franci posted an update I always find myself back on this site. I hope it never goes away. View

    I don’t want to see you feeling stressed or upset @fancifranci, you are a fabulous, special and amazing person who deserves to be truly happy and lead a successful life, focus on all the things that bring you hope and surround yourself with positivity, you will make it through this Franci because you are so courageous and brave, believe in…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 9 hours ago

    In reply to: M. posted an update Hello my fellow listeners ,I have a pretty weird question – I have been meeting some pretty annoying and unnerving venter who repeats ” help me ” and ” call for help ” over an over and try to […] View

    I haven’t encountered anything like that on the chat yet @bouquet-of-garnets, I would either report it to the admin or try to get as much information from the venter as you can, try to work out if they are legitimate or just a troll, thanks for keeping the BT community safe, you are a star M, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 11 hours ago

    In reply to: Bright-star posted an update Life can be beautiful sometimes. View

    It’s great to see you positive, happy and thankful @bright-star, always be the awesome, wonderful and fabulous person that you are, hope you are having a wonderful day too, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 13 hours ago

    In reply to: Angel posted an update Wouldn’t it be grand if the answer was a nice big pot of macaroni and cheese? :b View

    Macaroni and cheese is awesome @dizzydaydreamer333, hope you manage to have some hehe, do have a great day and keep smiling, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 days, 20 hours ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update It annoys me quite much when people make assumptions based off generalizations that you relate to 0%. Makes me feel not normal? And that people don’t know me at all. View

    Do surround yourself with good people who you can bond with, who are similar to you and who you can sympathise with @invincible, be around those who you can share experiences with Cecelia, so you can strengthen and help each other, I’ll always be here if you need to chat or vent sweetie, inbox me anytime Cecelia, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Hello posted an update And I’ve been on edge from that same idiot for 3+ hours this is absolutely awful View

    This person has no right to be horrible to you @hello187, they should treat you with love, respect and care, I would talk to them about how you feel, tell them that their behaviour is making you upset and that you want them to change, be as honest and open with them as you can, hope things work out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Self-Caring Fruit posted an update I should stop. View

    Please don’t stop @self-caring-grape, always be the kind, lovely, sweet and compassion person that you are, keep spreading joy, hope and empathy, I want to see you feeling wonderful, please know you can talk to me about absolutely anything, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I FEEL SO ALONE AND SO HATED AND I’VE NO IDEA WHY, absolute torture and intense thoughts and sadness. WHY is this happening? All of a sudden?! it always gets worse at night, I can hardly […] View

    Please don’t feel bad about yourself @invincible, you are so loved and appreciated by me and all of us here on BT, we love and care about you sweetie, please be kind to yourself and know you are truly incredible, amazing and fabulous in every single way Cecelia, hold your head up high, smile and never give up, keep going forward with confidence,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Have been very sad lately. But I am trying to get things done and find distractions. View

    Don’t let sadness get you down @invincible, stay focused on all the things that bring you hope, happiness and joy sweetie, surround yourself with love, compassion, hope and empathy Cecelia, you truly deserve to smile and feel awesome, remember you are so beautiful, special and lovely Cecelia, believe in yourself, keep going forward and never give…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Christina posted an update would appreciate some friends to talk to! View

    Please don’t feel lonely @chplikescats, you are amongst friends in the BT community Christina, you have joined a compassionate, supportive and kind community where we all help and be there for each other, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent about anything Christina, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Kidzo3 posted an update Feeling upset because husband rolled his ayes and didn’t want the birthday gift I was getting him. The gift was a nice night out to dinner, followed by a night at a nice hotel. He didn’t […] View

    I would talk to your husband about how you feel @kidzo3, he really should appreciate that you arranged to have a nice dinner and hotel booked for his birthday, it is the thought and effort that truly counts on a special occasion like a birthday, explain to him how hurt you are and that you just want to do something lovely for him, hope everything…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 1 day ago

    In reply to: Self-Caring Fruit posted an update Being around the people you know and love is a blessing. No matter how bad you feel, a real smile will come across your face when you’re with them. View

    We all deserve to be around caring, loving, kind and supportive people @self-caring-grape, you do too, always surround yourself with those who bring you empathy and compassion, keep being the incredible, inspirational and awesome person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Hello posted an update Whoooo might have just actually helped someone! View

    That’s so wonderful @hello187, always be the kind, sweet and amazing person that you are, continue helping people with love and empathy, hope you are having a great day, remember to always smile and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Amanda posted an update Today is a different day :) View

    It’s great to see you positive, content and happy @amanda4513, keep smiling and always make each day fabulous, bright and wonderful, always be awesome and never give up, you can do it Amanda, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 2 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Positive thinking is slowly but surely leading me into being more confident and happy with myself, especially my physical appearance and my confidence with such View

    It’s wonderful to see you staying positive, upbeat and happy @invincible, always go forward with confidence and be the beautiful, lovely and incredible angel that you are sweetie, you are such a kind person Cecelia who truly deserves all the best in life, things will go your way hun and you will make all your dreams come true, believe in yourself…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: Hello posted an update Whoooo everyone either wants to talk about sex or is encouraging me to cheat on my final this is greaaaaaaaaaaaaattttttttt View

    Don’t let horrible or awful people on the chat get you annoyed @hello187, this is a supportive, compassionate and loving community where we all help and be there for each other, please know there are many more kinder members of BT who are willing to help you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 3 days ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Anyone knows of a job online? Or any jobs for foregeins in your country? I’m genuinly desperate!! View

    You will find the right job and career for you @marikofujimoto, try looking online sweetie, I mainly use the job site Indeed and Google to look for work Mariko, you will make all your dreams come true lovely angel, something wonderful will come your way Mariko, keep going and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Can’t go a year without my family member tarting shit up and causing an argument over their own victimized mindest and delusions. Now they are making me think I’m wrong and at fault when I […] View

    Your family members have no right to be horrible to you @invincible, they should talk to you calmly and respectfully, I want to see you being loved and appreciated Cecelia, we all deserve a caring family, you do too sweetie, hope everything works out hun, try to stay upbeat and focus on all the things that will make you smile brightly, you can do…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 week, 4 days ago

    In reply to: Self-Caring Fruit posted an update Am I really helping? Or have I just made the problem worse? Probably the latter. View

    You are truly helping people by being there for them, being a good person who listens and offers wise, compassionate, inspiring and insightful guidance and advice @self-caring-grape, you are so loving, wonderful and amazing, keep spreading love and kindness as much as you can, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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