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    Eanne026 posted an update 5 years, 9 months ago

    It’s a beautiful day

    Mood : Energetic
    • It’s great to see you positive @eanne026, keep spreading happiness on BT and always be the fabulous person that you are, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Janey baby posted an update 6 years, 7 months ago

    Haven’t been here for ages, Hi everyone! Inbox me if you want a chat :)

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    Coolsoda posted an update 6 years, 11 months ago

    I’m trying to be kinder…kinder as in more compassionate, more honest, more understanding, humble–definitely more humble and more grateful. But it’s really hard, it feels almost impossible sometimes…to be honest I doubt my willpower mostly. It’s too easy to slip back into what you used to be. What stops you from falling back into old…[Read more]

    Mood : Hopeful
    • I think you can do anything that you put your mind too!

    • @pepperman that’s very sweet of you :) We need more people as kind as you

    • Keep being the kind, compassionate and lovely person that you are @pepperman, always be sweet and spread hope as much as you can, smile and keep going, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • That’s a lot of things you’re trying there all at once. Maybe you could just do one and go from there. One step, one thing at a time. A simple exercise is called 10:1 – You bless the first 10 people you meet in your day (a kind word, an encouraging thought, A note of encouragement, a quick prayer for them), and 1 random act of kindness each day.…[Read more]

    • That’s very kind and sweet and you can do it! Just take one day at a time. (:

    • ”it feels almost impossible sometimes…to be honest” truest thing ive heard anybody say in a long time

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    Coolsoda replied to the forum topic Answer a question, ask a question. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 6 years, 11 months ago

    This is a very hard question to answer, but I heard a wonderful quote that…”Comparison is the thief of joy”, and that’s basically what depression is but internalized. We all feel life should be more, and the […]

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    Coolsoda posted an update 7 years ago

    I haven’t been on this site in almost two years and coming back it’s very weird. I guess when your a kid there’s alot of ways you can change. Still this website helped me immensely, blah is a beautiful reality with beautiful raw people. You guys make this place, I know sometimes everything feels so unbearably hard–cause it is, but I promise…[Read more]

    Mood : Thankful
    • Oli replied 7 years ago

      It’s great to see you back on Blah @pepperman, you are right, this is a compassionate and amazing site filled with the most helpful people, keep being lovely and wonderful, hope you are OK, I’m always here if you ever need to chat or vent about anything, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Your words are very encouraging @pepperman welcome back :)

    • @pepperman Welcome back! :) I’m really happy to see you’re doing well. And thank you for the positivity, Blah sure needs it!

    • Thanks for the warm welcome Oli. I am going to take your advice to heart when or if I ever need it, and I just hope you know that if you ever need anyone too, well we are all here.

    • Well thank you Mariko! I’m glad to be back..atleast for now. I hope you’re doing well too? It’s incredible what a simple honest word can do to brighten someone’s day…we forget that sometimes. Thanks for reminding of that.

    • Thank you! Message me if you ever feel like more encouragement or if your just feeling chatty.

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 9 months ago

    You’ve been brave so far y love. I know its hard when you know for yourself that there’s no one else who will catch you when you fall, that there is no one else who know that you’ve been too strong for so long. It’s okay to have a break sometimes, to breathe, to be carefree and to be human. Just don’t ever give up on yourself. Be stronger…[Read more]

    • You are so kind and lovely @eanne026, keep inspiring this community with your words of wisdom and your warmth, thanks for all you do on Blah, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 10 months ago

    Dreams can become reality.

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 10 months ago

    I thank the people who still remain kind in this world, even though sometimes it’s selfish, cruel and judgmental. The people who still trusts, believes the best in everyone. I hope when I’ll grow old, I will be one of those people.

    • Remember there are compassionate and sweet people in the world @eanne026, do your best to surround yourself with people who love and give you brightness, stay positive and keep being the incredible individual that you are, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 10 months ago

    Me and my friend ate in a fancy restaurant an hour ago. I didn’t expect we’d eat there but because my friend is depressed due to our teacher who pushed her in a corner during our class, I wanted to be there for her, so its good. It’s just that my wallet is not good TT^TT. Gotta save more in the next few days

    • @eanne026 what kind of teacher is that??? Talking about abuse and being a bitch…
      I hope your friend gets better, it isn’t nice being humiliated that way in class :(
      Also you’re a very good friend trying to cheer her up, that’s really sweet of you

    • tell your friend (or someone else) to record it the next time it happens, that sounds like physical abuse. shit like that shouldn’t be tolerated especially in schools/uni…

    • I would support your friend as much as possible @eanne026, don’t let this horrible teacher get you down, they have no right being mean, they should encourage and help students to fulfil their potential, keep being the compassionate person that you are, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay…[Read more]

    • TL;DR In the future, grab some fast food instead. Better yet, go to Starbucks/etc and buy your friend a drink, relax and talk about their feelings… just being supportive is more than enough. Not to mention, what better place to decompress after a stressful situation… than in a super chill environment like a coffee shop. ;) I assume this was a…[Read more]

    • @Trevor thanks for appreciating. We actually went to a coffee shop and I also recommended the shop so its cool. I know the feeling that when your depressed, eating the food you like and sweets could help. I know very well what my friend felt on that moment because that teacher had also wronged me in the past. But still, I just have to let it be…[Read more]

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 10 months ago

    How long are you gonna live your life thinking everybody is better than you?

    • Don’t let anything or anyone bring you down @eanne026, remember to focus on being upbeat and doing what makes you truly happy, as long as you make yourself smile, that’s what matters, live each day to the fullest and never give up, you can do it, what’s on your mind?, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is…[Read more]

    • i never compare myself to anyone, and you shouldn’t either. it’ll be better if you find people that inspire you, and make yourself the best person you can be… and not for others but for yourself

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 10 months ago

    That feeling when you are motivated because its your last year in college and you want to be the best of yourself and then came this teacher who will instill pessimism in you. And I was thinking like ”What kind of teacher are you?!”

    • Try to stay positive and focus on working as hard as you can @eanne026, I’m sure you will be successful, keep going and don’t give up, hold your head up high and believe in yourself, you will do awesomely in your studies, you can do it, don’t let anything or anyone bring you down, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me…[Read more]

    • @eanne026 someone who is unhappy/frustrated with life and for some stupid reason has the need to let it out on the students. But don’t let it get you down!! You’re so close to your goal :D You’re going to graduate and you’ll be amazing! Good luck and keep being awesome :)

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 10 months ago

    What’s done is done. Let bygones be bygones. Keep moving forward.

    • Hope you are OK @eanne026, it’s great to see you inspiring others, keep being the compassionate angel that you are, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 11 months ago

    The moon shines beautifully tonight

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 11 months ago

    Change is a decision. It may be hard but sometimes you just have to do it. Not because you want it but its for the better.

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    Eanne026 posted an update 7 years, 11 months ago

    I find my personality strange. I don’t think I’m making the right choices, the right decisions. I just don’t know anymore.

    • All I can say is try not to give up hope. I realise that it’s easier said than done, but it’s completely understandable that you’d lose your way, especially if you haven’t a particular goal in life.

      You’re definitely young enough to try different things just to gain a bit of inspiration and direction. I’ve known 40 – 50 year olds look…[Read more]

    • @Devereux thanks for your advice. Its really helpful. I think I may need a fresh breeze to discover myself more, and set out my goals

    • You’re more than welcome :) Yeah, just a step back without worrying too much about what you’re doing with your life can help immensely. Just be patient with yourself and it’ll eventually come to you.

    • I’m sure you will make the right choices and decisions that will benefit you going forward @eanne026, do your best to find things that make you happy, content and positive, follow your dreams and don’t let anything stand in your way, as long as you are comfortable and at ease in life that’s what matters, you will make it, believe in yourself…[Read more]

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    Eanne026 posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago

    Don’t you ever give up on you

    • You are correct @eanne026, we all have to believe in ourselves to make us happy, keep inspiring others with your wisdom, I’m always here if you ever need to talk :) (hugs)

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    Eanne026 posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago

    Everything you want is on the other side of fear. – Jack Canfield

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    Coolsoda posted an update 8 years, 1 month ago

    Ever liked someone so much it hurts? We should start a club!

    • Hopefully you will be able to build up a bond and friendship with this person @pepperman, try talking to them, start a conversation and see what happens, maybe they will respond positively, you deserve good people around you, everyone does, hold your head up high, keep going and don’t give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat…[Read more]

    • Liking someone is a part of life, we are attracted to people and sometimes it does pain us to not be with them. I am so part of that club.

    • It’s been quite a long time since I’ve felt that way for someone. But I surely understand.

    • theneed for companionship is a motherfucker its probably one of the hardest things we deal with as humans it used to simply be we need to populate the earth and now its more of a status symbol whenever i struggle with something i try to boil it down to the facts what do i know about the world as fact and where is there falseness the fact is and i…[Read more]

    • theneed for companionship is a motherfucker its probably one of the hardest things we deal with as humans it used to simply be we need to populate the earth and now its more of a status symbol whenever i struggle with something i try to boil it down to the facts what do i know about the world as fact and where is there falseness the fact is and i…[Read more]

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