• Profile picture of Mystic Unicorn
    Passing Stranger
    QA Reputation

    Mystic Unicorn posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    So. I have very recently discovered something about myself. And when I say very recently, I mean today. I have been thinking about it and questioning it for a while now. I have discovered that I am in fact polyamorous. I’m not sure how to tell the girl I’ve been talking to. She’s definitely not poly. I know it doesn’t sound good, but I would be okay if she wanted to end things when I tell her. I’m not gonna for e her into anything. And if she doesn’t accept me but doesn’t wanna end things, I will because I’m not gonna be with someone who doesn’t accept me for who I am or won’t let me be who I am. Now here’s the scary part. Telling my family. I have no idea how they are going to react to this. Please help. Any advice would be wonderful.

    Mood : Afraid
    • @mystic-unicorn maybe you can cross that bridge when you are in a stable poly relationship (with more than one person)

    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      Please don’t be afraid @mystic-unicorn, always be proud of who you are, love and embrace every part of yourself, hopefully this girl will accept you and love you for you, your family should always be there for you too and accept you as well, we all deserve to be loved regardless of what sort of relationship we are in, please know you will find a strong, stable and loving relationship where you feel supported, everything will be OK, try to stay positive and keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • It’s good you discovered this about yourself and are aware what you are into! I would let her know as soon as you can because she may be looking for something different than you.