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    MidnightSarrow posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update So i pissed my bf off last night, mad him feel worthless again and he still cares about me? I think he should block me and move on tbh, he won’t get badly hurt.Whyyyyyy is my […] View

    Okay then- So explain to me how to talk to him calmly when
    A. He seems to be avoiding me
    B. He’s not open to communication at the moment
    C. Who knows wtf i could say next to piss him off more

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 7 months ago

    So i pissed my bf off last night, mad him feel worthless again and he still cares about me?
    I think he should block me and move on tbh, he won’t get badly hurt.

    Whyyyyyy is my relationship this hard like W T F
    this is why i prefer just loving someone from afar. Neither of us can hurt the other- tho, i do mos of the hurting. .

    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      I would talk to your boyfriend openly and calmly @midnightsarrow, let him know you care about and love him, you want the best for him and you want to see him happy, I’m sure you will be able to make things better with him and make your relationship stronger and more loving, remember to always be there for each other and always keep the lines of…[Read more]

    • Okay then- So explain to me how to talk to him calmly when
      A. He seems to be avoiding me
      B. He’s not open to communication at the moment
      C. Who knows wtf i could say next to piss him off more

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      It’s normal to hurt each other in a relationship every once in awhile– mistakes are made, things happen. Minor pain is forgivable and forgettable.

      But the entire situation sounds rather toxic to me. Lack of communication especially? Communicating your problems and the relationship’s issues should be top priority. Without…[Read more]

    • A break? He’ll take that as a break up and get more pissed off ;-;

      It’s so freaking difficult, i don’t belong in relationships. I belong in friendships cuz I end up being more unstable otherwise. A short relationship i can do, ish.

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    MidnightSarrow posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update in the group Asexuality Did some research on asexuality after someone mentioned to me what it really was. After some time on such topic, i’ve concluded i’m asexual.The ’'type’’ i […] View

    Well, rn he’s probably pissed off at me cuz i was being a sexist bitch ;-;

    Jeez i’m bad at this

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    MidnightSarrow posted a new activity comment 7 months ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update Reasons why I can’t tell my bf i’m possibly asexual : I don’t pull out topics from random and he knows it. There are several things I have yet to tell him. I’m probably gonna […] View

    It’ll be hard, especially since he’s not in a good mood rn———- maybe later

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 7 months ago

    Reasons why I can’t tell my bf i’m possibly asexual : I don’t pull out topics from random and he knows it.
    There are several things I have yet to tell him. I’m probably gonna eventually come up with a game of sorts to get it all out. Or most of it.

    P.S. Sorry to bring this up but, Oli can you please stop mentioning me when you reply to an…[Read more]

    • However you decide to tell him, do find a way to. Through a game, through a straight-up random conversation, anyway and anything to get it out ♥

    • It’ll be hard, especially since he’s not in a good mood rn———- maybe later

    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      I’m sure you will find a good way to tell him and he will respond positively @midnightsarrow, remember to always love every part of yourself and always be proud of who you are, keep being the awesome person that you are, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update in the group Group logoAsexuality 7 months ago

    Did some research on asexuality after someone mentioned to me what it really was. After some time on such topic, i’ve concluded i’m asexual.The ”type” i guess is what’s called “grey asexual”?? I’m still new to this ;-;
    If anyone wants (please), they could explain more of this.
    I’ve actually felt a bit better since coming to this…[Read more]

    Mood : Accepted
    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      Always be proud of who you are @midnightsarrow, love and embrace every part of yourself and keep being the awesome and wonderful soul that you are, I would be as honest and open with your boyfriend as you can, be truthful and let him know this is who you are, hopefully he will respond positively and you can move forward still being a part of each…[Read more]

    • I would research some more and apply it to your life and you should tell your boyfriend. You are who you are and you are perfect just as is and it’s important to be open and honest with yourself and those you are close to, especially your boyfriend. Give him time to process it, as to many in our society asexuality can be rather different, or…[Read more]

    • Well, rn he’s probably pissed off at me cuz i was being a sexist bitch ;-;

      Jeez i’m bad at this

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    MidnightSarrow posted a new activity comment 7 months, 1 week ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update So what’s everybody gonna be for Halloween? View

    (no idea what a vsco girl even is– :’) )

    I’m gonna be a witch

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    MidnightSarrow posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update Gotta go talk to the new doctor (forgot what kind of doctor he is, like a therapist type doctor but not), gotta leave at 2:15. Fun part, it snowed today. Got two inches. It’s not […] View

    Problem is, no motivation means hardly any art. Gotta fight to get motivation even if I just wanna lay down and sleep

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    So what’s everybody gonna be for Halloween?

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    MidnightSarrow posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update Gotta go talk to the new doctor (forgot what kind of doctor he is, like a therapist type doctor but not), gotta leave at 2:15. Fun part, it snowed today. Got two inches. It’s not […] View

    Yeah k– so whatre you gonna be for Halloween? You gonna dress up?

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    MidnightSarrow posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: Fading Echo posted an update So here’s what happened last night: My sister and I were playing with two other kids. Me and another kid got onto a bean bag and pulled the other bean bag on top of us. We were all […] View

    Yeah- emotion is hard to show and gets harder after a near full blown panic attack and shock once it’s all over realizing what just happened but not quite understanding what happened or how.
    Do you struggle with panic attacks or anxiety attacks?
    I’m sorry you got in trouble for something not truly intended, If I could I would talk for you to…[Read more]

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Gotta go talk to the new doctor (forgot what kind of doctor he is, like a therapist type doctor but not), gotta leave at 2:15.
    Fun part, it snowed today. Got two inches. It’s not even Halloween yet.
    By the way, what’s everyone going as for Halloween? I’m going as a witch like i did last year. This year, I’m gonna do the same thing :go to…[Read more]

    Mood : Awake
    • Glad to see that you have got a new doctor/therapist who you can talk too and who will help you @midnightsarrow, do have a fun Halloween filled with awesome moments, please don’t harm yourself, try to find ways to make yourself feel happier and positive, it’s nice to see that you are using art to heal and make yourself better physically,…[Read more]

    • Yeah k– so whatre you gonna be for Halloween? You gonna dress up?

    • that is good, and i am glad art is a cure you should definitely work on art as often as you feel you need to or can escape.

    • Problem is, no motivation means hardly any art. Gotta fight to get motivation even if I just wanna lay down and sleep

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    MidnightSarrow posted a new activity comment 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    In reply to: MidnightSarrow posted an update Haven’t been on here awhile, here’s what’s newHad an argument(I guess) w/ my bf monday night, thought I was gonna lose him cuz i never seen him that mad. But at the same time I’m […] View

    Don’t worry about my bf, he was having a shitty day, everything is fine
    She says she could see about classes being moved to 6-7 but idk
    What they wanna do is get me better anti depressants, because I struggle with strong depression. I don’t want them because it hasn’t gotten worse and in fact has been better due to now people actually know…[Read more]

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Also, my braces got an update, theres bends in some of them to set my teeth right

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 7 months, 2 weeks ago

    Haven’t been on here awhile, here’s what’s new

    Had an argument(I guess) w/ my bf monday night, thought I was gonna lose him cuz i never seen him that mad. But at the same time I’m glad he feels something other than love towards me (thank goodness!!)
    Figured out i adore pot-stickers(dumplings), in fact i’m eating some now
    Have had several…[Read more]

    • I would try to talk to your boyfriend calmly and openly @midnightsarrow, remember to always love each other and be there for each other, you can work through any problems in your relationship and make things stronger between both of you, everything will work out for you, don’t let your struggles break you down, you will find a wonderful job and…[Read more]

    • Don’t worry about my bf, he was having a shitty day, everything is fine
      She says she could see about classes being moved to 6-7 but idk
      What they wanna do is get me better anti depressants, because I struggle with strong depression. I don’t want them because it hasn’t gotten worse and in fact has been better due to now people actually know…[Read more]

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 8 months, 1 week ago

    Then i had to get her cereal

    • Always be the loving, kind and caring sibling to her that you are @midnightsarrow, have a fantastic day and keep being awesome, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    MidnightSarrow posted an update 8 months, 1 week ago

    Sisters means : shes sitting across from me and i have my feet on her back
    She laying on her stomach watching a movie

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