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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update Do you ever just…have fake thoughts and thoughts all the time, but it’s honestly so agonizing because I don’t know if I think it’s fake or not, or if I think it’s fake then that […] View

    You deserve happy and positive thoughts that make you feel amazing @messenger, try to stay upbeat and focus on all the things that put a bright smile on your face, you can do it, I want the best for you, believe in yourself and never give up, remember to keep being the fabulous person that you are, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I’m overthinking. Once again, But I just feel so apathetic, even though I clearly am still resisting against the bad thoughts. View

    Don’t let the bad thoughts get you down @messenger, focus on being positive and upbeat, everything will be OK, remember to keep shining and keep smiling, you are an extraordinary and fantastic human-being, you will make it, never give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I’ve run out of emotions. Sometimes you need emotions to validate that your thoughts are true. But since I’ve used it all up, it just huts even more. View

    Do your best to keep your head up @messenger, don’t let the tough moments get you down, you will overcome and so many more brighter and better days will be ahead, you will beat all the hurt and pain and you will come out so much stronger, remember to always believe in yourself and your abilities to make great things happen, you can do it, keep…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I feel so apathetic now, maybe because I felt so much that I’ve ran out. I don’t know why. I don’t always like being overemotional, but at least having emotions validates my thoughts. […] View

    Do your best to focus on being the best person that you can be @messenger, everyone has emotions and it’s OK to have them and to be able to vent them out when you need too, I believe in you, I’m always here if you ever need someone to talk too or if you ever need to unload, feel free to message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update Okay, my tiny problem is not tiny anymore. It’s growing. View

    Don’t let your struggles beat you @messenger, you will make it through the difficult times and come out so much stronger, hold your head up high and focus on getting yourself to a better place, remember you are a extraordinary individual who deserves all the best that life has to offer, great things will happen, everything will be OK, show…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I think I’ve finally gotten through the worst. I still have this teeny little problem bothering me, though. View

    Try to not let anything get you down @messenger, you will make it through tough times and come out so much stronger, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and focus on making yourself feel more positive, upbeat and happy, fantastic things will happen to you, show everyone how truly amazing you are, you can do it, believe in yourself and…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I feel calm, once again. But it kind of terrifies me too, being calm — either I have accepted those bad thoughts I’m thinking as true (and I am absolutely not accepting them, this […] View

    Please don’t let bad thoughts get you down @messenger, you are a wonderful person who deserves to feel positive and amazing, you will beat all the bad times and come out so much stronger, things will be OK and everything will work out, focus on all the things that make you content, great things will happen to you, hold your head up high and show…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I’m feeling more calm. Maybe because I’m sick and I took medicine. But I am still overthinking. View

    Try to stay upbeat and take care of yourself @messenger, remember you are a wonderful person and a ray of sunshine, I want to see you smiling and living each day to the fullest, keep being the extraordinary and brilliant individual that you are, things will work out and everything will be OK, keep going and never give up, there is always hope,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update Whelp. My problem strikes back again, even worse. It really is part of a even larger problem though. It’s just that I’m too emotionally irrational and I always overthink. View

    Please don’t let sadness and darkness get you down @messenger, you are a brilliant and incredible person who will beat all your struggles and come out so much stronger, everything will be OK and things will work out, hold your head up high and be as positive as you can, great things will happen to you, you are a fighter who will overcome,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update At least I got one problem solved, or at least 60-80% of it solved. But I’m still overthinking. View

    Don’t let your struggles get you down @messenger, you will make it through all the darkness and come out so much stronger, hold your head up high and be as upbeat as you can, things will work out and everything will go your way, show everyone how incredible you are, you will win all your battles, please be kind to yourself and keep going forward,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update Maybe it’s just the effect of the tea, but I feel stronger. I hope that my spirit lasts, and that it won’t come back again. View

    Keep going and don’t give up @messenger, be stronger and keep smiling, you will make it, remember you are such a lovely person, do believe in yourself and stay fabulous, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I was doing really well yesterday. Now it just comes back, again, possibly worse than ever. View

    Don’t let darkness and sadness get you down @messenger, you will make it through the difficult times and come out so much stronger, everything will be OK and things will work out, hold your head up high and stay as upbeat as you can, please be kind to yourself, remember you are a ray of sunshine, believe in yourself and keep going forward with…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I’m overthinking way too much. My brain often makes me think weird or horrible thoughts, as a defense mechanism. I admit, it does protect me well against all possibilities. But I […] View

    Don’t let bad thoughts or your struggles get you down @messenger, focus on the things that put a bright smile on your face and on things that give you hope, you will make it through difficult times and come out so much stronger, hold your head up high and keep being the incredible individual that you are, remember to always be kind to yourself…[Read more]

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    Hayden posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I feel guilt. A lot of guilt. Because so many people have much more terrible experiences than I ever had. But I don’t do anything, because I don’t know how to help. I’m afraid that I […] View

    Hey, @messenger. It’s okay.

    Whether somebody’s had worse experiences than you or not, it doesn’t make your experiences any less important.
    And if you don’t know how to help someone, that’s okay. It isn’t your job to save every single soul. Sometimes, just being there is enough.
    It never hurts to try; trying will do more than not. But…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I feel guilt. A lot of guilt. Because so many people have much more terrible experiences than I ever had. But I don’t do anything, because I don’t know how to help. I’m afraid that I […] View

    Don’t feel guilty @messenger, I’m sure you will help so many people with kind and lovely comments, just do your best to be there for people as a shoulder to cry on or vent too, you can do it, message me anytime if you want to chat, my inbox is always open :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I like being a sensitive person. I like that part about me. But it means I worry so much about the little things and I always think too much that it gets painful. And I don’t like […] View

    Don’t let your struggles get you down @messenger, it’s OK to be sensitive but remember to focus on things that make you smile, I want to see you feeling good and being the extraordinary individual that you are, things will go well and everything will go your way, hold your head up high and don’t give up, you will make it, I’m always here if…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I wonder if I’m so tired I can’t feel anything, or not feeling any emotion right now at all means I’m heartless. Really, I don’t know who I am anymore. It sucks that I don’t seem to […] View

    Please don’t let anything get you down @messenger, you are such a fabulous and amazing person who deserves all the brightness and hope in the world, things will work out and everything will be OK, hold your head up high and show everyone how truly incredible you are, great things will happen to you, be kind to yourself and see yourself in an…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update There are advantages and disadvantages to being highly sensitive. I am very empathetic, but I also react emotionally stronger than other people would. That means some things that do […] View

    Nothing wrong with being sensitive @messenger, you are a wonderful and kind person who deserves all the best and all the happiness in the world, always be the lovely individual that you are, you can do it, don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update I’m improving, but it feels as though it’s getting worse… View

    Keep improving and keep making yourself upbeat, happier and positive @messenger, you are such a fabulous and brilliant individual who deserves to feel amazing, don’t let anything stand in your way or get your down, hold your head up high and focus on all the good things in your life, I want to see you living each day to the fullest and being the…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: cynicalgravy posted an update It never ends. It comes in cycles. Each worse and worse. Until finally something happens, and it’s the end of it. And end of everything for me. View

    Please don’t let sadness get you down @messenger, you are a survivor who has been through so much, things may seem difficult but they will change for the better, try to focus on all the things that bring brightness, positivity and hope into your life, I want to see you feeling good and being the extra-ordinary human-being that you know you can…[Read more]

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