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    Oli posted an update 3 days, 3 hours ago

    IT’S ALMOST HERE!!!!!!!!!!! SO SUPER EXCITED EVERYONE!!!!!!!! :D (yes I’m a HUGE James Bond fan), hope everyone on BT is doing great, remember I will always be here for each and every member of this beautiful community, the BT community means so much to me :) <3 (hugs and love to you all)

    Mood : Excited
    • awesome Oli I am so glad you are excited & happy about this!! it makes me happy! we are always here for you too <3

    • Awww thank you so much @invincible, I am so very excited for the new Bond film coming out in April 2020, hope you are OK sweetie, please know I will always be here for you beautiful angel Cecelia, I want to see you feeling truly happy because you are absolutely so kind, incredible and amazing, please know you can always talk to me about anything…[Read more]

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    Oli and Profile picture of JSWAGJSWAG are now friends 1 month, 1 week ago

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    Oli posted an update 2 months, 3 weeks ago

    So frustrated and annoyed with the spam here on BT, it is ruining this beautiful community, seriously there has to be a way to make it stop, I’m going to put an idea out for all members on BT to consider, I would be willing to become moderator or admin on BT if needed because the moderators and admins seem to have deserted this place, so just…[Read more]

    Mood : Frustrated
    • I can relate to your frustration, Oli.
      I believe the moderators are doing the best they can to solve problems quickly. I think it’s probably hard to manage the site with so many visitors. I was just thinking that Blahtherapy is such a big support system for me that whenever the chat is down I feel a higher level of anxiety. However I am trying to…[Read more]

    • Thank you for your reply @lelslessing, I just want BT to always be a place of kindness, love and compassion where we all support each other, I hope something gets done about all the spam, it has to be removed so this beautiful community can always be a place where we support and help each other, hope you are having a wonderful day, keep being the…[Read more]

    • Thank you Oli, always good to hear from you! Be well!

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    Oli posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    “Oli, for a man of 28 years old, you are wasting your life”
    I was told this today by my father, I’m so pathetic and stupid honestly, I’m a failure of a human-being and a worthless son who is an utter screw-up and disappointment, I’m better off dead, seriously if I had a gun, I would blow my brains out, I give up, life will always be bleak,…[Read more]

    Mood : Depressed
    • @Oliver

      I’m so sorry that happened, Oli. That’s a horrible thing that your father said to you.
      I know you’ve been going through this for such a long time, and for an amazing person such as yourself, you deserve so much better. This life is completely unfair to you.

      But it will never be worth giving up. I don’t ever want to see you take the…[Read more]

    • YOU. ARE. NOT. A. FAILURE.

      I’ve never taken you for a liar, @oliver. And yet you tell such lies. Never give up. You are not alone. Your father does not understand the struggles you go through, and that’s why he said that. He’s trying to motivate you.

      Never feel unloved.

    • Oli, I may not know you too well, but I know you well enough to say that you are not a failer. You are on here helping people when they need help, and you are on here to talk to someone when they are down. Tbh, Oli, you have helped me when I was upset and I want to do that same for you. If you need to talk more about this or anything else, just Dm me.

    • Oli you are terrific honestly, I know those are harsh words from your father, and it is hard to ignore. But sometimes even in general, the family are toxic you should not pay attention to what they say and make yourself feel like this. You are a wonderful and kind human being and trust me in today’s time it’s extremely rare to find such caring…[Read more]

    • If you’re living your life according to opinion of other people then I’m sorry to say you will always find your self disappointed, Instead of thinking, Oh my parents don’t love me Instead think about this,.. If you father can shun you like that then what is stopping other people doing the same or worse…. Stop looking for validation – The only…[Read more]

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    Deadandnowayback posted an update 7 months, 3 weeks ago

    I can cut and cut to numb the pain but it wont go away my razor is like a pain killer except it causes pain, I’ve learned that the pain never goes away, you can only make room for it. But what if I have no more room to make for the pain, I’ve been in pain all of my life I don’t want to be in pain anymore I can’t handle it. Few people…[Read more]

    • Please don’t harm or kill yourself @whyamialive, things may seem hard but everything will be OK and things will change for the better, focus on making each day wonderful and surround yourself with happiness, remember it’s not about how many times you get knocked down in life, it’s about how many times you are able to get back up on your feet,…[Read more]

    • Thank you Oli

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