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    Vena posted an update 4 days, 16 hours ago

    I have a question about Borderline Personality Disorder. So, I know that a common symptom is an intense attachment and hatred for the people in your life, like friends and partners. But is there a similar thing with your interests? Like, you hyper-fixate so much on a tv show or book or whatever you love, and then later, you find a flaw with it, or…[Read more]

    • Yes that is a BPD thing to do. Not everyone will do it, obviously, but that is something that is not too uncommon.

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    Vena replied to the forum topic The Ruin a Wish Foundation. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 4 days, 16 hours ago

    Granted!! But as soon as word gets out about your intelligence, you are now forced to forever answer everyone’s dumb questions and everyone bothers you with their personal problems.

    I wish I could breathe in space!

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    Vena posted a new activity comment 4 days, 16 hours ago

    In reply to: Vena posted an update I’ve been struggling with something for a while now. And I’m not sure what to call it. Is it an eating disorder? Or something else. Because everything I’ve looked up about eating disorders […] View

    I’m pretty bad at taking care of myself, but occasionally I do get motivated to clean the house. And yeah, I do have depression. I’ve never gotten a proper diagnosis, but I’ve been aware of the symptoms for years now, so there’s no doubt in my mind. And so that’s the thing. I don’t know if my eating avoidance and lack of appetite is only…[Read more]

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    Vena posted an update 6 days, 13 hours ago

    I’ve been struggling with something for a while now. And I’m not sure what to call it. Is it an eating disorder? Or something else. Because everything I’ve looked up about eating disorders make it seem like you have to be starving yourself or actively controlling what you eat, or throwing up, because you want to loose weight and be skinny. But…[Read more]

    • Please eat and don’t starve yourself @masquerader000, you are a good person who deserves to feel healthy, happy and positive, do take care of yourself positively, emotionally and mentally, do eat decent portions of food and always be kind to yourself, look in the mirror and smile at the amazing person you see staring back at you, you can do it,…[Read more]

    • The issues you have about eating and food might be realated to some other cause, and not food itself. Because of your description, it appears that something affects your mood in a negative way, and that makes you not want to eat and not enjoying food. Finding the triggering cause would be a good start. It would be advisable to get a medical check…[Read more]

    • @masquerader000 is this only about food? If it applies to other tasks, like cleaning and other self mainteinance chores, you can consider if it’s depression

    • I’m pretty bad at taking care of myself, but occasionally I do get motivated to clean the house. And yeah, I do have depression. I’ve never gotten a proper diagnosis, but I’ve been aware of the symptoms for years now, so there’s no doubt in my mind. And so that’s the thing. I don’t know if my eating avoidance and lack of appetite is only…[Read more]

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    Vena replied to the forum topic Use It In A Sentence in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 6 months, 1 week ago

    Does it matter what color the building is, because I just like the restaurant nearby that gave me a free rotisserie chicken!

    Flamingo

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    Vena replied to the forum topic The Ruin a Wish Foundation. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 6 months, 1 week ago

    Granted! But now your beard is so soft that everyone won’t stop touching your face all the time! Super annoying!

    I wish I had $1,000!!!!!

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    Vena posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    How do I tell my parents that not only do I have severe depression, I also want anti depressants? I just don’t know how to get them to believe me.

    • I would talk to them about how you feel @masquerader000, hopefully your parents will listen and support you in finding the right help that will benefit you going forward Vena, smile and know you are a wonderful person who deserves happiness, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @masquerader000 have you had any appointment with a health professional in that area? Telling your parents, nothing wrong with that. You shouldn’t “throw” the word “depression” cause many people don’t get it, but explain to them how you truly need help. About antidepressants… take them in the LAST case. Many people get addicted and many of…[Read more]

    • @masquerader000 have you had any appointment with a health professional in that area? Telling your parents, nothing wrong with that. You shouldn’t “throw” the word “depression” cause many people don’t get it, but explain to them how you truly need help. About antidepressants… take them in the LAST case. Many people get addicted and many of…[Read more]

    • Have you been diagnosed with depression?
      I’ve never told my parents about my mental health and how I’m taking anti depressants. My dad found out from a friend so I have spoken to him about it. I wrote many letters that I planned on giving to my parents, maybe you could try that? Sometimes it’s easier to write everything down than to speak it…[Read more]

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    Vena replied to the forum topic If Life Gives you Lemons….. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 1 year, 10 months ago

    If life gives you Rodents of Unusual Size, try not to be tackled by them.

    If life gives you an election vote…

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    Vena posted an update 2 years, 1 month ago

    I’m having trouble asking my parents for antidepressants. I’m going away for two weeks so I’m planning on asking my mom when I get back. I thought things were getting better, I was being really productive, I was working, drawing, worrying, making money, I wasn’t musing on how my suicide would go. But recently, I’ve been filled with so much…[Read more]

    • Let your family know in a calm way that you want help and that getting better is your goal @masquerader000, they really should be supportive and not be horrible to you, do your best to focus on getting yourself to a good place mentally and emotionally Vena, try your absolute best to stay positive and keep going forward, you can do it, I’m always…[Read more]

    • Unfortunately the word depression has been misused so often because everything is relative. Sad and depression can be mixed by those who haven’t experienced it either in themselves or in others close to them. I’m sorry to hear that this is causing you so much distress. I don’t know where you are but maybe you can get a professional opinion on…[Read more]

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    Vena posted an update 2 years, 3 months ago

    Been so long since I last was on here… So, to update! I told my mom that I was depressed and that I’d like anti-depressants. My mom refuses to get some for me and my sibling because she doesn’t believe they work. She has no taken in the habit of using “depressed” as a synonym for “sad” or “upset” even tho I told her not to. My family…[Read more]

    • awesome, good on you :)

    • Your family really should try to support and help you @masquerader000, you are a fabulous person who deserves happiness and love, remember to not let anything or anything bring you down, I would do your best to focus on having a good trip and creating tons of special moments, you will be OK, smile and keep going forward, you can do it, I’m always…[Read more]

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    Vena posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago

    @neo33 Yeah, I’ve gotten pretty bad about my habits. I’ve been biting my skin, stabbing myself with my nails, and lately I haven’t been eating much. Like, I feel sick at everything so I know I should eat, but I go to bed without food and I don’t eat dinner or breakfast. I’ve lost 5 pounds in the last month. None of my family members care…[Read more]

    • Please don’t harm yourself @masquerader000, do something that makes you feel good and that puts a bright smile on your face, look after yourself and take care, please eat, I want to see you happy, healthy and feeling on top of the world, everything will be OK, keep going forward and never give up, be as upbeat and as positive as you can, you will…[Read more]

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    Vena posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago

    How to help with suicidal thoughts? Also, I’ve also considered selfharm. Whenever I get bad, I plan out with my kitchen knives. And I bite my skin and stab myself with my nails. I need help.

    • Hey, I can help you if you let me. please message me as soon as you can.

    • Please don’t let bad thoughts get you down @masquerader000, try to focus on happier and positive things, you will win all your battles, try to do something that puts a smile on your face and that makes you feel content, I want to see you being the fabulous person that you are, I don’t want to see you in any pain, you will make it, believe in…[Read more]

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    Vena asked “Cat Health Problems?2 years, 11 months ago

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    Vena replied to the forum topic The Ruin a Wish Foundation. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 2 years, 11 months ago

    Granted, but because you’re too tall, you can’t fit through any doors and no clothes fit you.

    I wish I could eat as many donuts as I want without getting fat.

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    Vena replied to the forum topic The name game in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 2 years, 11 months ago

    Arai

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    Vena replied to the forum topic If Life Gives you Lemons….. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 2 years, 11 months ago

    If life gives you a remote control, change the channel to something you like and blare the music!

    If life gives you a voice,

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    Vena posted a new activity comment 2 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: Vena posted an update I really need someone right now. I’m going through some issues with my family, and I’d really like to talk to someone who will accept me. View

    Thanks hun, if you’re interested in what happened, you can read it here. http://blahtherapy.com/questions/i-had-a-huge-falling-out-with-my-family/

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    Vena asked “I had a huge falling out with my family.2 years, 11 months ago

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    Vena posted an update 2 years, 11 months ago

    I really need someone right now. I’m going through some issues with my family, and I’d really like to talk to someone who will accept me.

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