Vena
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Please eat and don’t starve yourself @masquerader000, you are a good person who deserves to feel healthy, happy and positive, do take care of yourself positively, emotionally and mentally, do eat decent portions of food and always be kind to yourself, look in the mirror and smile at the amazing person you see staring back at you, you can do it,…[Read more]
The issues you have about eating and food might be realated to some other cause, and not food itself. Because of your description, it appears that something affects your mood in a negative way, and that makes you not want to eat and not enjoying food. Finding the triggering cause would be a good start. It would be advisable to get a medical check…[Read more]
@masquerader000 is this only about food? If it applies to other tasks, like cleaning and other self mainteinance chores, you can consider if it’s depression
I’m pretty bad at taking care of myself, but occasionally I do get motivated to clean the house. And yeah, I do have depression. I’ve never gotten a proper diagnosis, but I’ve been aware of the symptoms for years now, so there’s no doubt in my mind. And so that’s the thing. I don’t know if my eating avoidance and lack of appetite is only…[Read more]
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I would talk to them about how you feel @masquerader000, hopefully your parents will listen and support you in finding the right help that will benefit you going forward Vena, smile and know you are a wonderful person who deserves happiness, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone
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@masquerader000 have you had any appointment with a health professional in that area? Telling your parents, nothing wrong with that. You shouldn’t “throw” the word “depression” cause many people don’t get it, but explain to them how you truly need help. About antidepressants… take them in the LAST case. Many people get addicted and many of…[Read more]
@masquerader000 have you had any appointment with a health professional in that area? Telling your parents, nothing wrong with that. You shouldn’t “throw” the word “depression” cause many people don’t get it, but explain to them how you truly need help. About antidepressants… take them in the LAST case. Many people get addicted and many of…[Read more]
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Let your family know in a calm way that you want help and that getting better is your goal @masquerader000, they really should be supportive and not be horrible to you, do your best to focus on getting yourself to a good place mentally and emotionally Vena, try your absolute best to stay positive and keep going forward, you can do it, I’m always…[Read more]
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awesome, good on you
Your family really should try to support and help you @masquerader000, you are a fabulous person who deserves happiness and love, remember to not let anything or anything bring you down, I would do your best to focus on having a good trip and creating tons of special moments, you will be OK, smile and keep going forward, you can do it, I’m always…[Read more]
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Please don’t harm yourself @masquerader000, do something that makes you feel good and that puts a bright smile on your face, look after yourself and take care, please eat, I want to see you happy, healthy and feeling on top of the world, everything will be OK, keep going forward and never give up, be as upbeat and as positive as you can, you will…[Read more]
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Hey, I can help you if you let me. please message me as soon as you can.
Please don’t let bad thoughts get you down @masquerader000, try to focus on happier and positive things, you will win all your battles, try to do something that puts a smile on your face and that makes you feel content, I want to see you being the fabulous person that you are, I don’t want to see you in any pain, you will make it, believe in…[Read more]
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Thanks hun, if you’re interested in what happened, you can read it here. http://blahtherapy.com/questions/i-had-a-huge-falling-out-with-my-family/
Please don’t let your family be horrible to you @masquerader000, they should treat you with love, care and comfort Vena, I’m always here if you need someone to talk too, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone
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Yes that is a BPD thing to do. Not everyone will do it, obviously, but that is something that is not too uncommon.