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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Don’t ever settle for someone toxic. Just got rid of a toxic person in my life. I deserve better. View

    You are so right @marikofujimoto, do get rid of toxic people Mariko and surround yourself with love, positivity and compassion, you truly deserve caring people in your life sweetie who will always stick by you and be there for you, I want to see you feeling fantastic because you are a beautiful angel Mariko, you will lead a wonderful life hun,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I don’t believe in love. When you wait years for someone…. you stop believing. I only have myself. View

    You are such a beautiful, special and incredible angel who truly deserves love and happiness in her life @marikofujimoto, don’t give up on finding your soulmate Mariko, one day you will meet your knight in shining armour sweetie, someone special will make you so happy, a wonderful partner will come your way Mariko, stay positive hun and never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Welcome to all new members. If you ever need help, you can always tag me or PM me View

    It’s great to see all the new members here on BT @marikofujimoto, I second what Mariko has said, if any new members ever need to chat or vent, they can always inbox me or any of the lovely, sweet and kind angels like Mariko, we will always be here to support you :) <3 (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update :o they activated new members and questions back! Omg I’m shocked View

    Indeed @marikofujimoto and @m1s1m3, it’s wonderful to see the member registration page up and questions back, hopefully BT will become active again and this wonderful community will continue to thrive and grow, this community truly needs more kind and beautiful angels like yourselves Mariko and Marta, compassionate individuals who make this site…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update There comes a point in life that you’re so done with hurting and fake people, that you just want to be loved for once. View

    You are such a lovely, beautiful and kind angel who truly deserves to feel loved, appreciated, cared for and valued @marikofujimoto, get rid of toxic people Mariko and surround yourself with all the joy and happiness in the world, @m1s1m3 is so right, the BT community will always be here for you and so will I Mariko, always remember to look for…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Self care is the most important thing ever. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Take care of yourself. Love yourself. Even if it means distancing yourself from others. View

    You are so right @marikofujimoto, it is important to look after yourself physically, emotionally and mentally, remember to always do what makes you happy when you are doing self care, watch something that makes you smile, read, draw, go out some place fun, eat your favourite food, spend time with people you love or with your adorable pet, do have…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I’ve been through alot in my life. Abuse, mental health, bullying… However lately I notice alot of hatred towards men. So, as someone who has suffered I want to say that yes, there are […] View

    Always focus on the good in the world @marikofujimoto, help those in need and shine a light on all the heart-warming and positive things that go on Mariko, don’t let the negativity get you down, you are correct sweetie, there is much bad in the world but like you said, spread the love, compassion, empathy and hope, you are a survivor Mariko,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update The more time goes by , I wonder if real friends and love even exist. View

    Everyone deserves true love and wonderful friends around them @marikofujimoto, you do too Mariko, I want you to know that I care about you and love you, the BT community will always be here to support you too Mariko, any person would be so lucky to have you as a friend or partner sweetie, you will meet your soulmate and knight in shining armour…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I know people have it worst. But I can not handle my weight gain. I feel extremly disgusting and ugly. View

    People having it worse does not make your feelings any less valid, Mariko. You have the right to express yourself without feeling bad about it. About the weight gain, iI’ve been there myself, and it’s something that can be very distressing. Remember that every flaw that you see when you look at youtself in the mirror, it’s your brain being over…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I know people have it worst. But I can not handle my weight gain. I feel extremly disgusting and ugly. View

    Please love and embrace every part of yourself @marikofujimoto, you are beautiful, perfect and incredible inside and out Mariko, look in the mirror and smile at the amazing angel you see looking back at you, your body is your temple Mariko, remember to always be kind to yourself and never give up sweetie, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Maybe I’m being lame but I keep coming to blah thanks to 3 people: @oliver , @m1s1m3 and @invincible . You three always give amazing advice, super sweet and kind words, and are super […] View

    And just how super sweet it’s this? That brightened my day Mariko, thank you for such kind words! I’m happy to be here and be able to help as much as I can. I personally think that if everyone of us, within our posibilities, were more kind to each other, we’d make everyone’s life a bit better. You are all amazing and so nice, @marikofujimoto, [Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I don’t feel ok about myself, but one thing that helps in chinese class. Everyone is SO nice, actually nice. The teacher is 100% wonderful and explains very well. My negative thoughts go […] View

    It’s so wonderful that you found a source of positiveness and happiness Mariko! Spending your time doing something you enjoy it’s great, but it’s even better when this activity brings you peace, valuable experiences and people who cares about you. Keep doing such an amazing work @marikofujimoto, step by step you’ll achieve your goals. Never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Maybe I’m being lame but I keep coming to blah thanks to 3 people: @oliver , @m1s1m3 and @invincible . You three always give amazing advice, super sweet and kind words, and are super […] View

    Glad we can be there to help and support you @marikofujimoto, you are such a compassionate, kind and lovely angel who makes BT such a wonderful place too Mariko, you inspire so many of us with wise, insightful and honest advice, you are all beautiful Mariko, @m1s1m3 and @invincible, this community needs more angels like Marta, Mariko and Cecelia,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update I don’t feel ok about myself, but one thing that helps in chinese class. Everyone is SO nice, actually nice. The teacher is 100% wonderful and explains very well. My negative thoughts go […] View

    It’s great to see that your Chinese class is helping you feel positive, upbeat and happy @marikofujimoto, keep studying and working hard sweetie, you will become fluent in Chinese soon Mariko, don’t let negative thoughts get you down hun, always surround yourself with love and things that put a bright smile on your face, remember you are an…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update What do I even do with this depression? It’s going really badly again. Thinking of going into the uni services to ask for help but… gives me anxiety. View

    I’m sorry to read you’re going through this, Mariko. Sometimes asking for help can be very distressing, so it might be helpful to think about it as another similar activity you do on a daily basis. People at the uni services are there to listen and help you, just as we are here for you. You can try to think of them as the BT comunity. Also, if…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update What do I even do with this depression? It’s going really badly again. Thinking of going into the uni services to ask for help but… gives me anxiety. View

    Please don’t let depression, anxiety and sadness get you down @marikofujimoto, you are such a beautiful, special and amazing angel who deserves to feel positive, happy and upbeat, do reach out for help and support when you need it sweetie, I want to see you lead a truly fabulous life Mariko, get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out in a good…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update Today I was reading a diary that I keep since 2011, where I write everytime my mood is at it’s worse, which has really helped me coping with bad feelings. On an entry from mid 2011, I […] View

    Thank you so much guys! <3 You are always so supportive and kind to me, I feel very grateful to be able to count on you @oliver, @invincible, @marikofujimoto, @justsomeguy10. Please take care and have a great day, you all deserve it!!

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Anyone here does art? Draw, sing, write, etc? View

    I don’t @marikofujimoto, but that’s only because I’m horrible at most activities, those 3 included, but I’m sure you are a talented artist, singer and writer sweetie, do create something wonderful and share it with the world Mariko, you can do it hun, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Maybe is selfish, maybe is entitled, but all I want is somebody to be proud of me. Don’t be embarassed to be with me, to take pics with me, to talk to me. Tell me I’m ok. View

    I’m proud of you @marikofujimoto, you have been there for me for years on BT Mariko, you have been a positive, compassionate and kind anchor during the dark moments of depression and loneliness for me Mariko, I am so grateful to have someone as wonderful as you in my life sweetie, please know you matter to me and to the BT community Mariko, I…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: mariko posted an update Sometimes words are not enough. Sometimes you need to see action. View

    We should always support each other with kind words and actions @marikofujimoto, be there for others by letting them know verbally that you care, but also show them physically how much you want to be a positive and comforting presence in the lives of others, you are so compassionate in every single way Mariko, keep inspiring others with warmth and…[Read more]

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