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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update do they drain my happiness and my energy, or do I willingly give it to them? View

    I think it would be a mix of both. There’s people who are indeed very energy draining, and sometimes we give too much of it without even noticing. Try to focus on yourself when you feel that you’re out of energy, and take the rest of that you need. Take care Cecilia!

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    Marta joined the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 4 years ago

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    Marta replied to the forum topic Answer a question, ask a question. in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Arcade 4 years ago

    The best thing about growing old to me would be watching yourself growing as a human being. That over the years, all the experiences you’ve lived, made you the person you are, and to be proud of that.

    What do […]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update Mental note: I am NOT going to spend on anything but food (unless necessary) because I need to save up for my Japan study trip that’s happening in September. View

    That’s a fantastic goal! Believe in yourself, work hard and you’ll achieve it sooner than you think.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Wow … 3 days until my birthday View

    I hope you have a fantastic birthday Cecilia!! I wish you all the happiness and that your surrounded by your loved ones. Hugs!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update It’s not encouraging or motivating when all you do is point out the negative. View

    I strongly agree with your statement. To encourage somebody else to do something that they’ve proposed to achieve, we must show them our support and positivity. Try to show this attitude to those who are negative, this way they might learn from you and star being more positive. You can lead the change :)

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Flameaura posted an update I’m so salty about Entrepreneurship class. My classmate was voted to be an ”idea champion” (the group leader), he could pick any 3 people in the class as his groupmates. He didn’t choose […] View

    Sometimes your team meates won’t think like you, or won’t take into consideration your opinions or contributions. That’s one of the negative sides about work groups. I don’t know if that’s a team from your work place or highschool/college, but I think it won’t be a permanent work organization. Try not to think too much about it, since that…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I am not going ok and I am starting to not even pretend that I am. Hopefully this will go away soon, because I don’t like feeling like this, so I am holding on to hope! Which is good. View

    Pretending to be ok 24/7 is one of the most exhausting things that anyone can do. You don’t have to pretend Cecilia, if you don’t feel ok it’s perfectly fine. It’s good to read that you’re holding on to hope! As you said, this feeling will go away and you’ll feel better again. Don’t give up and keep fighting!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Just_a_guy posted an update Life is like a jigsaw puzzle … people like me can only help you in finding and connecting the puzzle pieces … but only you can complete the puzzle ❤️ View

    All of us have our own puzzle, and sometimes it’s difficult to solve them on our own. Like you said @1hassan1, you are the only one who can solve it, but we must help each other do it. Very positive message :) !!!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Abby DM posted an update How you make others feel about themselves, says a lot about you – B. View

    So true. This would be a better world I all of us were more kind with each other.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I’m so alone in this world, nobody cares about me, I’m always going to be this lost, pathetic and sad failure, it doesn’t get better for Oli, he is forever stuck in this hole of depression and […] View

    We all believe in you Oli, you are capable of going through this. Remember all the beautiful words that you give us every day, because you too deserve them, all of them and even more. Right now you might feel weak and hopeless, but we are here to give you the support and streght you need. Do not give up, you can with this!!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: hwky75 posted an update I don’t know if anyone will see this but I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m just frustrated and sad that my anxiety and depression isn’t getting better. It just feels like nothing matters […] View

    Depression and anxiety are like two big rocks that are resting on your back, and they get heavier every day, until the weigh is too much to carry. But nothing it’s forever in this world, and those hards times you’re going through will end too. You’ll get out of this, give yourself all the time you need right now and when you feel stronger, keep…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update I can’t help but feel upset when I see my friend who I’ve known for a while, who was so similar to me and growing to be mature – just completely throw everything away for a severely […] View

    It’s frustrating to see how people you love makes questionable decisions that might not end very well for them. Sometimes you can not help them, since they will not listen either wanting your help. But in the end, when they find themselves in the bottom, they finally see by themselves how bad things were going and start to rethink all the bad…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I just want to give up, I have no one in this world, I’m so sick of trying, everyone leaves or abandons me eventually, depression and loneliness are the only things I have in this numb ’life’ […] View

    There are periods of time in our lives when everythings seems surrounded by darkness and despair, and we can’t see any way out of it. It’s going to be hard, but nothing lasts forever, and these hard times you’re going through will end too. @Oli you are a wonderful human being, full of kindness, compassion and empathy. You’ve helped so, so many…[Read more]

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update It just would be nice if you had faith in me and trusted my skill. I have enough confidence to know I’m not going to mess up. View

    It can be very frustrating when other people don’t have faith in you, but you’ve pointed out the important thing in the matter: you trust in yourself and know you are capable of achieving your goals. Trust your own strenght Cecilia, because if you believe in yourself, you’ll achieve anything you aim for. You are capable of anything!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: ErmaAnne posted an update Once again, spammers galore. This site has gone down the tubes. It totally sucks now. View

    Certainly, it is a pity that there’s no more activity, and that it’s beginninig to be invaded by spammers and bots. Fortunately, there are still good people you can count on here. It’s a matter of having patience.

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update Doing okay. I hope things get better, though.Hope everyone is doing well – have a fantastic week! View

    Nice to read that things are doing okay for you @invincible. I bet everything will get better soon, and you can always reach us here if you need anything. Have a fantastic week you too!

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Marta posted an update I hope everyone is having a good day! If things are not going as expected, remember that tomorrow will be another day, full of new possibilities. We are here if you need a talk, and stay […] View

    Hope you had a great day too @Oli! Thanks for your kind words, as always :) . You’re the one true angel here on BT, without you this won’t be the same. Stay strong and keep being the amazing and kind human being that you are (hugs!!).

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    Marta posted an update 4 years, 1 month ago

    I hope everyone is having a good day! If things are not going as expected, remember that tomorrow will be another day, full of new possibilities. We are here if you need a talk, and stay strong everybody!

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    • Hope you are having a fabulous day @m1s1m3, keep being the kind, compassionate, sweet and lovely angel that you are Marta, you are so supportive to all of us in the BT community, BT is so lucky and grateful to have someone like you here, smile and stay beautiful Marta, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

    • Hope you had a great day too @Oli! Thanks for your kind words, as always :) . You’re the one true angel here on BT, without you this won’t be the same. Stay strong and keep being the amazing and kind human being that you are (hugs!!).

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 4 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: justkeepswimming posted an update I want to be the type of person who just doesn’t give a fuck about what other people think, but I’m the exact opposite. I care about everything people think no matter who they […] View

    We usually think that other people are really focused on ourselves. When I was younger I used to think that I had to please everyone so I could like them. With every year I grow older, the more I realize that other people are too worried about their own lives to be focused on me. Of course, there always be some of them that will talk about you,…[Read more]

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