Cecelia you’va taken a very important, and brave step: leave a relation/friendship that was damaging your health, and happiness. I hope your family finally realize that your problems are important, and that they have to be there for you. It’s not that they do not care, it’s just that sometimes it takes a little bit of time for some people to…[Read more]

I couldn’t say it better. I do agree with you Mariko, we must take care of ourselves. Of course we have to take care of each other, and help people in need. Although that doesn’t mean we have to let our health be consumed so everyone else can have theirs restored. So, just as you said, never forget to take care and love yourselves!

That’s very sweet! You’re always so kind and helpful Cecelia ♥

To love and to be loved by family. Such a great feeling. So happy for you Cecelia!! <3

It’s so wonderful you are surrounded by a caring family, and friends, who you appreciate Cecilia! Ponder about those relationaships that make you feel sad, and if you conclude it’s the best for your health and happiness, go for it. It’s hard to take separate ways, although it’s even worse to continue on a friendship/relationship that it’s…[Read more]

I think as time goes by, we become more experienced about relationships, feelings, and emotions. In the beginning we might consider everyone as a friend, but as we grow older we become able to spot toxic relationships, temporary relationships, colleagues, etc. Some people say we get more “demanding”. I personally think we acquiere a better…[Read more]

That’s an amazing and a necessary way of thinking Mariko! You are so right, there’s good and evil everywhere. There’s no use labeling a certain group of people as inherently bad, since that’s the best way to spread hate towards them. We need more love in our world. Thank you for your words! <3

Anxiety is indeed a colossal bitch… Especially at night time, when it works at its full potential. I hope you could have taken a well deserved rest after that Cecelia, and that your mind is quieter! When mine starts thinking about the worst case scenarios, I try to remember to myself something I learned some time ago: worst AND ideal case…[Read more]

I know you will accomplish all of your goals Cecelia. I and everyone in BT believe in you. You are very determinate, positive, and hard-working, so don’t ever doubt about yourself. Keep your goals in your mind and don’t rush anything. Go one at a time, and you’ll achive them before you can realize. I feel so proud and happy for you Cecelia!

People having it worse does not make your feelings any less valid, Mariko. You have the right to express yourself without feeling bad about it. About the weight gain, iI’ve been there myself, and it’s something that can be very distressing. Remember that every flaw that you see when you look at youtself in the mirror, it’s your brain being over…[Read more]

Life won’t treat us nicely sometimes. It can get pretty nasty indeed, but that does not mean that we deserve it. You certainly do not deserve any kind of bad treatment Cecelia. Things won’t be like this forever, they’ll will eventually change for the better. You are a brave fighter @invincible, keep holding on <3

It’s very discouraging when you are seeking for someone to listen to you and ease your pain, and you find the complete opposite. I’m so sorry to read that happened to you @damagedcoconut. On the bright side, for every trol you find, there are at least 10 people who truly care and that really want to listen and support you here on BT. Don’t let…[Read more]

And just how super sweet it’s this? That brightened my day Mariko, thank you for such kind words! I’m happy to be here and be able to help as much as I can. I personally think that if everyone of us, within our posibilities, were more kind to each other, we’d make everyone’s life a bit better. You are all amazing and so nice, @marikofujimoto, [Read more]

It’s so wonderful that you found a source of positiveness and happiness Mariko! Spending your time doing something you enjoy it’s great, but it’s even better when this activity brings you peace, valuable experiences and people who cares about you. Keep doing such an amazing work @marikofujimoto, step by step you’ll achieve your goals. Never…[Read more]

Sooooo relatable. I think that sometimes it’s better not to answer immediately, because when we are angry, sad, frustrated, etc. these feelings are the ones talking, and not us. When something like that happens, tell them that you don’t feel okay to talk right now and wait until you feel calm and with a quiet mind. And when the right moment…[Read more]

I’m sorry to read you’re going through this, Mariko. Sometimes asking for help can be very distressing, so it might be helpful to think about it as another similar activity you do on a daily basis. People at the uni services are there to listen and help you, just as we are here for you. You can try to think of them as the BT comunity. Also, if…[Read more]

Thank you so much @invincible! I hope so too. Let’s keep our fingers crossed. I hope you had an amazing day Cecelia! <3

Thank you so much Oli! I hope to get at last a good job and be able to gain more and more experience. You are wonderful and amaizing @oliver, never forget it! Inbox me too if you ever need to talk or vent! Stay strong and keep being such a sweet angel! <3