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    lovers00 posted an update 4 years, 8 months ago

    soo ive been thinking for a while about losing my virginity and i think im actually gonna do it i feel ready im just a lil scared it will hurt or ill get pregnant if you have any tips please help ps i dont have birth control and im not allowed to get it

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    • I would only have sex and lose your virginity when you are legally old enough and completely comfortable and ready about doing it @lovers00, make sure it is with someone you truly care about and want to be with, hope everything works out for you, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Sex is one of the most natural things we can do. It’s also super weird and can be stressful because of our mixed cultural messages. If you can honestly say that you’re ready to have sex then talk to your potential partner about how you want it to go. It doesn’t have to be a weird or super detailed talk. Just explain what you’re feeling and what your worries are. Condoms are absolutely necessary if you don’t have access to birth control. Even when you do eventually get birth control, condoms are still a good idea unless you’re in a trusting long term relationship because STD transmission is on the rise. It’s ok to feel stressed/anxious because it often takes new and uncomfortable situations to allow us to grow and change.

    • Just make sure you feel safe around the person youre doing it with and make sure to have a condom ( Also dont believe whatever excuse they make ONLY have sex with a condom, there is a big chance you will get pregnant if you dont use condoms even if they pull out)