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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Tell my dad all week I have work at a certain time, but he claims I told him a completely different time. Now I am getting yelled at for it because he refuse to say that I was right. […] View

    Your father really should treat you with love, dignity, care and respect @lilwisher93, you don’t deserve to be shouted or screamed at, I would try to talk calmly to him and see if you can work things out in a respectful way, I’m sure everything will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Just wondering how do break off with a guy you been dating for so long that you no longer love because of the way he had been acting lately and lost interest to him View

    I would be honest with him and tell him how you feel @lilwisher93, let him know that you feel the relationship isn’t working anymore because you just aren’t as close with him as you used to be, you are a wonderful person who deserves a partner who will show you unconditional love and support, hope everything works out, you will be OK, inbox me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Decided to come back to talk to these lovely people. I hope all is well View

    Hope you are doing well and things are going amazingly in your life @lilwisher93, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, keep being the compassionate and sweet person that you are, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Once again I get into an argument with my parents. Regarding my boyfriend. I happy yet they make these unnecessary comments because I mentioned I am going to hang with him. Some […] View

    I would talk to your parents about your boyfriend @lilwisher93, let them know how happy he makes you and that he cares about you, hopefully once your parents come to meet him, they will see he is a decent person, everything will be OK, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update I am feeling a bit dis-stressed right now. There been this huge tension between my family for the last few days due to the fact what my youngest bother has done. I feel like I getting […] View

    Your family should treat you with all the love, respect, care and kindness in the world @lilwisher93, they shouldn’t yell at you over something trivial and minor, everything will be OK, surround yourself with things that make you happy and keep smiling, remember the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Clearly I can’t be behind sech because I just got biched at for not locking the door completely. One lock was locked and my dad was home. I still get accused of lying about running […] View

    Your parents really should treat you with respect, love, care and dignity @lilwisher93, don’t let them be mean to you or call you horrible names, you are a wonderful person who deserves to feel upbeat and happy, try to have a fantastic day and keep smiling, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 4 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Nothing beats getting biched at by my parents for claiming for not doing anything in the around the house. View

    Your parents really should treat you with dignity, respect, care, love and kindness @lilwisher93, I’m sure you do help out around the house, try to stay positive and don’t let negativity get you down, smile, hold your head up high and surround yourself with brightness, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update A bit annoyed at my dad. He is trying to get a hold of my finances and I have no say in it. I am 23 and I should have control over on how I should save my money. He wants me to put in […] View

    I would try to talk to your father about how you feel @lilwisher93, let him know that you want to look after yourself and your finances, hopefully he will listen because you deserve independence, I’m sure things will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update A few months a go my bf and I took a break and during that time i was not my best. It was a darktime for me. I told a person who i thought was my friend how i was feeling during that […] View

    @lilwisher93 sometimes friends can be hypocritical. It happens. You have to still be a friend to her so that means respecting what she has to say but by all means do that suggest that you have to do as she say. Make yourself as happy as possible.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update A few months a go my bf and I took a break and during that time i was not my best. It was a darktime for me. I told a person who i thought was my friend how i was feeling during that […] View

    Your friend really should have stuck by you @lilwisher93, don’t let anyone treat you badly or use things against you, surround yourself with compassion and positivity, smile and do your best to keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Welp I just possible lost a friend ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ clearly someone is acting like a child. Oh well View

    @lilwisher93 such a shame. I have a friend like that as well.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Welp I just possible lost a friend ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ clearly someone is acting like a child. Oh well View

    You are a wonderful person who deserves good friends around you @lilwisher93, surround yourself with compassionate people who will stick by you no matter what, I want to see you happy and truly smiling, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update But who am I. I get constantly get biched at by my parents for the littlest things. Like being on my phone or going out to see my boyfriend. Yet they don’t bat an eye to bother who is […] View

    Your parents really should trust you and treat you with respect @lilwisher93, I’m sure they want the best for you but at the same time, you deserve independence in life, try to talk to them and see what happens, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Let the saga of my parents continue. This time being called a sneak by my dad. Wtf?! Clearly according to him I can’t do a last min vist to my boyfriend. Yet when my bother was dating […] View

    Your parents really should be fair to both you and your brother @lilwisher93, I would try to talk to them and let them know how you feel, tell them that you just want to spend some time with your boyfriend and that you would like some independence, hope things work out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Parents logic: Let my 21-year-old brother visit his girlfriend in Boston where she goes to school 3 times however I can’t sleep over my boyfriends’ house who is an hour away. Note: I […] View

    Your parents really should be fair to both of you @lilwisher93, I would try to talk to them, tell them that you know they are looking out for you but that you also want to spend time with your boyfriend so you can make your relationship stronger, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update I hate my current job situation and it been bothering lately that I won’t find a new job soon. At my current job they don’t treat me right. I apply for so many places and nonthing. I […] View

    Don’t give up on finding a job that brings you happiness @lilwisher93, keep applying to places as much as you can, I’m sure you will find something you like, everything will be OK, follow your dreams and always believe in yourself, you can do it, stay upbeat because you will be successful, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Not even 5 mins after wakingmy dad accused me for using my phone. I was making a phone call and getting ready for the day. He even called me a lier that always lies View

    @lilwisher93 as someone who have daddy issues I get how they can simply be rude and cruel. Just respect him enough and. besides that, nothing more. Good luck.

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update Not even 5 mins after wakingmy dad accused me for using my phone. I was making a phone call and getting ready for the day. He even called me a lier that always lies View

    Your father should be kind, respectful and loving towards you @lilwisher93, don’t let him be horrible to you, smile and keep being the fantastic person that you are, you can do it, hope you have a great day, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    laylab95 posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update How ironic dad accused me of lying but you know damn well he lies most of the time. Somethings are ment to be kept a secret or none of your business to know. View

    @lilwisher93 my dad is the ultimate hypocrite so I understand. Just respect your dad as much as possible and hopefully the same will be given back in return. Feel free to message me anytime

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 9 months ago

    In reply to: lilwisher93 posted an update How ironic dad accused me of lying but you know damn well he lies most of the time. Somethings are ment to be kept a secret or none of your business to know. View

    Your father really should be honest, truthful and open with you @lilwisher93, talk to each other and see if you can work things out, don’t bottle up your thoughts and feelings, do confide in someone if you need too, hope everything goes OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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