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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 week, 6 days ago

    Just wondering how do break off with a guy you been dating for so long that you no longer love because of the way he had been acting lately and lost interest to him

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    • I would be honest with him and tell him how you feel @lilwisher93, let him know that you feel the relationship isn’t working anymore because you just aren’t as close with him as you used to be, you are a wonderful person who deserves a partner who will show you unconditional love and support, hope everything works out, you will be OK, inbox me…[Read more]

    • Let your partner know how are you feeling about your relationship, and let them also express themselves too. If you think that you two can work things out, give the relationship an oportunity. But if it’s it’s something definitive, then put an end. You deserve to feel comfortable and happy, there’s no positive thing about force yourself to be…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 3 weeks, 6 days ago

    Decided to come back to talk to these lovely people. I hope all is well

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    • Good that you are back! I hope everything is well for you too!

    • Hope you are doing well and things are going amazingly in your life @lilwisher93, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, keep being the compassionate and sweet person that you are, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Thank you. I hope that everything is well for you, too!

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Once again I get into an argument with my parents. Regarding my boyfriend. I happy yet they make these unnecessary comments because I mentioned I am going to hang with him. Some comments should be kept to themselve. They think they know everything about love. Let me enjoy my life.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • I would talk to your parents about your boyfriend @lilwisher93, let them know how happy he makes you and that he cares about you, hopefully once your parents come to meet him, they will see he is a decent person, everything will be OK, stay positive and keep going, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    I am feeling a bit dis-stressed right now. There been this huge tension between my family for the last few days due to the fact what my youngest bother has done. I feel like I getting the some of it from them even though I did nothing wrong. For example I tried to help make dinner tonight and I messed up adding the wrong soy sauce to the meat and…[Read more]

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    • Your family should treat you with all the love, respect, care and kindness in the world @lilwisher93, they shouldn’t yell at you over something trivial and minor, everything will be OK, surround yourself with things that make you happy and keep smiling, remember the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, inbox me anytime if you…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 8 months ago

    Clearly I can’t be behind sech because I just got biched at for not locking the door completely. One lock was locked and my dad was home. I still get accused of lying about running late this morning yet it’s true that I was.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Oli replied 8 months ago

      Your parents really should treat you with respect, love, care and dignity @lilwisher93, don’t let them be mean to you or call you horrible names, you are a wonderful person who deserves to feel upbeat and happy, try to have a fantastic day and keep smiling, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    Nothing beats getting biched at by my parents for claiming for not doing anything in the around the house.

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    • Your parents really should treat you with dignity, respect, care, love and kindness @lilwisher93, I’m sure you do help out around the house, try to stay positive and don’t let negativity get you down, smile, hold your head up high and surround yourself with brightness, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 10 months ago

    A bit annoyed at my dad. He is trying to get a hold of my finances and I have no say in it. I am 23 and I should have control over on how I should save my money. He wants me to put in a retirement find type thing.

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    • I would try to talk to your father about how you feel @lilwisher93, let him know that you want to look after yourself and your finances, hopefully he will listen because you deserve independence, I’m sure things will be OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 11 months, 1 week ago

    A few months a go my bf and I took a break and during that time i was not my best. It was a darktime for me. I told a person who i thought was my friend how i was feeling during that time. Eventally me and my bf got back together. Fast foward to last week where i wanted to hang with this friend. I asked if she wanted to hang out with me via…[Read more]

    Mood : Infuriated
    • Your friend really should have stuck by you @lilwisher93, don’t let anyone treat you badly or use things against you, surround yourself with compassion and positivity, smile and do your best to keep going forward, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 sometimes friends can be hypocritical. It happens. You have to still be a friend to her so that means respecting what she has to say but by all means do that suggest that you have to do as she say. Make yourself as happy as possible.

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 11 months, 2 weeks ago

    Welp I just possible lost a friend ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ clearly someone is acting like a child. Oh well

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    • You are a wonderful person who deserves good friends around you @lilwisher93, surround yourself with compassionate people who will stick by you no matter what, I want to see you happy and truly smiling, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 such a shame. I have a friend like that as well.

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 11 months, 3 weeks ago

    But who am I. I get constantly get biched at by my parents for the littlest things. Like being on my phone or going out to see my boyfriend. Yet they don’t bat an eye to bother who is 2 years younger than me (I’m 23) who was freely to see his girlfriend and is up late playing video games.

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    • Your parents really should trust you and treat you with respect @lilwisher93, I’m sure they want the best for you but at the same time, you deserve independence in life, try to talk to them and see what happens, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Also, try your best not to compare yourself to your brother. If you talk this way to your parents, it can come off as immature and whiny. You have to be your own person and no say what he can do compared to you. You can’t live your life worrying how others treat one person over the other. If people treated everyone the same, this world would be a…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 11 months, 3 weeks ago

    Let the saga of my parents continue. This time being called a sneak by my dad. Wtf?! Clearly according to him I can’t do a last min vist to my boyfriend. Yet when my bother was dating his girlfriend they didn’t say anything to him regarding him doing a last minute vist. I have to tell them in advance that I am going on a date or hanging out with…[Read more]

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    • Your parents really should be fair to both you and your brother @lilwisher93, I would try to talk to them and let them know how you feel, tell them that you just want to spend some time with your boyfriend and that you would like some independence, hope things work out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

    • Parents can be very sexist. I find that very hypocrit quite honestly. I just think you should ignore it, you’re an adult, therefore is your life.
      Maybe try to get your life ready to move out so you don’t have to deal with that negativity

    • Parents are like that about their girls. It sucks but if you of legal age, do what you think is best. Never let anyone stop you from the chance of happiness and freedom

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 12 months ago

    Parents logic: Let my 21-year-old brother visit his girlfriend in Boston where she goes to school 3 times however I can’t sleep over my boyfriends’ house who is an hour away. Note: I live somewhere in NY.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Your parents really should be fair to both of you @lilwisher93, I would try to talk to them, tell them that you know they are looking out for you but that you also want to spend time with your boyfriend so you can make your relationship stronger, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent :) (hugs)

    • Parents can be sexist sometimes but I’m pretty sure they have the best intentions at heart. Staying at a guys house is overrated anyways. You can spend time with one another in way more unique ways. Good luck

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 12 months ago

    I hate my current job situation and it been bothering lately that I won’t find a new job soon. At my current job they don’t treat me right. I apply for so many places and nonthing. I have all this experience yet no one will hire me. I am just overwhelmed with emotion. To the point where I want to cry

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    • Don’t give up on finding a job that brings you happiness @lilwisher93, keep applying to places as much as you can, I’m sure you will find something you like, everything will be OK, follow your dreams and always believe in yourself, you can do it, stay upbeat because you will be successful, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 year ago

    Not even 5 mins after wakingmy dad accused me for using my phone. I was making a phone call and getting ready for the day. He even called me a lier that always lies

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    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      Your father should be kind, respectful and loving towards you @lilwisher93, don’t let him be horrible to you, smile and keep being the fantastic person that you are, you can do it, hope you have a great day, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 as someone who have daddy issues I get how they can simply be rude and cruel. Just respect him enough and. besides that, nothing more. Good luck.

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 year ago

    How ironic dad accused me of lying but you know damn well he lies most of the time. Somethings are ment to be kept a secret or none of your business to know.

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    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      Your father really should be honest, truthful and open with you @lilwisher93, talk to each other and see if you can work things out, don’t bottle up your thoughts and feelings, do confide in someone if you need too, hope everything goes OK, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 my dad is the ultimate hypocrite so I understand. Just respect your dad as much as possible and hopefully the same will be given back in return. Feel free to message me anytime

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    lilwisher93 started the forum topic Advice needed in the group Group logoVent It! 1 year ago

    I need some advice. My parents are not a fan of my boyfriend. It really frustrates me that they don’t approve of him because of his race and his current situation. He is Spanish and I am white. He had to drop out […]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 year, 2 months ago

    I finally found happiness in my life but my parents don’t approve of it because according to them I am on the wrong path when it comes to love. I feel like I am on the right path of love. Why do they have to try and bring me down

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    • I would do what you feel is right for you @lilwisher93, if you love someone and you know the relationship will continue going strong, keep being there for each other as much as you can, try to talk to your parents and tell them how happy you are, I’m sure they will support you as time goes on, hope everything works out, I’m always here if you…[Read more]

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    lilwisher93 posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    Just gone through a bad relationship in my life. I learned a lot from this situation and hope the best for myself now and in the future.

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    • Do your best to move forward with your life @lilwisher93, I’m sure you will have a stable and loving relationship with someone wonderful in the future, try to stay positive and know so much brightness lies ahead for you, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @lilwisher93 that’s a very good attitude :) I’m sure you’ll become a better individual learning from this experience. Best of luck!

    • That’s great that you have a good outlook on things! Good luck and if you ever want to talk, feel free to message me :)

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