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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 8 months ago

    Just found out I’m pregnant. (I’m biologically female for those who don’t know).
    So wish me luck y’all. Second child and I’m nervous!

    • I’m so happy for you @xxbaybayxx, hope your pregnancy goes well, do take care of yourself, your daughter and your boyfriend Oliver, I’m sure you and your boyfriend will be wonderful parents to your little bundle of joy and your daughter will be a loving sibling, keep smiling and always go forward with brightness Oliver, you can do it, inbox me…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 8 months ago

    Overdid it a little today.
    Boyfriend and I walked 5 miles without even thinking. Had a slight limp when we got home. But it’s all good, I got some free time outside.

    Mood : Accomplished
    • Glad to see you had a wonderful day with your boyfriend @xxbaybayxx, do stay healthy and always look after each other Oliver, keep smiling and always be the fantastic person that you are Oliver, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 8 months ago

    I feel bad.
    I moved all 6 states away to find my own happiness, to get away from my abusive family. And I was scared that I was going to hate it here, or that I’d become too homesick. But it’s been over 2 months and…I’m not. I don’t miss the town I was raised in. I don’t miss family or my old friends. I oddly enough don’t miss anyone.

    So…[Read more]

    • Please don’t feel bad @xxbaybayxx, what truly matters is you and your families happiness Oliver, you are such a wonderful person who truly deserves to live in a place where you feel loved, supported and cared for, please don’t go back to your abusive family, they should treat you with dignity and respect Oliver, you deserve so much better, maybe…[Read more]

    • @xxbaybayxx, I experienced the same thing when I went to costa rica. What you have to realize is that there is a limited amount of things you can do for them. In the end, always put yourself first. Don’t feel guilty for trying to climb out of the hole you’ve been trapped in. You need to take time for yourself, and you’ve done that. So don’t…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 9 months ago

    I don’t know how to feel honestly.

    My friend was engaged and happy from what I knew. And then last week she tells me that she broke off her last engagement, is dating someone knew and got engaged two months into it.

    I don’t like how hidden everything feels now. How she’s been through so much and told me nothing. How am I supposed to be…[Read more]

    • I would be the supportive and compassionate friend that you are towards her @xxbaybayxx, let her know you care and want the best for her but at the same time you don’t want to see her get hurt or rush too quickly into a relationship, hope everything works out for your friend Oliver, be as honest and open with her as you can, feel free to inbox me…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 9 months ago

    I’ve always been the “bigger city” type of guy. Not so much in living aspect, but more of just…enjoyment of having so much to do. I told myself that I would never live anywhere smaller than where I grew up. So to be honest, when my boyfriend wanted me to live with him I was scared to. Going from a town with a population of 22k to a town with…[Read more]

    • glad you’re happy

    • It’s great to see you happy in your new surroundings @xxbaybayxx, do enjoy your new town with your family Oliver, stay positive and keep smiling, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 9 months ago

    Can I just do a recap of this year real quick?

    This has, by far, been one of the most stressful years I have faced. It started off pretty alright for the most part, I visited New York again to spend time with my boyfriend and to relax away from my normal stresses. That was in February.
    March I celebrating my daughters 2nd birthday and my 22nd…[Read more]

    Mood : Stressed
    • Please don’t let the stress of life and family get you down @xxbaybayxx, do your best to focus on being there for your boyfriend and daughter Oliver, your move to another state will be successful and you will be happy alongside your family, don’t let the toxic members of your family upset you, focus on the happiness of yourself, your daughter and…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 9 months ago

    Remaking my post from a few minutes ago -

    Moving to a new state is a pain. My 2 year old is on anti-seizure meds and I made sure to refill her prescription before moving. Getting insurance took too long and now I’m down to only having enough meds for her to last till wednesday. She has one refill on it back at home but it’s not like my mother…[Read more]

    Mood : Stressed
    • I’m so sorry that your daughter is not well @xxbaybayxx, do take care of her and I’m sure you will get the right medication to make things better, always remember you are a wonderful, loving and amazing father who is doing right by his family Oliver, everything will be OK, try to stay positive and keep going, you can do it Oliver, feel free to…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 10 months ago

    So I guess I’m back on here for an update.
    As of tuesday I’m officially a resident of New York state. Settled in to the new apartment with my boyfriend and my daughter. It was one hell of a weekend to get here though. Had to make the uhaul late, a car broke down, all kinds of not so fun things, but I enjoyed the trip regardless.
    But it…[Read more]

    Mood : Amazed
    • It’s wonderful to see that you are happy in your new place with your boyfriend and daughter @xxbaybayxx, hope your new home continues to bring you and your family joy Oliver, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to talk about anything, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago

    Once I move and get out of the toxic situation I’m in living with my mother, I think I’m going to push to go to online schooling. My mom has mocked me for years over the fact that I never went to college and always tells me how much of my life I wasted. I want to prove I’m more than she sees, but I want to do it on my own accord. Not just…[Read more]

    • You will achieve your degree in zoology @xxbaybayxx, please know you will be successful Oliver and make all your dreams come true, don’t let your mothers horrible comments bring you down, she should encourage you in whatever you choose to do in life, everything will go your way Oliver and all your goals will become a wonderful reality, hold your…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago

    Finally getting together everything I need to move to New York. I finally got my daughter a birth certificate and it is so…liberating to have that. Because when my ex stopped coming around he made sure to “lose” Emily’s birth certificate and social security card just to mess with me.

    It’s so nice knowing he can’t get to me anymore. He…[Read more]

    • It’s wonderful to see that all the preparations for your move to New York are almost complete @xxbaybayxx, I’m sure things will go amazingly for you, your daughter and your boyfriend when you get there, stay positive Oliver and don’t let your ex have any power over you, stay focused on making yourself and your family happy, everything will work…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ answered question “What are ways to feel more upbeat and happy everyday?4 years, 11 months ago

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago

    Can I also just get a pat on the back for not having ONE suicidal thought in over 2 months? Despite my bouts of depression I’ve been doing so good.
    My anxiety HAS been up though. But I’ve been going through a lot.

    • Please don’t let anxiety get you down @xxbaybayxx, surround yourself with all the things that bring you happiness and smile brightly, I’m so proud of you Oliver, you are doing your best to make each day incredible and not let your struggles bring you down, hold your head up high, know you are a survivor and keep going forward with a sense of…[Read more]

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 4 years, 11 months ago

    It’s finally time.
    Time to break the distance between my boyfriend and I. He finally got a 2 bedroom place for my daughter and I to move into with him. I just sent him money for the deposit and got everything taken care of to get ready to go. I should be moving in about a month.

    Now here’s where it’s stressful. My mother. She’s both…[Read more]

    • Your family should be supportive of your move @xxbaybayxx, they should be happy for you Oliver, happy that you are leading a successful and independent live while being an amazing father and parent with your boyfriend, I would talk to your mother about how much her words hurt you, she has no right to say that you are not raising your daughter…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 5 years ago

    For anyone that has been looking for me, sorry. Mentally not ok and don’t want to spread negativity.
    I’ll answer to everyone when I’m mentally more capable.

    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      I’ve been so worried about you @marikofujimoto, please take as much time away as you need sweetie, please don’t apologise hun, I care about and love you so much, beautiful angel Mariko, you do so much for all of us here on BT Mariko, but remember to always look after yourself too Mariko, you will make it through this Mariko because you are so…[Read more]

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    mariko posted an update 5 years ago

    BAN.THE.SPAM.
    too much!!!! And new members pay for it!

    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      Indeed the spam is so annoying and frustrating @marikofujimoto, hopefully someone new will take over moderation of BT and spammers will get deleted, it’s so sad to see this loving community attract spammers, trolls and bots, this community deserves so much better, hope you are OK sweetie and having a wonderful day, beautiful Mariko, I’m always…[Read more]

    • @marikofujimoto

      Sad, but very true. :( The neglect of this place is so disheartening.

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    mariko answered question “How do I get over people abandoning me in depression.5 years, 1 month ago

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    mariko answered question “You can buy a sex dolls in a physical store. Would you buy it?5 years, 1 month ago

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    mariko posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    Struggling with alot of back pain. My parents believe it’s either a problem in my spine or kidneys. Tomorrow going to the doctor.
    So scared :(

    • Doctor check ups can be terrifying, especially because of the uncertainty of the diagnose. Try to do some relaxing activities before your appointment, Mariko: listening to music, take a stroll, drink something warm… And remember that they are there to make you feel comfortable, ease your pain, and help you as much as they can. I’m sure your…[Read more]

    • I don’t want to see you feeling unwell or in pain @marikofujimoto, you will make it through this, beautiful angel Mariko, please don’t be scared or afraid, you are so strong, brave and courageous, remember to always stay healthy physically, mentally and emotionally, take care of yourself sweetie, you will be OK Mariko, please know that I’ll…[Read more]

    • Good luck Mariko, I hope everything is OK and its nothing serious. Hoping the pain will go away too. Don’t be too scared, I’m sure it’ll be alright and it’ll be solved if there is a minor issue. ♥♥

    • @marikofujimoto

      I know it’s been about a day since you posted this, but I hope the visit goes/went well. :( Hopefully you’ll be relieved of your pain and it isn’t too serious.

      Best of luck.

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    mariko posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    Going to therapy today. Quite scared. Is from my university, so assuming will be a good therapist. But never easy to put ourselves in a vulnerable place.

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    Samantha and Profile picture of Fading EchoFading Echo are now friends 5 years, 1 month ago

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