• Profile picture of Lels
    Passing Stranger
    508
    QA Reputation
    20

    Lels posted an update 4 months, 2 weeks ago

    I often read something like ”trying to avoid hurting another person in a relationship is an impossible task” or ”accept that in relationships you will get hurt and you will eventually hurt another person” and that’s considered to be normal. People accept that pain is inevitable and join relationships despite the fear. However, if pain is inevitable, the pain you feel by staying by yourself is also a type of manageable pain. Very rarely someone considers that tolerating a pain of being on your own might be a healthy choice for yourself and for that potential person who you would have hurt if you started dating them. The pain of being alone as for me carries less damage than the pain you get from another person in a relationship, and doesn’t hurt anyone but you at the same time.

    • No one deserves to be in pain either by themselves or while in a relationship @lelslessing, we all truly deserve to feel positive, happy and wonderful so we can better ourselves and support each other every day, I want to see you feeling fantastic Lels and being the best person you can be, remember to smile brightly and know you are awesome, perfect and incredible in every way Lels, everything will be OK, keep going forward with confidence and never give up, you can do it Lels, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Thank you Oli, thank you for being the light.

    • Thank you Oli, thank you for being the light.