So I'm 13 and traveling on sort of a bumpy road right now. My parents are getting divorced, but that's not really what's bothering me… they have been separated for over 2 years and to be honest my dad is a big jerk. I have really low self esteem right now. I'm actually under weight for my height (5'5), but I just think I'm fat. My whole family is 'plus sized' at the moment, and to be honest… I just don't want to end up that way.