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    Kira posted an update in the group Group logoblahtherapy adults (21+) 2 months ago

    Hey, am I the only one who wants to go on trips with friends but when they ask me I say no?

    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      I would try to break out of your comfort zone and go out to new places if you can @kira19, spread your wings so you can improve your confidence and self esteem Kira, I’m sure you will enjoy yourself and have a wonderful time with friends, keep smiling and always be the awesome person that you are Kira, you can do it, always believe in yourself and never give up, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @kira19

      You are definitely not alone in this. I’m an introvert, so this is one of my life’s biggest struggles.
      I love my friends and love to do things with them, but making plans just leaves me anxious.

    • Hello! Even though it may seem like that, I can assure you’re not the only one feeling that way. I’m also a very introverted person and every time i plan going out with one of my friends i end up having second guesses about it, leading to its cancellation. I really love going out and spending time with time and i deeply appreciate their invitations. However, for some reason, when the actual time comes i always make up some excuse and bury myself at home feeling miserable. Well, what I mean to say is that is okay to be na introvert, it’s okay to cancel plans with your friends. If they are really your friends they’ll stay with you and understand your actions. Don’t blame yourself for that, i believe that step by step you’ll get to overcome that feeling and be able to enjoy going out with your friends :)

    • i totally relate