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    Kat posted an update 7 years, 11 months ago

    I am amazed what my mother just told me. After my father calling me a fucking bitch multiple times, telling me to just fucking leave, and calling me a little shit, my mom has the fucking guts to say that she had it worse in her life. She had THE FUCKING GUTS to say that my suffering is NOTHING compared to what she had to go through! Wow! Respect for both my parents have just plummeted.

    Mood : Amazed
    • Your parents have no right to treat you that way @kat-da-dalek, they really should apologise and try to make things better with you, you deserve to be loved and cared for by those closest to you, they are emotionally abusing you and it’s wrong, everyone needs parents who will give them all the support in the world, do stick up for yourself Kat, remember you are an angel and don’t let anyone tell you differently, I’m always here if you need someone to confide in, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Unfortunately a lot of people don’t seem to know how to listen, and don’t realize how incredibly toxic it is to compare your suffering to that of someone else. The way I see it, everyone has their own lives, and their own sorrows. It isn’t fair to compare one to another because they’re all so different. Your pain is valid. And no one has the right to tell you otherwise.

    • Wow! That’s pretty harsh. That’s no way to talk to a young lady, more less your own child. Your mom was being very selfish. Be strong.

    • That’s…just terrible.
      A lot of people don’t understand the fact that it doesn’t matter whether your situation is considered better or worse. We all go through things, and just because someone may ”have it worse” doesn’t mean it makes our situation any better.
      I’m sorry that happened to you.