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    Oli posted a new activity comment 5 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update I haven’t been online in like forever, and why? Because I was genuinely happy. Not everything was going right but I just felt like everything would be okay. Did I just put my depressing […] View

    Please don’t harm yourself @justagxrl, try to stay upbeat and focus on doing activities that bring a smile to your face, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and know you are a fighter, always be the amazing person that you are and never give up, brightness and hope will come into your life, believe in yourself, you can do it, I’m…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update First of all, thank you to everyone who’s responded to my last post, it really helped me. So we met yesterday and I think its safe to say that it was indeed, like I was hoping a date. I […] View

    Glad things went well @justagxrl, hope things continue going fantastically for you :) (hugs)

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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Hope someone could help me, everything’s been fine lately. I met this guy online in December and we’re still talking. I know he’s not a creep (I checked every social media and […] View

    @justagxrl I think could try to give up the idea that it can be perfect and natural: from talking with people who met after a long distance relationship, there’s no escaping a short period of awkwardness as you try to match the person in front of you to the idea of them you have in your head. It will be okay as you both try to work through it,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Hope someone could help me, everything’s been fine lately. I met this guy online in December and we’re still talking. I know he’s not a creep (I checked every social media and […] View

    Hope all goes well when you meet this guy @justagxrl, do stay safe and look after yourself, meet him in public and do your best to talk to each other in an open and confident way, you can do it, I’m sure you will be OK :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update I can’t do this anymore, I wanna save up money so I can finally leave this fucking shithole that you’re supposed to call ’home’ but I have no income or anything. There are not a lot of […] View

    I’m sure you will find the right job and career for you @justagxrl, do stay on the look-out for something that you feel benefits you and that pays well, everything will go your way, hold your head up high and be upbeat, you can do it, keep going and never give up, you will make it, I’m always here if you ever need to chat :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Everything was going just fine, school break, I was feeling happy. My mum got sick last night so its been a boring christmas but I’m okay with that. I also met this really nice guy and […] View

    I would tell him how you truly feel and see what happens @justagxrl, hopefully you will remain close with him no matter what :)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 11 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Everything was going just fine, school break, I was feeling happy. My mum got sick last night so its been a boring christmas but I’m okay with that. I also met this really nice guy and […] View

    Maybe he wants to become close friends with you @justagxrl, I would stick with him and see how things go, hopefully everything will go your way and things will work out, I’m sorry that your mother got sick, hope she recovers soon, try to stay positive about things, you can do it, I’m always here if you ever need to chat :) (hugs)

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    MandY posted a new activity comment 7 years ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Eh maybe a little weird posting this here but I really don’t have anyone I wanna talk to right now .. :( But after a lot of thought I bought this winter jacket (It gets really cold here […] View

    @justagxrl, Life is short so you should totally spoiil yourself once in a while, dont feel bad for wanting something nice. Enjoy your jacket if you love it. And if u really feel weird then sell it and buy a new one that you feel comfortable in cause in the ends thats all thats important, that u feel good inside and out. Dont eat yourself too much…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Eh maybe a little weird posting this here but I really don’t have anyone I wanna talk to right now .. :( But after a lot of thought I bought this winter jacket (It gets really cold here […] View

    Hope you are OK @justagxrl, as long as the jacket keeps you warm that’s what matters, do take care of yourself, I’m always here if you need someone to chat too about anything, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Beanz posted a new activity comment 7 years ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Please help, Ir eslly csnt handle this anymore. I know I should be there for my mum but se has no idea how much her words and actions hurt me. Its hard to believe that she doesnt mean […] View

    @Oli i understand where you’re coming from with that but sometimes with depression it doesn’t always get through to that person. but i do agree that you should go see a family counselor so you can both get the right help you both need and so you’re treated amazingly like you’re meant to @justagxrl. if you ever need anyone to talk about these…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Please help, Ir eslly csnt handle this anymore. I know I should be there for my mum but se has no idea how much her words and actions hurt me. Its hard to believe that she doesnt mean […] View

    Try to talk to your mother about things @justagxrl, tell her how you feel, get her to listen to you, try to make her see things from your point of view, how about family counselling?, maybe it will help both of you, you deserve to be treated with love and care by those closest to you, how about writing her a letter, telling her all your thoughts,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update I came back home last friday, and I had the time of my life. It was probably the best week I had in 10 years or so, I can’t even remember the last time I was happy for that long. I […] View

    Try to support your mother as much as you can @justagxrl, talk to her and be there for her, but remember to look after yourself as well, hope things go well for you, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Hi I’m back again, because I wanted to say something, we’ll be going to Spain next week for a week with school and my anxiety is getting the best of me, my friends turn out to be fake […] View

    Try to relax and calm yourself @justagxrl, I’m sure you’ll have an awesome time in Spain, try to focus on all the wonderful things you will do, don’t let horrible people get you down, there are many more nicer and compassionate people out there, keep smiling and don’t give up, things will be OK, you can do it, I’ll always be here if you need…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Sooo long time no see and I still feel like shit, I found out I really miss my old friends and my new ’friends’ aren’t really friends. Life has been shitty lately, I feel sad like every […] View

    Please don’t feel down @justagxrl, everyone deserves supportive and caring people around them, you do too, things will work out and everything will be OK, hold your head up high and be as upbeat as you can, you are such a fantastic individual who should have a bright smile on your face, focus on the things that make you feel good, you are a…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update I’m feeling better than yesterday. But obviously life has to be hard and I am feeling super anxious , I have no idea what to do with it but it scares me a lot and I feel tense and nope. […] View

    Focus on the things which make you smile and which make you truly happy @justagxrl, do something that makes you feel good, you are such an amazing and fantastic person who deserves all the best in life, hold your head up high and don’t let anything bring you down, things will be OK, be positive and keep going, you can do this, remember there is…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update So I’m not feeling too well right now. Last night I wanted everything to end so badly but I don’t ’believe’ I guess in suicide, I want it to naturally happen. Yes this may sound weird […] View

    Please don’t harm yourself @justagxrl, you can and will make it through tough times, don’t let anything get you down, you are such an awesome person who deserves all the love and happiness in the world, great things will happen to you and you will be so successful, you will win all your battles and you will beat all your struggles, hold your…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update So I’ve been feeling a bit better. They let me do more at my work, still not fun at all but I really want/need the money so I guess I’ll have to except not enjoying my work. I was […] View

    I’m sure you will do great @justagxrl, be positive and don’t give up, everything will be OK and things will work out, don’t let anything get you down, you will be so successful, focus on all the good things in your life, you can do this, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong,…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: A girl posted an update Its been a while since I’ve been online, sorry. I got this new job and I’ve been working there for almost three months now and I feel like sh*t. I don’t feel welcome, I’ve nightmares every […] View

    I’m sure things will be OK @justagxrl, do try to get some rest and get some time off from work, you deserve all the best in life hun, don’t let anything bring you down, focus on being the amazing individual that you are, be positive and keep smiling, please don’t give up, you are a fighter, I’m always here if you ever need someone, message me…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: A girl posted an update My mum basically just told me she only takes care of me because she has to.. View

    You don’t deserve to be treated like that at all @justagxrl , your mother should love and care about you no matter what, her duty is to love and protect her child, you deserve better, you are loved and cared for on here, everyone on Blah cares about you and so do I, stay strong, you are not alone, keep your head up, if you need to talk or need a…[Read more]

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: A girl posted an update I was clean for 4 months and i broke it, i’m sorry. View

    I’m here for you @justagxrl, stay strong, you are not alone, you will make it through this, you will beat this pain, keep your head up, things will get better, there will be bright days ahead for you, you are a beautiful and amazing person, you can be happy and positive, I know you can do it, never give up, keep going, keep moving forward, there…[Read more]