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    sad smiley posted an update 1 year, 5 months ago

    I haven’t been online in like forever, and why? Because I was genuinely happy. Not everything was going right but I just felt like everything would be okay. Did I just put my depressing feelings aside? I personally feel like I didn’t but I’m really not sure right now. I haven’t thought about self harm in ages, but tonight it was so hard to…[Read more]

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    • Please don’t harm yourself @justagxrl, try to stay upbeat and focus on doing activities that bring a smile to your face, everything will be OK, hold your head up high and know you are a fighter, always be the amazing person that you are and never give up, brightness and hope will come into your life, believe in yourself, you can do it, I’m…[Read more]

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 3 months ago

    First of all, thank you to everyone who’s responded to my last post, it really helped me. So we met yesterday and I think its safe to say that it was indeed, like I was hoping a date. I had the best night ever and we’re planning on seeing each other very soon again. To be honest, I actually can not wait (:

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    sad smiley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: briana. posted an update really, really need new people to talk to.. this place is good for venting but i need committed friends who i can get into the deep stuff with whenever i need to. View

    Same here! I might not look online all the time, but I always get an email when someone messaged me or anything so if you wanna talk I’m here!

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 3 months ago

    Hope someone could help me, everything’s been fine lately. I met this guy online in December and we’re still talking. I know he’s not a creep (I checked every social media and everything, heard his voice saw him in videos etc) but now he would like to meet, and I would too. The problem is I feel so stressed out, what to wear, what if I don’t…[Read more]

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    • Firstly, I’d suggest a public setting. You may think you know, but you never know, so take every precaution before meeting someone you first met online. Otherwise, be casual. In person will be an extension of the association you already have with him. Once your together the interaction should flow naturally as you guys talk about what you…[Read more]

    • Hope all goes well when you meet this guy @justagxrl, do stay safe and look after yourself, meet him in public and do your best to talk to each other in an open and confident way, you can do it, I’m sure you will be OK :)

    • @justagxrl I think could try to give up the idea that it can be perfect and natural: from talking with people who met after a long distance relationship, there’s no escaping a short period of awkwardness as you try to match the person in front of you to the idea of them you have in your head. It will be okay as you both try to work through it,…[Read more]

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 5 months ago

    I can’t do this anymore, I wanna save up money so I can finally leave this fucking shithole that you’re supposed to call ’home’ but I have no income or anything. There are not a lot of jobs available, only ones that you earn almost nothing with but I might need to take them. Oh I don’t know anymore I’m just done.

    Mood : Alone
    • Earning something is better than nothing at all.
      It could be a good idea to take one of those jobs, while still keeping a lookout on any higher paying jobs.

    • I’m sure you will find the right job and career for you @justagxrl, do stay on the look-out for something that you feel benefits you and that pays well, everything will go your way, hold your head up high and be upbeat, you can do it, keep going and never give up, you will make it, I’m always here if you ever need to chat :) (hugs)

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    sad smiley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Everything was going just fine, school break, I was feeling happy. My mum got sick last night so its been a boring christmas but I’m okay with that. I also met this really nice guy and […] View

    Thanks for your reply, my mum is already doing better thanks. I do wanna stay close friends with him but how could I be like a sister for him if I was/am attracted to him? I just don’t know what to answer right now :(

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 6 months ago

    Everything was going just fine, school break, I was feeling happy. My mum got sick last night so its been a boring christmas but I’m okay with that. I also met this really nice guy and we’ve been talking for almost a month and everything was going great.. But I’m pretty sure I just got friendzoned? He just said “you wanna be the sister I never…[Read more]

    Mood : Confused
    • Maybe he wants to become close friends with you @justagxrl, I would stick with him and see how things go, hopefully everything will go your way and things will work out, I’m sorry that your mother got sick, hope she recovers soon, try to stay positive about things, you can do it, I’m always here if you ever need to chat :) (hugs)

    • Thanks for your reply, my mum is already doing better thanks. I do wanna stay close friends with him but how could I be like a sister for him if I was/am attracted to him? I just don’t know what to answer right now :(

    • I would tell him how you truly feel and see what happens @justagxrl, hopefully you will remain close with him no matter what :)

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    sad smiley replied to the forum topic Just hoping for a suggestion in the group Group logoAdvice 2 years, 7 months ago

    I tbh have no idea what you could do, kinda have the same problem actually. But I’m not able at all to go to therapy or something. Hope you’re doing okay right now, just wanted to let you know you’re not alone in this :)

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    Eh maybe a little weird posting this here but I really don’t have anyone I wanna talk to right now .. :( But after a lot of thought I bought this winter jacket (It gets really cold here in Holland) and it was quite expensive so I’m not sure if I regret buying it yes or no.. I know I really like the jacket but I know I could’ve bought a decent…[Read more]

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    • Hope you are OK @justagxrl, as long as the jacket keeps you warm that’s what matters, do take care of yourself, I’m always here if you need someone to chat too about anything, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • @justagxrl, Life is short so you should totally spoiil yourself once in a while, dont feel bad for wanting something nice. Enjoy your jacket if you love it. And if u really feel weird then sell it and buy a new one that you feel comfortable in cause in the ends thats all thats important, that u feel good inside and out. Dont eat yourself too much…[Read more]

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    sad smiley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Oli posted an update I’m feeling really, really down, honestly I’m starting to think that Blah would be a better site without me being on it, I’m only on here to make others feel good, I want to make people smile, […] View

    Please don’t ever leave, you’re helping so many people, really. I don’t reply to all your comments on my posts but they help me so much. It makes me feel like I’m not alone in this, and you’re not either. Look at all the comments right here. We all care about you don’t ever forget that please.

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    sad smiley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update Please help, Ir eslly csnt handle this anymore. I know I should be there for my mum but se has no idea how much her words and actions hurt me. Its hard to believe that she doesnt mean […] View

    Thank you so much. She doesn’t listen, sometimes she does like once a month or so. I don’t think I will ever get her to go to a family counselor with me. I just she would see that I’m a very different person than her.

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 7 months ago

    Please help, Ir eslly csnt handle this anymore. I know I should be there for my mum but se has no idea how much her words and actions hurt me. Its hard to believe that she doesnt mean them and its because she has been depressed for all her life when its like this every freaking day. We had 1 nice day (yesterday) and that was probably because I had…[Read more]

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    • Try to talk to your mother about things @justagxrl, tell her how you feel, get her to listen to you, try to make her see things from your point of view, how about family counselling?, maybe it will help both of you, you deserve to be treated with love and care by those closest to you, how about writing her a letter, telling her all your thoughts,…[Read more]

    • @Oli i understand where you’re coming from with that but sometimes with depression it doesn’t always get through to that person. but i do agree that you should go see a family counselor so you can both get the right help you both need and so you’re treated amazingly like you’re meant to @justagxrl. if you ever need anyone to talk about these…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much. She doesn’t listen, sometimes she does like once a month or so. I don’t think I will ever get her to go to a family counselor with me. I just she would see that I’m a very different person than her.

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    sad smiley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    In reply to: sad smiley posted an update I came back home last friday, and I had the time of my life. It was probably the best week I had in 10 years or so, I can’t even remember the last time I was happy for that long. I […] View

    Thank you! I do, but its just so hard, i’m still a kid and it still hurts if you keep trying and she keeps pushing me away, and sometimes when we do have a fun time after a few hours her mood changes and we’re back at the start :(

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago

    I came back home last friday, and I had the time of my life. It was probably the best week I had in 10 years or so, I can’t even remember the last time I was happy for that long. I wanted to hold on to this feeling but nope, everything started all over again on saturday. You see my mum is not a bad person at all, it’s just she has been depressed…[Read more]

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    • Try to support your mother as much as you can @justagxrl, talk to her and be there for her, but remember to look after yourself as well, hope things go well for you, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Thank you! I do, but its just so hard, i’m still a kid and it still hurts if you keep trying and she keeps pushing me away, and sometimes when we do have a fun time after a few hours her mood changes and we’re back at the start :(

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago

    Hi I’m back again, because I wanted to say something, we’ll be going to Spain next week for a week with school and my anxiety is getting the best of me, my friends turn out to be fake friends and I haven’t been able to go away from home for more than a day since I’ve been having panic and stress… Seriously don’t know how I’ll get this…[Read more]

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    • You can do this! Try to listen to songs that calm you down (or maybe nature sounds! there are websites with that), try to do something to focous and not lose your mind. Try to breathe properly, take alot of deep breaths, that will help alot. Also if you can, try to have some anxiety pills in a pharmacy or something (idk if they sell it to you in…[Read more]

    • Try to relax and calm yourself @justagxrl, I’m sure you’ll have an awesome time in Spain, try to focus on all the wonderful things you will do, don’t let horrible people get you down, there are many more nicer and compassionate people out there, keep smiling and don’t give up, things will be OK, you can do it, I’ll always be here if you need…[Read more]

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    sad smiley posted an update 2 years, 8 months ago

    Sooo long time no see and I still feel like shit, I found out I really miss my old friends and my new ’friends’ aren’t really friends. Life has been shitty lately, I feel sad like every day but I’m holding my head high.

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    • Please don’t feel down @justagxrl, everyone deserves supportive and caring people around them, you do too, things will work out and everything will be OK, hold your head up high and be as upbeat as you can, you are such a fantastic individual who should have a bright smile on your face, focus on the things that make you feel good, you are a…[Read more]

    • You can do this! Me and @oliver believe in you ok? you are going to get through of this, and after a while you’ll look back and be like ”I fricking made it”. So head up high, you can do this :) And if you ever need some help feel free to inbox me, I’m always glad to help and cheer you up

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