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    Janna posted an update 6 years, 4 months ago

    I’ve been trying to discern my orientation, and I’m pretty sure that I’m not into guys. It registers if a guy has an aesthetically pleasing face/body, but it has never gotten further than that. Additionally, imagining a future with anyone male seems… off.

    I’ve never had a crush on anyone except two teachers (female). Then there have been a…[Read more]

    • How about queer? Some people prefer umbrella terms and avoid the hassle of fitting one label. @janna Maybe something along the demisexual spectrum, since you need to spend some time observing them and knowing them before something clicks.

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    Janna posted a new activity comment 6 years, 6 months ago

    In reply to: Janna posted an update I’ve always thought of myself as straight, but sometimes I am attracted to specific women. I’m not attracted to the ”good-looking”, ”model”-type men OR women who other people drool over, and […] View

    I guess I’m asking whether anyone knows if there’s actually a term for this as it would be nice to be able to explain it in a way that people can understand.

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    Janna posted an update 6 years, 6 months ago

    I’ve always thought of myself as straight, but sometimes I am attracted to specific women. I’m not attracted to the “good-looking”, “model”-type men OR women who other people drool over, and furthermore I am not attracted to the widely valued physical features, such as abs. A romantic attraction is usually sparked by a visible aspect of…[Read more]

    • I guess I’m asking whether anyone knows if there’s actually a term for this as it would be nice to be able to explain it in a way that people can understand.

    • People who aren’t sexually attracted to their same gender but experience romantic attraction for their gender on top of the one for the other gender, can be called heterosexual bi-romantic (or pan-romantic), you can check the experiences under that label to see if you identify with it. @janna (anyone how thinks I’m making it too binary can offer…[Read more]

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