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    Brooke posted an update 5 years ago

    Okay so venting moment…why is our society so stuck up on making women feel like they need to be perfect all the time?? Perfect hair, perfect skin, perfect body. God forbid ur underwear line shows on Jr jeans or ur not wearing something revealing, ur just not sexy enough or attractive to a certain portion of the male population. Not saying all…[Read more]

    Mood : Annoyed
    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      You will meet that special someone who will love you for who you are @brookyboo, you are perfect and unique in your own way Brooke, don’t let anyone objectify you hun, you deserve a lot better, try to stay positive and keep smiling, I want the best for you, message me if you need to chat, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone…[Read more]

    • Sorry to hear what you’re going through. As a woman, I understand the unreasonable expectations that are thrust upon us. Thankfully though, not everyone cares about looks and societal expectations, and these people are absolute gifts that I cherish dearly. I know it may seem hard right now, but try your best to keep your head up and be hopeful.…[Read more]

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years ago

    New years resolution… To take care of myself.

    Mood : Accomplished
    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      You will achieve your resolution and come out so much stronger @brookyboo, keep being the lovely and special angel that you are Brooke, show the world your amazing smile and stay fabulous, I’m always here if you ever need someone to chat too :) (hugs)

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years ago

    @oliver u r one of the most supportive ppl here on blah, u r not alone at all, I know I can’t speak for everyone but ima tell u that I think ur amazing and ur always ready to help others. We r all here for u and I send u a million hugs! If u wanna talk, message me, my ears r open, ur the best :) :)

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years ago

    It feels like I’m trapped within myself. Feels like I’m a prisoner and I lost the key. I can’t figure out why I can’t get out of this depression… And feels like nobody around me understands just how hard it is and how much of a struggle it is.

    Mood : Confused
    • Oli replied 5 years ago

      Please don’t let your struggles bring you down @brookyboo, you will make it through difficult times and come out so much stronger Brooke, hold your head up high and try to be upbeat, show everyone how truly fabulous you are, focus on all the positives in your life, I want to see you feeling amazing, you are a fighter who will overcome, don’t let…[Read more]

    • This community is full of people who understand you. I understand how hard it is when you try to open up to these people who in the end just dismiss your problems and emotions. Though it’s hard I believe you are strong and you can get out of this depression. We can all help each other out. Even if others don’t have the heart to understand you…[Read more]

    • Hey Brooke I know it is a struggle as I have had a friend in the past that was fighting depression and is still is in this moment in time what I would suggest is try reading positive quotes and if your religious or believe in god try praying that helped my friend a lot and I know it is a struggle and how you would feel if you want to talk about…[Read more]

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    Ever wonder if the person ur thinking about is thinking about u too?

    • Maybe they are thinking about you @brookyboo, I would try to talk to them about your thoughts and feelings Brooke, be as honest with them as you can, hopefully they will like you in the same way as you do them, stay positive, things will go your way Brooke, keep smiling and don’t give up, I’m always here if you need to chat :) (hugs)

    • I do, every once in awhile.
      In your case, I’ll bet they are. :)

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    Whats the meaning of life? Does it have a meaning? Or is it what we make of it?

    Mood : Confused
    • @brookyboo

      The meaning of our lives is to give our lives meaning for ourselves. There is no evidence that we were ”created” for a purpose that we have to fulfill before we die, but we exist nonetheless, so it is imperative that we make our lives into the most, as we are able.

    • You will find your purpose and the meaning of life @brookyboo, you were put on this planet to do amazing things and to make a positive impact Brooke, remember to do what makes you comfortable and happy in life, focus on the things that will bring you hope and brightness, you can do it sweetie, the future will be filled with so many special moments…[Read more]

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    Worst is feeling lonely when ur not alone

    • Please don’t feel alone @brookyboo, this community will always be here to support you and be there for you Brooke, I may not know you personally but I do care and so does everyone here, I want to see you feeling absolutely fabulous and being the fantastic angel that you are, you can do it Brooke, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me…[Read more]

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    Ever wonder if ur as important to someone as they r to u??

    • Try to talk to this person and find out how they feel about you @brookyboo, you deserve to be treated like a special and fabulous angel because you do matter and you are worth it Brooke, surround yourself with people who will care and who will have your best interests at heart, I want to see you truly happy and being supported Brooke, keep going…[Read more]

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    I don’t feel like seeing anyone but don’t want them to know I’m feeling down. I feel like I have to put on a face for everyone and I hate having to fake it and push myself. I don’t wanna lose friends just for this stupid depression.

    Mood : Ashamed
    • Do your best to open up to those closest to you @brookyboo, I’m sure your friends will support and be there for you, don’t bottle things up Brooke, you are such a fabulous and amazing angel who deserves all the brightness in the world, you will beat all your struggles and come out so much stronger, remember everyone on Blah is here for you as…[Read more]

    • I totally get that too!
      If you do have true friends you can simply tell them you need some time and they should understand. If they don’t, they’re not the kind of supportive people you should have in your life anyway. There is no time limit or deadline to getting better, and everyone is different in what “better” looks like. For some it’s…[Read more]

    • I feel the exact same way…

    • Everything u said is so true, thank u :)

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 1 month ago

    sooooo im already thinking of christmas…trying to figure out what to get my best guy friend…our first chirstmas that we r very close…i was thinking a picture frame with our first picture together in it…and a nice thought written on the back…how does that sound???

    Mood : Curious
    • That sound’s so nice and adorable @brookyboo, you could do something like that Brooke, I’m sure you will find a wonderful gift for your friend :) (hugs)

    • That’s an awesome idea.
      It’d be a very thoughtful gift, and I bet he’d love it. :)

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    i need some relationship adivce….idk what to do :(

    Mood : Afraid
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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    what should i do if my parents won’t approve of my boyfriend???

    Mood : Aggravated
    • I would try to talk to your parents about him @brookyboo, tell them all the good and positive things about him Brooke, hopefully when they meet him for real, they may like him, you can do it, hope everything works out, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Parents dont usually approve of strangers courting their kids, usually they only approve when they play matchmakers,

      but your bf is serious about this, he should show your parents his sincerity and his love towards you and his respect for them

    • thanks :) its mostly because he has habits they dont approve of and honeslty idk what i should do. i cant make them accept him and i dont want to be at war with my parents but dont wnana lose him either. i feel so torn :(

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 2 months ago

    why are guys so complicated??? i feel so confused i can’t figure him out :( or maybe its me i can’t figure out

    Mood : Confused
    • Guys aren’t all that complicated. Just be straight and to the point, tell him what you want and ask for what he wants, it’s really as simple as that.

    • Do try to talk to each other and communicate effectively @brookyboo, be honest and open with each other Brooke, you can do it, hope things work out, I’m always here if you need to chat, message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago

    how do u help someone with a drug, drinking and smoking problem? I feel so caught cus i have no idea how to be supportive and help and whatever help I’m trying to give, they aren’t accepting it…what do i do

    Mood : Confused
    • I would just be there for them @brookyboo, give them advice and try to point them in the right direction, maybe giving them names of organisations that will help them quit, it’s really up to them if they want to listen to you and accept your help Brooke, hope things work out, I’m always here if you need to talk, message me anytime if you want,…[Read more]

    • thanks @Oli :)

    • how can i help, I’m not even sure how to support them. i feel like what I’m doing is wrong but its best i know what to do

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago

    i hate life. just hate it.

    Mood : Angry
    • Please don’t think like that @brookyboo, you are such a fantastic person and a special human-being who deserves to live a life that is full of happiness, hope and brightness, hold your head up high and focus on the things that bring a smile to your face, great things will happen to you and you will be so successful, believe in yourself and never…[Read more]

    • thanks man ur the best :)

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 3 months ago

    Is it normal to feel stupid for caring? I feel like sometimes I care too much for others and I feel almost judged for doing so…is that my crazy messed up way of thinking??

    Mood : Confused
    • Depends, sometimes we care more than we reasonably should, talk the details with a friend to find out if your caring is ok or it’s too much.

    • Not really. You feel stupid cause you know you’re wasting your time on someone who doesn’t deserve it, while you could spend time with an awesome person who truly apreciates what you do for him/her

    • Do keep caring about others @brookyboo, it’s shows you are a lovely and sweet human-being Brooke, don’t feel bad about it, embrace it and be proud of it, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to talk :) (hugs)

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 5 months ago

    life sucks. i hate it. why do i have so much bad luck??

    Mood : Anxious
    • Please don’t think like that @brookyboo, you are such an incredible and special individual Brooke who deserves to feel so wonderful and happy, things will be OK and everything will work out, focus on the things that make you feel good and that make you smile, great things will happen to you and you will achieve all your goals and dreams, don’t…[Read more]

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    Brooke posted an update 5 years, 11 months ago

    There is a rainbow after the storm.

    Mood : Hopeful
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