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    Cecelia posted an update 5 days, 16 hours ago

    How do I solve this

    • You will solve all your battles and come out so much stronger @invincible, don’t let anything bring you down or stand in your way Cecelia, you are a fabulous person who truly deserves to smile and feel beautiful, everything will be OK sweetie, hold your head up high, believe in yourself and never give up, remember you are a survivor Cecelia,…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 days ago

    The fact that I am more afraid of the verbal taunts from my family than the reality of getting hurt speaks volumes and is sickening. I feel as if my fear and my life and almost all the suffering I feel is due to other people. How they treated me and now the fear of how they will treat me. How do I stop giving them so much control?!!

    • Your family have absolutely no right to be horrible towards you @invincible, don’t let fear and the meanness of others control you sweetie, focus on being around positivity, love and brightness, so many amazing people who will show you the kindness you truly deserve are out there, remember the BT community will always be here for you and so will…[Read more]

    • thanks Oli. Today has been good except for a minor issue that has happened, but I am trying not to let the harsh treatment from others get me down <3

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    ALL I EVER DO IS BE THERE LIKE A TRUE, CARING FRIEND. Because I do care. AND I GET TREATED SO POORLY FOR IT.

    God, I hate hate hate this. I’ve been bred to be a dependent person who seems to be not allowed to feel for myself. I wish I didn’t, but I can’t help it when the ones I care about treat me like absolute garbage.

    • I don’t want to see you being treated badly by anyone @invincible, you are such a beautiful, caring and compassionate angel who deserves to be surrounded by people who will show you love, kindness, empathy and positivity, do get your thoughts, feelings and emotions out in a good way sweetie and don’t let anyone stop you expressing yourself…[Read more]

    • @invincible girl fuck that person. You always seem super caring, you know deep down you deserve better!
      Much love <3

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    Feeling sick from the heat. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. I plan on standing up for myself a few times to change some irritating things going on.
    The highlight of my day has been liquid iris nail polish lol.

    • I know how you feel @invincible, it’s pretty hot here too in the UK, do look after yourself Cecelia and stay cool sweetie, do stand up for yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down, smile and hold your head up high with confidence hun, things will change for the better and everything will be OK, always be the beautiful, incredible and special…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 5 days ago

    I wish people would be more considerate about how I can only get things done when I am not distracted and I am SO easily distracted.

    • Try to stay focused on getting things done as best you can @invincible, you will do amazingly Cecelia, don’t let anything or anyone stand in your way sweetie, I want to see you feeling wonderful, please know you will be successful no matter what happens, everything will be OK Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 2 days ago

    ’Tis a sad world where people will so easily and quickly take the smile right off of your face.

    This is my life, my decisions and my way. You are to respect that.

    • Make decisions and life choices that will benefit you and truly make you happy @invincible, don’t let anyone interfere in your life Cecelia, you should always do what makes you feel good sweetie, hold your head up high, surround yourself with positivity and never give up, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • As you said Cecilia, you are the only one that can lead your life. Make the choices that you think are the best and don’t let anyone make them for you. Also, it’s true what you said about how quickly an unfortunate comment, person, event, etc. can erase someone’s happiness. The good part is that there are a lot of things that can bring back…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 4 days ago

    Maybe I shouldn’t continue on with an estranged relationship with a certain family member of mine. Her and I see the world in a very similar way. With hope and love for the beauty of earth.
    It’s just she had hurt me by betraying me and neglecting me emotionally when I was young and needed it. I do not think she realizes this, but maybe I can…[Read more]

    • My only concern is that she is connected to the side of the family I strongly deteste and want nothing apart of. Like I said, just keeping in touch. Not like I need to tell her anything more than just sending inspirational quotes and interesting videos as we often did in the past.

    • I would only maintain contact with her if you are really close, if she treats you right and makes you happy @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and kind angel who deserves a family that loves and supports you unconditionally sweetie, I want to see you being appreciated and respected by those closest to you Cecelia, hope everything works…[Read more]

    • Keep the relationship at a level that you feel comfortable. Sometimes we force ourselves to be around people because we feel bad about ending it, but that can have even worse consecuences and hurting us. It looks like you are very determined and know well how to lead that relationship so you are not hurt anymore. Just don’t let other people…[Read more]

    • thank you Marta and Oli, this means so much. ♥you are so incredibly helpful and supportive!

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    I just love it when I finally get to focus on something I have struggled with for days, just to be yet again distracted and anxious from loud POPPING noises of fireworks outside. Love it, thank you so much you disgusting neighbors. It’s not even JULY yet….

    • Don’t let your struggles get you down @invincible, I want to see you truly happy and making each day bright, beautiful and wonderful Cecelia, you will win all your battles because you are a survivor sweetie, your neighbours really should be considerate and respectful, try to focus on getting yourself to a good place emotionally and mentally…[Read more]

    • It’s really frustrating when something like that happens, when your mind is finally focused in an important task and all of a sudden it’s all over. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and keep working on, I know you’ll be focused again in less than you think dear. Don’t give up!!

    • Thank you so much! ♥♥♥♥

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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 5 days ago

    Consumed in a world of my own at the moment

    • Try to stay focused on all the things that bring you happiness, hope and positivity @invincible, so many people love, care and appreciate you sweetie, you are a truly beautiful and amazing soul Cecelia who brings compassion, warmth and empathy to all of us on BT, keep smiling hun and never give up, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to…[Read more]

    • ♥♥♥♥♥♥

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    aireens posted an update 3 weeks, 1 day ago

    please help….
    how do you console someone who feels feels sad/depressed and dosnt want to talk or interact with anyone…they feel tired

    • it is via chat… im saying this because irl interaction and chat interaction is very different for me :(

    • I don’t want to see you feeling sad, depressed or down @aireens, you are such a beautiful, special and amazing angel who deserves to have a bright and lovely smile on her face, everything will be OK sweetie, you have so much courage and bravery inside and out, hold your head up high and keep fighting Aireens, you will win all your battles, you…[Read more]

    • thank you oli for the concern! but im thankful to say that im feeling alright, its my friend who i am worried about :( shes feeling out of it and i dont know how to help her

    • That’s OK @aireens, I’ll always be here for you Aireens, I would keep being the compassionate, kind and sweet friend that you are towards her Aireens, let her know you care about her and want to see her happy, if she needs a shoulder to cry on, you can be that shoulder for her, hope everything works out for both you and your friend Aireens,…[Read more]

    • @aireens I was reading this the other day, if you take away the ”it’s too much for me” element, there are still some good tips and links to other posts and resources you can use: https://captainawkward.com/2018/06/20/1116-helping-someone-who-doesnt-seem-to-want-help-group-chat-edition/

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    Angel posted an update 3 weeks, 3 days ago

    What do I stand for?

    • You are a wonderful, special and fantastic person who stands for respect, kindness and love @dizzydaydreamer333, please know you are truly awesome and deserve to feel positive about yourself, hold your head up high, smile and keep going forward with confidence, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    Why do people constantly seek attention and comfort from people with low empathy

    • Everyone deserves compassionate people around them, you do too @invincible, I want to see you being surrounded by kindness, love and care sweetie, remember the BT community will always be here for you and so will I, smile and keep going forward hun, you can do it Cecelia, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never…[Read more]

    • Maybe in the beginnig it’s not noticeable that these people has not very high empathy. Or maybe the people who seek attention from low empaths are very dependent and just cling onto the ones that are near them, independently the level of empathy they have. Any way, try to surround yourself by peple that cares about you Cecilia, you deserve it!

    • ♥♥♥

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    Flameaura posted an update 4 weeks, 1 day ago

    I have a group project meeting tomorrow morning in school even though it’s school break; I’m too lazy to attend so does anyone have any good excuses for not turning up for group meetings? Also, note that I have choir practice in school later in the evening, so I hope I don’t get seen by my groupmates. I can’t use the “I’m sick” excuse…[Read more]

    Mood : Tired
    • Well I would just try to avoid going if you don’t feel like it @flameaura, I would only attend these activities if they truly make you smile and bring you enjoyment, it’s OK to take a break when you need too, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • You can say that you are busy or have an important appointment at the time of the meeting if it’s a really distressing activity for you.

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 month ago

    My week has been fantastic! Supe great, I am very fortunate!

    • Oli replied 1 month ago

      Glad to see that things are going well for you @invincible, you are such a beautiful, incredible and special angel who truly deserves all the best out of life Cecelia, I’m sure things will continue going awesomely for you sweetie, stay upbeat, keep smiling and never give up hun, you can do it, inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • It’s fantastic to read you had such a wonderful week @invincible, you really deserve it! I feel very happy for you, and I’m sure it will be even better. Keep going!! <3

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