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    Anirudh posted an update 5 years, 7 months ago

    .For obvious reasons,I guess there is a rant to come out from my side.This happened last week.I shouted on a someone who is way too close to someone that I know.Pretty badly.Although I instantly regretted that up(Even shed some tears,what I had done was irreparable).But all I feel is that Ive permanently screwed up whatever relation I had between me and that person(Its fine,I wont blame it on that person either,it was my fault to make and I cracked up,badly).What I have to say is that the people who are reading it and who have severe anger issues,never ever ever shout on anyone,no matter if it’s someone close or someone not at all related to you.Words pierce you more badly than everything.And once realization hits you,you wont be able to forgive yourself(like the way I am right now).For the love of god,dont spew out anger.
    Ive to probably live with this regret for the rest of my life.Take my case as a lesson and stay away from this

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    • Don’t let your past mistakes get you down @itsanirudhagain, learn from them and try to move forward if you can, everyone at some point in their lives has done something they regret, I would try to talk to the person who you had a disagreement with and see if you can build bridges with them, hopefully you will make up with them and your relationship will become stronger, things will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Let it sink for awhile, if you really don’t feel okay about what happened, apologize sincerely and wholeheartedly. I’m sure that person will understand, don’t be upset, people make mistakes and that’s how we learn.

    • Hey just came across your post. Everyone in life makes mistakes and have they accepted your apology? As long as you know you have apologised and done the right thing no need to regret it. Maybe there was a reason why that relationship/friendship lasted that time.

      Stay blessed, positive vibes your way