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    Katherine posted an update 1 month, 2 weeks ago

    daily reminder ~
    you are loved <3 you are valued <3 you matter <3

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    llUNKNOWNll posted an update 4 months, 1 week ago

    Today’s my last day of therapy (by choice) I feel like I need more time with it but at the same time I feel strong enough to go on alone. I’m excited and look forward to this new year that’s coming up. I’m just grateful that I’m alive and well enough to be the best that I can.

    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      I’m so proud of you @llunknownll, I hope that the therapy you had was beneficial and will truly help you feel happier and better within yourself, remember to stay positive and go out into the world with your head held high and a sense of optimism, confidence and happiness, always be kind to yourself, keep going forward with brightness and never…[Read more]

    • Thank you!! I still have a lot of work today but one day at a time is the best way to go about it.

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    Excellent Listener posted an update 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    It’s been four-ish years since ’ve logged in, looking to help and possibly make connections

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 10 months, 1 week ago

    Goodbyes are not forever,
    Goodbyes are not the end;
    It simply means I’ll miss you
    Until we meet again.

    Mood : Sad
    • I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy, positive and upbeat moments you spent with the person you miss, all the times you laughed and had fun together, I’m sure that wherever they are now, that they miss you too, be strong and brave, you will make it through this, I’m always here if you need to talk, chat or…[Read more]

    • thanks alot … i have a huge support system on discord all his friends and family have gathered together to support each other im thankful for them and for friends like you

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

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    mini_beethoven posted an update 10 months, 1 week ago

    Hello everyone! Long time no post! I’m doing alright, the past 2 or so weeks have been difficult with just so much loss recently. I’m just thankful that it’s summer time and I can spend more time in sunshine! Hope everyone else is doing well. I also should update my pfp lol.

    Mood : Content
    • Please remember to take care of yourself @kittymew, it can be difficult going through loss Kayla, but remember to focus on all the happy, upbeat and positive moments, surround yourself with all the things that recall better times and surround yourself with love, compassion and empathy, you can do it Kayla, do have a great summer and keep smiling…[Read more]

    • Welcome back Kayla :) . I’m sorry to read that you’ve suffered a recent loss, it’s something very difficult to go through. Although, it’s nice that you are looking forward the summer and to spend time outside! It’s does good for body and mind <3

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    Oli posted an update 12 months ago

    I’m so sad, things never work out for me, they always end up going badly no matter how hard I try. :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • I’m so sorry Oli, please don’t let a few bumps in the road discourage you from living up to your full potential. Unfortunately life sucks a lot – but you have endless support from us here – we all genuinely care about you and know that you will succeed in life and things will look up for you. Have the faith we all have in you – but it’s OK to…[Read more]

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    Marta posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    Hi everyone! It’s been a long time since the last update. Not much to mention. I had good days and bad days. I’m managing my emotions with the resources I have, and trying to stay grounded. I hope you are all feeling okay and having a nice week so far. Remember to eat and drink, do something you love, and to treat yourself with kindness. You deserve it ❤

    • Hope you are OK @m1s1m3, remember to stay positive beautiful angel Marta, be kind to yourself sweetie and surround yourself with brightness, hope and goodness, fill each day with activities that make you smile sweetie and feel upbeat Marta, please know I’ll always be here for you angelic Marta, I love and care about you sweetheart and I want the…[Read more]

    • Thanks so much Marta. I’ve missed you and I’m glad to hear you’re doing well. Don’t forget that you deserve it too.

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    Marta posted an update 1 year, 2 months ago

    Hello everybody! I just want to wish y’all a fantastic start of the week. Remember to stay hydrated, to eat something nutritious, to rest your body and mind, to do some activity that brings you joy, and to spend time with a loved one. You are important and loved ❤

    Mood : Peaceful
    • Thank you for always being so kind, loving and sweet @m1s1m3, you always give out so much compassion, empathy and love to all of us here on BT beautiful angel Marta, hope you are doing OK wonderful angel and you have a fantastic week as well Marta, please know I’ll always be here for you sweetheart, I love and care about you so much and you mean…[Read more]

    • thank you for this reminder, I need to really put this as a priority, you’re such a positive influence on this site. I appreciate you and Oli beyond belief! ♥

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    Oli posted an update 1 year, 3 months ago

    I’m so lonely, alone and sad, it’s hopeless for me :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • Oli you are a fantastic friend, who is caring, generous, helpful, warm hearted and sincere. It’s very difficult to deal with these feelings, even more during this cold season. Remember that I’m here for you if you need it my friend. You’ve done, and are still doing, so much for every member of the BT community, and you can count on us too to help…[Read more]

    • I second this!

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    Fading Echo posted an update 1 year, 6 months ago

    heads up, just ran into a wild pedophile in the listeners section of the vent/listen chat. watch out for anyone who tries to hypnotize you.

    Mood : Annoyed
    • It’s really sad that the chat it’s not a safe place for venters either listeners… Thank you so much for warning us!

    • Thanks for the warning @985921sqh and that is really awful, I wish BT returns to being a place of safety, compassion and kindness where we all support each other, hope you managed to report this dangerous person, hope you are doing OK Echo, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

    • Disgusting. What a shame that you had to deal with that :(

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 year, 8 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update He really got me listening to taylor swift at work LOL It’s been 12 years since I used to listen to her HAHAHA View

    It’s nice to catch up on old hobbies. It can feel very nostalgic!

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    Oli posted a new activity comment 1 year, 9 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update He really got me listening to taylor swift at work LOL It’s been 12 years since I used to listen to her HAHAHA View

    Awww, that’s so sweet @invincible, keep listening to music that makes you feel happy, loved and brings a smile to your face beautiful angel Cecelia, glad to see you are doing well sweetie, remember you are truly awesome, incredible and fantastic, stay upbeat Cecelia, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

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    Marta posted an update 1 year, 9 months ago

    Unpleasant mood changes. My lows are quite low, and my highs are quite high. Almost no inbetween. I’m trying to find a balance between keeping myself busy with activities I enjoy, and letting myself fully feel my feelings to understand them and know where do they come from. This with the goal to work on them properly. Looks like it’s working for…[Read more]

    • You are such a brave, lovely and kind angel who deserves to feel positive @m1s1m3, don’t let your changes in mood break you down, focus on putting yourself in an upbeat mindset Marta and fill your days with activities that bring you happiness, remember to be good to yourself and work on making yourself feel better mentally, emotionally and…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much for your kind, positive, and helpful words Oli :) . You always brighten my day and help me whenever I need it. I’m trying to do as you just said, do activities that make me happy and to take care of myself. I love and care about you my friend, you are so incredibly amazing! Stay strong, and keep going on! I believe in you :)

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    Marta posted a new activity comment 1 year, 10 months ago

    In reply to: blackdog posted an update Just had a consult with a new therapist. He seems to understand what I told him and what he said about his approach resonates with me. Got an appointment for next week and I think this […] View

    I’m very happy for you @blackdog!! You really deserve a good therapist that cares about you, it’s helpful, professional and kind. I’m sure it’ll work out fantastically with him ^^

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    Oli posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago

    My past haunts me
    My present saddens and depresses me
    My future depresses, saddens and terrifies me because it’s so non – existent
    It’s all so hopeless and pointless :(
    I don’t have a life, I exist with no plans, hopes or dreams
    Just trying to survive each day without hope or positivity :(

    Mood : Depressed
    • You’ve put so much of your effort into helping others with an encouraging word. You deserve all the blessings and love the world can provide

    • The three of them can be terrifying and unnerving to think about. They have the power to petrify us and make us unable to keep going on. Try to focus in the little things dear Oli. You are an amazing human being, that only pursues for good in this world, and to help any soul who needs it. I and the BT community care about you my friend. You…[Read more]

    • I struggle with the exactly same things. It’s sometimes better, sometimes worse.

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    ◆☆Oliver☆◆ posted an update 2 years, 4 months ago

    1 year and 6 months ago, I’m shocked that it’s been that long since I last logged into my account on here. This website has been my escape ever since I was about 16 years old. I’ve been through so much and it’s crazy being able to see it sprawled out with my posts. From stressful toxic friendships to abusive relationships, it’s crazy to see…[Read more]

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    Krishna Pramod posted an update 2 years, 5 months ago

    still nothing has changed, being full-blown alcoholic

    Mood : Dark
    • Don’t be afraid to reach out for help, support and guidance @krishna-pramod, do your best to work on overcoming the triggers that make you drink, you will make it through this, remember you are filled with strength and bravery, you will beat the difficult moments and so many more brighter days lie ahead for you, hold your head up high and never…[Read more]

    • Hang in there, maybe try to attend some free / online alcoholic meetings or find blogs/ discussion boards. Why are you drinking so much? Get to the root, and you can gain control. It’s scary, but not impossible.

    • The battle with alcohol is a very tough one. Reach to somebody that you can trust @krishna-pramod, and seek for professional help if needed. Keep holding on, and remember that we are here for you if you need it <3

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    Red Sheep posted an update 2 years, 5 months ago

    Time changes, sometimes even people, yet I feel like I keep going backwards in my improvements :( I’m so sad.

    Mood : Pessimistic
    • Please don’t feel pessimistic and sad @jeles, you are correct, times do change and people do too but please know you will improve positively and amazingly Red Sheep, remember to always be kind to yourself and focus on all the things that bring you happiness and hope, you will find purpose and direction in life, all your dreams, goals and…[Read more]

    • It’s a never-ending struggle, good human ~ There is no arrival and we are all constantly becoming. It’s an exhausting and disappointing affair, I know ~ And there may be a constant feeling that you’re not doing enough or being enough. But progress is not linear, and that’s okay ~ You are exactly who and where you need to be, and it’s enough.…[Read more]

    • It’s frustrating when that happens. It’s a situation that can make you feel powerless, yet is part of life. Anyone can go through it, so don’t feel discouraged by others @jeles. Going backwards does not mean that you are failing, it means that you are living. Stay strong, you can do it <3. My inbox is open if you need to talk :)

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    Rain posted a new activity comment 2 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Cecelia posted an update i’m really noticing how much of a negative rain cloud she is. i will feel energetic, happy and proud and when she comes home, instantly i’m down. i got a letter from a publishing thing […] View

    It’s great someone wants to publish your poem. You should definitely be proud because you obviously have a talent. And if the negative Nelly in your space doesn’t see that, it’s their loss. Beauty comes in all shapes and forms, and taste differs. Don’t let anyone ruin your good mood. It’s disheartening you don’t seem to feel safe to vent to…[Read more]

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    Oli posted an update 2 years, 6 months ago

    Everything is so hopeless, why bother trying, I always end up failing no matter what I do :(

    Mood : Depressed
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