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    Cecelia posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    Right now its a rough patch but I feel like I’m about to go over the hill of happiness and success soon. Just right now I am overwhelmed and stressed, I moved in with BF and our place is a mess right now and cluttered and blegh, I have to bring my cat over to adjust the next next weekend that’ll be stressful.. I started a new job (soooo much better, and make better $$$), which has been overwhelming in adjusting to but its looking up, I feel like I have no time to do anything I need to to make the environment pleasing at home let alone time to do my productive hobbies or just even relax and enjoy my time and space, I’m fatigued most days as usual which dampers things… I am UNHAPPY with my body rn, I am bloated constantly and feel fat and gross which makes me feel upset and ugly and not interested in sex even tho I feel it but I feel like I can’t achieve it because of how insecure I am rn. It’s a whole mess. Buttttttttt I have faith because usually when its bad like this, I start going up. Healthy. Happy. Productive.

    • I don’t think a lot of young men understand how frustrating it is to be aroused but cannot do anything about it because you are so insecure or your insecurity botches the encounter u have with ur partner.

    • You will be OK @invincible, do focus on getting your home completed and on being successful in your new job sweetie, I’m sure you will get everything sorted in a positive way sweetheart, remember to relax when you need too and take time to make yourself feel calm and positive mentally, physically and emotionally by doing your favourite hobbies and interests, please be kind to yourself angel, remember you are beautiful and amazing inside and out Cecelia, don’t let doubts and insecurities break you down Cecelia, when you look in the mirror, always smile at the lovely person you see staring back at you sweetheart, you truly are perfect, fantastic and awesome in every way Cecelia, hold your head up high and never give up sweetie, you can do it beautiful Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • Thank you for sharing @invincible. It’s never easy going through a lot of changes. It’s going to take some time to adjust. I’m glad that you are happier at your new job. I can relate on the hardship of accepting our bodies for how they are sometimes. I hope that you come to love and accept your self in every way possible. You got this!

    • thank you so much!