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    Cecelia posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, socially & sexually. i can’t shake it and need someone to talk to. might consider speaking with my old therapist on a day off. i really care about him and he is the most understanding, sweetest, and attractive guy i have ever seen and been with.

    • I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all deserve a loving relationship with someone special, you do too beautiful Cecelia, I hope things work out for you in this relationship Cecelia because you truly deserve all the best out of life, keep smiling sweetheart and always be fantastic sweetie, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • You’re already on the right path Cecelia. If there is something that does not let you enjoy your relationship, or it prevents it from growing and evolving, you should bring it to the table and talk about your concerns with your therapist or with someone you can really trust. If you feel comfortable enough, you could address this topic to your partner too, since it’s something that involves him, and he could help by listening, giving his point of view and ease your worries. I hope you can solve it soon @invincible.

    • thank you @m1s1m3 and @oliver, your sweet and helpful words mean so much to me, you don’t even know. I appreciate you both so much and am hoping you guys are well, I am here for you as you are here for me, and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. Trying to set up a therapy appt now, and am going to talk to my boyfriend about my concerns as well this weekend and be open w/ my thoughts and feelings.