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    Cecelia posted an update 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    Feeling a little disappointed and hurt. It just seems that I will try my hardest to dedicate myself and my time to the one I love but they can’t do that for me. My stomach was hurting before we called for a bit, it went away when talking, now after hanging up it’s back and I just want to sleep because I’m hurt.and over thinking

    • They should do the same for you @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and wonderful person Cecelia who deserves to love and be loved, any person who you are in a relationship with should treat you with the support, care, love, compassion and kindness that you show to them, it’s great to truly love someone but they should always return that love to you that you give to them in equal measure sweetie, I would try to talk to this person openly and honestly, let them know how you feel and where you see things going, everything will be OK sweetie, remember you truly are incredible and you deserve nothing but the best out of life Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

    • Unfortunately, I know that feeling you describe Cecelia. Sometimes we try our best to be there for the ones we love, even when they do not reciprocate. If that’s the case, you should set boundaries, even if it hurts. Otherwise, they’ll keep benefiting from your kindness without worrying about you neither giving anything back. Something similar happened with a former friend of mine, and I was hurt for really long after I cut contact with her (because she did not change and kept manipulating me and taking advantage of me). When time passed, the negative feelings did soothe, and my life is way better without her. Give yourself time to think about the situation, and of course talk about your feelings with them, so they can change their attitude towards you. I hope you feel better now @invincible, and that you can sort out the situation. Sending you lots of love <3