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    aims posted an update 9 years, 10 months ago

    Just had a conversation with a Venter for half an hour and he tried to tell me that he was a ‘Creative’ and therefore he cannot be friends with normal people because they are boring. Yet he told me he was 24, and still living at home with his parents. He shared his problems about not being able to make friends and that he was very lonely and…[Read more]

    Mood : Pissed off
    • Jerks n losers that wat I called them

    • passing judgement on someone like that does not help them heal. Obviouly the venter is looking for answers outside of himself. Sometimes just venting ones frustrations is a big part of the healing process and what they need is validation because perhaps they come from an invalidating environement. The venter sounds as if he may have schizoid…[Read more]

    • I just want to add. I understand where you are coing from with your frustration! You took the time and energy to try to help someone. That is commendable :) I feel like this is an opportunity for yourself to do some self reflection upon your part in the failure of understanding and own it be responsible for it. It takes two to tango and by…[Read more]

    • You’re completely right with everything you’ve just explained. Having time to re read over my rant, I understand that people are in different situations that I am and that everyone is different. Trust me, I know we’re not all the same. At the time I guess I was tired and needing to vent a lot myself, haha.

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