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    Oli posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update I need to get some shit off my chest and just put all it out there in the open. I’m really frustrated with life right now. I’m not happy with my job and I feel like I’m not good enough at […] View

    I would focus on your recovery first @grace-mcfairy, look after yourself emotionally, mentally and physically Grace, make your life as stable, happy and upbeat as you can, surround yourself with compassionate people and a job that brings you fulfilment, stay positive and keep going, hope everything works out, inbox me anytime if you want to chat…[Read more]
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    rinseandrep posted a new activity comment 6 years, 10 months ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update I need to get some shit off my chest and just put all it out there in the open. I’m really frustrated with life right now. I’m not happy with my job and I feel like I’m not good enough at […] View

    @grace-mcfairy Good job on your sobriety! They say it should be a year without dating right? And, how long has he been sober? I think it’s good to talk about it, and to remember that waiting and thinking about it is probably the less damaging course of action here so don’t rush to a decision.
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update so I went to a young people’s AA meeting like I do sometimes… my social anxiety has gotten so much better since I first started going there… however i still feel extremely awkward in […] View

    @grace-mcfairy really happy to see how much you’re improving! You should be very proud of yourself :)
    About not fitting it don’t worry about it, I think everyone that is there feels the same. After all is not easy to talk about our demons you know? So keep going darling you’re doing amazing!
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 1 month ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update so I went to a young people’s AA meeting like I do sometimes… my social anxiety has gotten so much better since I first started going there… however i still feel extremely awkward in […] View

    Keep going to those meetings @grace-mcfairy, I’m sure you will become friendly with everyone and better yourself Grace, remember the road ahead will be filled with ups and downs, but you will make it because you are strong, believe in yourself and never give up, you can do it, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent Grace, my inbox is always…[Read more]
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    mariko posted a new activity comment 7 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update 45 days clean. I feel like I am doing so much better than I ever have in my life, but I feel anxious all the time and insecure around the opposite sex…I feel like the most awkward human on […] View

    @grace-mcfairy give yourself some time darling, you can do this! You’re doing so well you should be truly proud of yourself. And I’m sure with time things will get even better and that awkwardness will slowly drift away :) Best of luck! <3
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 7 years, 3 months ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update 45 days clean. I feel like I am doing so much better than I ever have in my life, but I feel anxious all the time and insecure around the opposite sex…I feel like the most awkward human on […] View

    You should be so proud of yourself @grace-mcfairy, I’m sure you will continue to stay clean going forward Grace, I know how you feel, I’m shy and quiet around people too, pretty much an introvert, do your best to hold your head up high and smile, you will attract amazing people by being the awesome individual that you are Grace, believe in…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update Ive never felt so unwanted in my life View

    Please don’t feel like that @grace-mcfairy, you are such a lovely and special individual who deserves to be surrounded by brightness and hope, you do matter and you are worth it Grace, try to focus on all the wonderful things in your life, everything will be OK and things will go your way, hold your head up high and don’t let anything get you…[Read more]
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 8 years, 7 months ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update 95 days sober View

    That’s so wonderful @grace-mcfairy, you should be very proud of yourself Grace, keep going and keep those sober days coming, you can do it hun, you are a warrior, I’m always here if you need to talk Grace :) (hugs)
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 years ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update “Recovery is the light that gives hope and yet offends your eyes after years of being trapped in darkness. Step by step you get used to a brighter side of life.” View

    Everyone deserves recovery and happiness @grace-mcfairy, you do too Grace, I’m always here if you ever need someone to talk too, feel free to message me anytime if you want, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)
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    Psychotic posted a new activity comment 9 years, 2 months ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update missing people who treated you like garbage is very strange and dumb View

    @grace-mcfairy It is when you think about it. But the part that misses them is your heart rather than your mind. The two usually have very different perspectives. And knowing when to listen to one or the other is something a lot easier said then done.
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    Oli posted a new activity comment 9 years, 5 months ago

    In reply to: Grace M posted an update Life is good <3 View

    Great to see you feeling happy and positive @grace-mcfairy, I’m sure things will continue to go amazingly for you, you deserve so much cheerfulness and joy in life, hold your head up high and keep going, may all your days be filled with so much brightness :) (hugs)