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    Madison posted an update 4 years, 6 months ago

    I have no idea what to do with my life anymore. I mean whats the point of living if you’ve already done what you’ve wanted in life?

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    • Enjoy the current moment. I wish i could already have what i wanted, but i’m still working on it. What am i going to do after i got what i wanted? I’ll enjoy that i have everything that i ever wanted, i’ll be satisfied and at peace. If you’ve already gotten what you wanted, then you don’t need anything else! You worked so hard getting it! Now that you have it, enjoy it! You finally don’t have to work for it, so it is time to be satisfied and at peace because the truth is, you never need anything else than food in your belly and a roof in your head. If you have that, you might as well enjoy it c:

      Hope everything’s okay Madison, you can message me if you want to talk about anything, i’ll be here c:

    • // I mean whats the point of living if you’ve already done what you’ve wanted in life?//
      -The answer is in the question in and of itself. Our brain works on ’instructions’. We give it instructions on how to behave and react and that is what it follows. The state of ’confusion’ or ’panic’ occurs in a human mind, when his/her brain does not have any instruction to follow for the situation.
      If you give your brain instructions on how to behave till a certain goal is reached and never think beyond that like ”what would I do when I achieve my goals? What then?”. Then your brain will not have instructions to go forward. You will then go into the state of ’confusion’ in which the brain starts to ’question’ somethings. The purpose of the ’questioning’ is to simply direct you to focus on answering them. By answering those thoughts/questions, you will be able to give more instructions to your brain and then you can move forward.
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      My personal suggestion is that, you assign yourself a goal/purpose/dream that you can never complete. That is unending. Something you will pursue till you enter your grave.
      If you do that, you won’t have to go through this state of confusion ever again because you would always have some goal or purpose to invest your efforts in.
      I hope this makes sense.

    • Continue doing wonderful things and stay upbeat @goldenretriever2001, I’m sure many more special opportunities and lovely moments will happen to you Madison, keep making your dreams come true and going on a journey of discovery and happiness, you will be OK, remember to lead a life that is fulfilling and brilliant, you can do it Madison, believe in yourself and never give up, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, message me anytime, my inbox is always open, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)