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    Cecelia posted an update 4 days, 19 hours ago

    Not me having a spicy dream w/ my boyfriend whom i am super passionate about in every single way, and then in the dream suddenly my ex (big regret disgust) and BOSS (abusive) show up… totally ruined my mood this morning LOL. having anxious dreams lately. :(

    • You truly deserve to have dreams about and spend time with people who bring you happiness, love and support @invincible, don’t let anxiety and horrible people get you down beautiful Cecelia, remember to focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger and letting each day guide you with positivity, hope and brightness sweetie, smile…[Read more]

    • *facpalm* Absolutely ruined the dream xD. The worst part it’s that you wake up with negative feelings that are hard to shake off during the day. Try to do relaxing routines before bed time, so the chances to have bad dreams decrease.

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    Cecelia posted an update 5 days, 16 hours ago

    My parent is gatekeeping the $$$ and info from my accident and new car opportunities which is just pushing me even more to get out and be independent, I just need to get my spending and saving in order…

    • and i can’t start to do credit because apparently you hagve to have a histor yof it but I never have??? frustrating. real world sucks. but i love it because i can be INDEPENDENT. all i crave.

    • Do take care of yourself @invincible, it’s great to see you striving to be independent wonderful Cecelia, hope you recover from your accident, do look after your money and vehicle sweetie, remember to budget wisely, spend only what you need and budget wisely, I’m sure you will lead a truly positive, fulfilling and meaningful life Cecelia, always…[Read more]

    • thank you so much Oli, I need to just remember to and apply budgeting to my life, especially since I have to look after myself first, my cat, and now my life with my new love who i think is the one. it’s big responsibilites but i want it more than anything.

    • It’s so frustrating that the ones who are supposed to take care of you and give you the resources to be an independent adult, do not let you grow and live your life. You are very determined and hard working Cecelia. I know you’ll fulfill your goal to live with your significant other and your cat in a home you’ll call your own. As you said, all…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 week, 4 days ago

    Yes, it’s moving fast. But it’s my life. My choices and my relationship. Moving this fast could result in a marriage of 20 years. OR it could end in a few months. Either way, it’s my life. And I am not afraid of living. If an outsider is, well, focus on yourself boo.

    • Don’t let anyone dictate to you on how to live your life @invincible, remember to be positive, optimistic and bright beautiful angel Cecelia, focus on making your relationship with your boyfriend stronger as each day passes sweetie, do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of your happiness Cecelia, everything will go amazingly for you…[Read more]

    • Moving fast does not equal moving towards the wrong direction @invincible. Just to give a little example, my partner asked me to live with him when we were just one month into our relationship as a couple (we were friends from a year ago). We finally moved in together when we were 10 months into the relationship. We are currently into our 2 year…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 weeks ago

    with a new guy, it’s on the road to getting serious but something keeps botheirng me and it concerns his past and the women he has been with, in a serious level physically, emotionally, socially & sexually. i can’t shake it and need someone to talk to. might consider speaking with my old therapist on a day off. i really care about him and he is…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 3 weeks ago

      I would talk to your therapist about your concerns @invincible, but do also talk to your boyfriend about how you see things in the relationship and where you want things to go from here sweetie, do keep the lines of communication open between yourself and your boyfriend Cecelia, be as open and honest with each other as you can, remember we all…[Read more]

    • You’re already on the right path Cecelia. If there is something that does not let you enjoy your relationship, or it prevents it from growing and evolving, you should bring it to the table and talk about your concerns with your therapist or with someone you can really trust. If you feel comfortable enough, you could address this topic to your…[Read more]

    • thank you @m1s1m3 and @oliver, your sweet and helpful words mean so much to me, you don’t even know. I appreciate you both so much and am hoping you guys are well, I am here for you as you are here for me, and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. Trying to set up a therapy appt now, and am going to talk to my boyfriend about my concerns as well…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 3 months, 2 weeks ago

    things are just really hard right now with a territory i’m unfamiliar with and i feel so alone, which i am, especially with dealing with this.

    • That’s the worst part about dealing with difficult situations… Feeling alone in them. I’m sorry you are going throught that Cecelia. If I can be of any help, or if you need to talk, remember that I’m here for you ♥ @invincible

    • Please don’t feel alone @invincible, remember you are such a wonderful, awesome and lovely person Cecelia who deserves to be in a place where you feel safe, positive and happy sweetie, don’t let the dark and difficult moments break you down Cecelia, look forward as your future will be so bright and filled with optimism, I’m sure you will get to…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    I dont’ think I’ve felt awake this whole year.

    • What’s on your mind? @invincible, remember you are such a beautiful, special and awesome person who deserves all the happiness and positivity that life has to offer wonderful angel Cecelia, remember to stay focused on making yourself feel upbeat and surround yourself with brightness sweetie, you can do it Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

    • That one’s quite a difficult feeling to manage. Also, the events of these past two-three years do not really help to feel awake. I hope you are doing better now @invincible. Remember to take one day at a time, and to take care of yourself. If you need to chat, you can DM me whenever <3

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    Cecelia posted an update 4 months, 3 weeks ago

    I don’t feel awake.

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    Cecelia posted an update 6 months, 2 weeks ago

    He really got me listening to taylor swift at work LOL
    It’s been 12 years since I used to listen to her HAHAHA

    Mood : Loved
    • Awww, that’s so sweet @invincible, keep listening to music that makes you feel happy, loved and brings a smile to your face beautiful angel Cecelia, glad to see you are doing well sweetie, remember you are truly awesome, incredible and fantastic, stay upbeat Cecelia, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you ever need to chat or vent,…[Read more]

    • It’s nice to catch up on old hobbies. It can feel very nostalgic!

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    Cecelia posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    Doing a lot. Taking up and building numerous hobbies, thriving in work, school, relationships… optimism and love seems to be overpowering any kind of fear and insecurity..

    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      Glad to see that things are going well for you @invincible, remember to stay positive and I know you’ll continue to thrive in all parts of your life beautiful angel Cecelia, keep being upbeat sweetie and always smile confidently and brightly, you can do it Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

    • It’s great to see you achieving so much and feeling upbeat, Cecelia. Keep growing that optimism and working on the things that make you happy. You’ve earned it!

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    Cecelia posted an update 7 months, 1 week ago

    I could cry with how proud I am over the simple perspective in the most miniscule way… just four years ago I was mesmerized with the story of Anna Karenina and I completely glamourized Anna & Vronsky, and I identified with Anna a lot.

    Now in a healthy, growing relationship, I find myself wanting just that. A healthy relationship with myself…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 7 months ago

      You truly do deserve a loving, fulfilling and positive relationship with someone special @invincible, remember to always be kind to yourself sweetie and please know that any relationship you are in will continue going from strength to strength, be with someone who loves you and who will stick by you through anything, don’t focus on those who…[Read more]

    • It’s absolutely amazing to read this! I’m so happy for you Cecelia <3. You deserve to be loved and to be in a healthy relationship with a partner that makes you feel loved and secure, and that lets you keep growing and be your true self. I wish the best for you, you really deserve it @invincible

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    Cecelia posted an update 7 months, 4 weeks ago

    Feeling a little disappointed and hurt. It just seems that I will try my hardest to dedicate myself and my time to the one I love but they can’t do that for me. My stomach was hurting before we called for a bit, it went away when talking, now after hanging up it’s back and I just want to sleep because I’m hurt.and over thinking

    • They should do the same for you @invincible, you are such a beautiful, special and wonderful person Cecelia who deserves to love and be loved, any person who you are in a relationship with should treat you with the support, care, love, compassion and kindness that you show to them, it’s great to truly love someone but they should always return…[Read more]

    • Unfortunately, I know that feeling you describe Cecelia. Sometimes we try our best to be there for the ones we love, even when they do not reciprocate. If that’s the case, you should set boundaries, even if it hurts. Otherwise, they’ll keep benefiting from your kindness without worrying about you neither giving anything back. Something similar…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 8 months, 2 weeks ago

    Whenever I feel normal at work, a coworker will raise their voice or yell at me and then I dissociate and get triggered lmaoo

    • That’s not right at all @invincible, your colleagues and co-workers should treat you with kindness, respect and compassion, I understand you all have jobs to do and you are a team but they should treat you positively so you can work better together, I would talk to your colleagues and let them know how you feel Cecelia, remember you deserve…[Read more]

    • *sigh* I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for some people to be polite towards their coworkers. You are spending hours and hours in the same place with them, the bare minimum shall be to have some mutual respect and manners. I’m sorry you have to deal with that Cecelia. If you need to talk, my DMs are always open <3 @invincible

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    Cecelia posted an update 10 months, 4 weeks ago

    Love is and should be about accepting and adoring the good, the bad, the easy, and the hard. Not just infatuation and idealism.

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    Cecelia posted an update 12 months ago

    Now this environment is doing just what I feared… inflaming my insecurities and false reality perceptions, along with erratic and irrational obsessions……

    • You deserve to live in an environment where you feel safe, positive and happy @invincible, remember to surround yourself with compassion and brightness beautiful angel Cecelia, try to stay as upbeat as you can and focus on making each day as wonderful as possible sweetie, you will find somewhere comfortable Cecelia, a place where you can be…[Read more]

    • An environment that makes you feel like that it’s not a good one. If you are able to leave it, or spend as little time as possible there, the better. If this is not a suitable solution because of the circumstances, try to keep yourself grounded while being there. It’s very difficult to share an space with people that is constantly trying to…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 year ago

    don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch feelings don’t catch…[Read more]

    Mood : Giggly
    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      Are you OK? @invincible, do you have feelings for someone or how are you feeling, I’m here if you need to talk sweetie, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) <3 (hugs)

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 year ago

    So I’ve been doing actually pretty good??!!?!? ikr.. like wtf?? lol! So far so good, my new job is great, the staff is amazing and treats me like family already and I’ve only been there like one week… the work is pretty easy and I do it well with comfort p much!

    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      That’s so wonderful and nice to hear @invincible, glad your job is going well and all your colleagues treat you with respect and kindness beautiful angel Cecelia, hope you are doing OK sweetie, remember to keep smiling and always be the lovely person that you are Cecelia, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 year ago

    I was physically violated on mydate last week, forced upon w/o consent or ability to escape the situation, it wasn’t severe or r*pe, thank fucking god, but it’s still traumatizing to me and I keep having flashbacks… especially cause it brought on memories of when I was SAd as a kid. Ugh. I feel like I can’t tell anyone cause it’s…[Read more]

    • Oli replied 1 year ago

      I’m so sorry that happened to you @invincible, please report it beautiful angel Cecelia, the disgusting person who violated you had absolutely no right to touch you in any way, please talk to someone and tell the authorities too Cecelia, remember I will always be here to support you Cecelia and so will the BT community sweetie, you will make it…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    I’ve learned to not look for something relationship wise, I’m too deep of a person with deep intentions to look on apps where everyone wants some ideal now and fast. I want something real and meaningful and it will manifest when it does, at the right time, through something meaningful and worth my time. But as of now, I’ve realized I need to…[Read more]

    • One day you will meet someone @invincible, like you said, at the right time and the right moment beautiful angel Cecelia, you will meet a person who you can have a loving and emotional bond with sweetie, it’s good to see that you are focused on yourself and your own happiness sweetheart, remember to make each day as positive as you can and do…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    So depressed. Eating total junk, sleeping for too long and feeling like shit. I didn’t expect this holiday season to be so depressing. I’m so disappointed in my family for making me feel so unloved and so invisible. So alone. I do so much to make the holidays beautiful and to make those I care about feel seen and loved, and Ican’t gt anything…[Read more]

    • You deserve so much better @invincible, your family should treat you with love, care and dignity beautiful angel Cecelia, they should see and appreciate all the hard work, effort and time you have put in to make Christmas joyful and happy, please know you are loved and so many people care about you sweetie, try to stay positive and focus on…[Read more]

    • When you do so much for others and you get nothing but sadness and hopelessness in return, it’s absolutely not your fault @invincible. You have to stop taking care of everybody else and start taking care of yourself Cecelia. The ones that truly love you do not need constant proof of your love for them. Love goes both ways, and should not make you…[Read more]

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    Cecelia posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    Stressed and upset because I put so much effort, love and excitement into the holidays for my family members and none of them can even see me as existent. So now I just wanna sleep and eat junk.

    • Your family should recognize all the hard work and effort you have done preparing for the holiday period @invincible, you deserve so much better beautiful angel Cecelia, they should be aware of your achievements and be supportive, encouraging and loving, I know it’s hard sweetie but try to stay positive and be kind to yourself, you do matter…[Read more]

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