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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    It is with a heavy heart that I announce the passing of our beloved cat Neferpitou, also known as Pitou. He was the shining light in my life, even during the times when he caused chaos and tested my patience. I wouldn’t exchange him for anything in this world. Although I feel like I lost him too soon, there is never sufficient time with the…[Read more]

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy moments you spent with your beloved cat, all the times you played together and took care of him, focus on all the times and moments he brought joy, laughter and fun to you, be strong and remember him with love and positivity, you can do it, please know I’m always here…[Read more]

    • My condolences to you. I know that he was so loved. I hope that you can find solace in knowing that he was the happiest with you and that you gave him the best life.

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 1 week, 3 days ago

    I appear content, but I can’t help but imagine how foreign a smile would feel on my own face. It’s been ages since I genuinely smiled. This facade is slowly falling apart.

    Mood : Numb
    • Please don’t feel hopeless and numb @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a brilliant, awesome and lovely person who truly deserves all the happiness in the world, don’t let yourself fall apart, always be kind to yourself and surround yourself with love, positivity, compassion and hope, everything will be OK, hold your head up high because you…[Read more]

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    blackdog posted an update 2 months ago

    Life is actually pretty good even though I’m severely underemployed, but as I get older my unshakable feeling that I will never find love and die alone becomes more and more of a rational prediction

    Mood : Bittersweet
    • Try to stay positive and upbeat @blackdog, I’m sure you will find the right career path and job that you will enjoy and will be beneficial for you and your bright future, you will make all your goals, hopes, dreams and aspirations come true, don’t give up on love, it may take time but I’m sure you will find the one for you, you will meet your…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 2 months, 1 week ago

    I should know enough about loss to realize that you never really stop missing someone-you just learn to live around the huge gaping hole of their absence. ~Alyson Noel

    • Oli replied 2 months ago

      Try to stay focused on all the good times and moments you spent with that person @helplessandhelpful1996, it can be difficult to be without them, but you will get through it, make each day as bright as you can, and fill it with positive memories, you can do it, keep going forward with optimism and never give up, feel free to inbox me anytime if…[Read more]

    • thanks im trying my best its still super fresh wound and it hurts alot loosing someone i cared so much for

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months ago

    “The weird, weird thing about devastating loss is that life actually goes on. When you’re faced with a tragedy, a loss so huge that you have no idea how you can live through it, somehow, the world keeps turning, the seconds keep ticking.”

    • Oli replied 4 months ago

      It can feel strange that life does go on when you have suffered a tremendous loss but remember to always focus on the happier, positive and upbeat moments you had with the person you lost, keep them in your heart and in your memories @helplessandhelpful1996, know that you will make it through this loss and come out feeling stronger and ready to…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months ago

    “So it’s true, when all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months ago

    “Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 4 months ago

    “Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.”

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 10 months, 1 week ago

    Goodbyes are not forever,
    Goodbyes are not the end;
    It simply means I’ll miss you
    Until we meet again.

    Mood : Sad
    • I’m so sorry for your loss @helplessandhelpful1996, do remember all the happy, positive and upbeat moments you spent with the person you miss, all the times you laughed and had fun together, I’m sure that wherever they are now, that they miss you too, be strong and brave, you will make it through this, I’m always here if you need to talk, chat or…[Read more]

    • thanks alot … i have a huge support system on discord all his friends and family have gathered together to support each other im thankful for them and for friends like you

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

    • support systems make such a difference, I’m so happy you have that… don’t be afraid to feel sad for losing them, but also know life is full of things to be appreciated by you so you can remain hopeful and lively.

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    blackdog posted an update 1 year, 10 months ago

    Just had a consult with a new therapist. He seems to understand what I told him and what he said about his approach resonates with me. Got an appointment for next week and I think this might actually help

    Mood : Hopeful
    • That’s great to hear @blackdog, I hope this new therapist truly helps and supports you in a way that is beneficial and helpful to you, I’m sure that in speaking to your new therapist, you will work through your struggles, find positive solutions and come out feeling so much more stronger, everything will go well and so many more brighter moments…[Read more]

    • I’m very happy for you @blackdog!! You really deserve a good therapist that cares about you, it’s helpful, professional and kind. I’m sure it’ll work out fantastically with him ^^

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    blackdog replied to the forum topic A ship without captain in the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 1 year, 10 months ago

    100% Marta

    I’m surprised the hosting is still being paid!

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    blackdog joined the group Group logoBlahTherapy Improvements/Suggestions 1 year, 10 months ago

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    blackdog posted an update in the group Group logoGuy Talk + Girl Talk (United) 2 years ago

    Wanna bring this place back to life?

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    blackdog posted an update 2 years ago

    I decided to see a therapist since I currently have good insurance. I went through the entire intake including hours of paperwork and a very vulnerable session only to have the “therapist” decline to keep seeing me because I have a history of depression and admitted to self-harming 10 years ago. WHAT. THE. ACTUAL. FUCK. It’s not like I need…[Read more]

    Mood : Frustrated
    • That’s not right at all @blackdog, it’s totally wrong, a therapist should be there to help and support you no matter what your history is, you deserve to be treated so much better Blackdog, please don’t give up on finding therapy, hopefully if you keep looking you will find the right therapy for you, you are a good person who truly deserves to…[Read more]

    • I don’t understand why a therapist would not want to see a patient because their health history. I mean… They are supposed to help improve your mental health, aren’t they? I’m so sorry this happened to you, @blackdog. Don’t give up, if your insurance allows you to see a different therapist, go for it. There are a lot of them who truly want…[Read more]

    • Got an appointment for two weeks from now. Here’s hoping…

    • Thats really good news! I hope you got a great therapist. Crossed fingers! @blackdog

    • That’s good to hear @blackdog, hope this new therapist truly helps you feel happier and more positive within yourself, remember to keep going BlackDog and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    blackdog posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago

    Mood : Dark
    • What’s on your mind @blackdog?, I don’t want to see you feeling upset and sad, you are such a fantastic, awesome and wonderful person who truly deserves to smile and be positive, please know I’ll always be here for you BlackDog, be kind to yourself and never give up, you can do it, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay…[Read more]

    • Hi @blackdog! I don’t know what’s in your mind, and I’d like to offer a helping hand if you need it. My DMs are open if you want to talk <3.

    • Hi @blackdog! I don’t know what’s in your mind, and I’d like to offer a helping hand if you need it. My DMs are open if you want to talk <3.

    • Thank you so much!! I might take you up on that, I hope you’re staying positive too

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    blackdog posted an update 2 years, 2 months ago

    @oliver Logged on for the first time in years and it’s amazing to see you still here!

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    (◣_◢)Poet posted an update 3 years, 1 month ago

    @oliver , What’s up, I hope all is well. Thank you for continuing to be a kind citizen.

    • I’m surviving @poet, hope you are doing well Poet, it’s great to see you back on BT, how are things in life?, please know you are a wonderful person who deserves all the happiness in the world, remember to keep smiling and always make each day as bright as you can, feel free to inbox me anytime if you want to chat or vent, stay strong, you are…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 8 months ago

    “There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief…and unspeakable love.”– Washington Irving

    Mood : Drained
    • I don’t want to see you feeling drained, sad and upset @helplessandhelpful1996, you are such a wonderful, lovely and awesome person who deserves to feel happy, positive and upbeat, remember to smile and surround yourself with love, compassion and optimism, everything will be OK and things will work out for you, remember to hold your head up high,…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago

    “The hour of departure has arrived, and we go our separate ways, I to die, and you to live. Which of these two is better only God knows.”
    ― Socrates

    Mood : Restless
    • Please don’t harm yourself @helplessandhelpful1996, don’t kill yourself, you are such a wonderful, amazing and incredible person who deserves to be here, you were put on this earth to make all your dreams come true and to do fantastic things, everything will be OK, don’t let anything stand in the way of your happiness, hold your head up high,…[Read more]

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    HelplessAndHelpful1996 posted an update 3 years, 10 months ago

    Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.
    Lou Holtz

    Mood : Depressed
    • You will overcome any hurdles that life throws at you @helplessandhelpful1996, don’t let anything stand in the way of your happiness, you are a wonderful person who truly deserves to feel awesome, you will make it through the struggles of life and come out stronger, hold your head up high, smile brightly and keep going forward with purpose and…[Read more]

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