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    Ember posted an update 6 years, 7 months ago

    Today’s been really rough. I hate interactions with people I’m super excited to see and then they seem like they’re trying desperately to find a reason to leave.

    Mood : Rejected
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      Oli replied 6 years, 7 months ago

      You deserve amazing people surrounding you who will treat you with love and kindness @flametwin, everyone needs good friends in their lives, you do too, I’m sure so many others will want to be around you and your bright personality, remember to light up a room by always being the fabulous person that you are, I’m always here if you need to chat…[Read more]

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      dearestxchelly replied 6 years, 7 months ago

      either you gave them a reason to be like that or you’re just overthinking it, just chillax

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    Ember replied to the forum topic Almost Dating in the group Group logoDating & Relationship Gurus 6 years, 7 months ago

    @DJV93 Thank you, I should just have a conversation with him about my standards. Perhaps if I at least make my standards clear, I won’t have to worry about his not respecting them and we could move forward from […]
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    Ember replied to the forum topic Almost Dating in the group Group logoDating & Relationship Gurus 6 years, 7 months ago

    @rinseandrep he is not of the same religion as me. I would like to marry someone in my religion for the sake of my future family but I’m not old enough to see marriage as a possibility so I wouldn’t necessarily […]
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    Ember started the forum topic Almost Dating in the group Group logoDating & Relationship Gurus 6 years, 7 months ago

    So there’s this guy that I’ve liked for a while and for a while I think he liked me too. We would talk all the time and he asked me out once (informally and I’m not 100% that he would’ve thought of it as a […]
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    Ember joined the group Group logoDating & Relationship Gurus 6 years, 7 months ago
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    Ember posted an update 6 years, 7 months ago

    This guy that I almost date a while back and I talk sometimes, usually through text and snapchat since we don’t see each other in real life very often. But now every time I see him he seems to ignore me? But the other day, I saw him and he didn’t say anything, hugged me, and kept walking? I just don’t understand. And then the day after that, I…[Read more]

    Mood : Frustrated
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      Oli replied 6 years, 7 months ago

      I would try to get him to open up to you @flametwin, hopefully he will tell you his feelings and let you know about where your relationship stands, be honest with each other and see what happens, I’m sure things will be OK, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent, feel free to inbox me anytime, stay strong, you are never alone :) (hugs)

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    Ember posted an update 7 years, 3 months ago

    I love seeing that there are lots of listeners on standby here. Nice to know that there are lots of people here to help

    Mood : Thankful
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      Oli replied 7 years, 3 months ago

      Keep being compassionate and keep helping others @flametwin, you are so nice and lovely, I’m always here if you need to chat or vent :) (hugs)

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    Ember posted an update 7 years, 3 months ago

    I know for a fact that God is aware of me and knows me. We were predicted to have a horribly cold winter this year and its hardly been chilly. The only thing keeping me from cutting my wrists is that I know that it’s too warm for long sleeves. It’s no accident that my worst days are the warmest because I know that my wrists would have way more…[Read more]

    Mood : Bittersweet
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    Ember posted an update in the group Group logoScars 7 years, 6 months ago

    Relapsed with cutting again. I was doing pretty well. I’m not exactly sure what happened. And I was stupid enough to wear short sleeves today. Someone asked and I stumbled around until I lied that my dog scratched me. It was awful.

    Mood : Ashamed
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      Humanist Hope replied 7 years, 6 months ago

      Hello @flametwin. You’re doing the right thing by reaching out about your troubles.

      When we are struggling with our self-image, it is important to remember that we also have to be on our side. We have to be kind and patient with ourselves, rather than negative and judgmental.

      Relapse is a part of recovery. You are doing very well, and it…[Read more]

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      Oli replied 7 years, 6 months ago

      Please don’t harm yourself @flametwin, you will make it through this and come out so much stronger Ember, be kind and sweet to yourself, you are a wonderful angel who deserves all the brightness in the world, hold your head up high, keep going and never give up, I want to see you truly enjoying life and being the incredible person that you know…[Read more]

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    Ember replied to the forum topic Reasons Why You Should Not Self-Harm in the group Group logoMental Illness Support Group 8 years, 4 months ago

    This makes me physically ill. I personally have selfharmed and I find this offensive. I see that you are a religious person so I feel as though you might need a reminder of what Matthew 7:1 says “Judge not, that […]
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    Ember replied to the forum topic Do you ever feel empty once your scars begin to fade? in the group Group logoScars 8 years, 4 months ago

    I feel the same. Often, my bipolar cycles back to depression when the scars have faded a bit, and I add more. I know it’s awful, but I feel the need to have more. No one has noticed, so I need to make sure […]
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    Ember answered question “How can I cope with depression at school?” 8 years, 4 months ago
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